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子爵府

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1#
發表於 09-10-21 20:15 |只看該作者
我印印工人湊仔唔錯,家務ok,我好放心。
但佢較文靜,我小朋友一路都唔肯講野(近2 歲),打算生多個,想完約後轉菲工人(可以講英文同多口d),又怕佢湊仔煮飯唔夠呢個好。

好煩呀!點好?


公爵府

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2#
發表於 09-10-21 22:55 |只看該作者
如果呢個好,您轉另一個,可能會令您有先入為主的比較,未必係好事喎.
另外用菲您唔好諗住旨意佢教小朋友英文,極其量都只係幫助到小朋友對英文無咁抗拒架咋.
三思三思!!!


子爵府

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3#
發表於 09-10-21 23:27 |只看該作者
My hubby also asked me to consider this point. I think my maid is very experienced and i don't need to remind her as she always know what to do. I like her yummy dishes. I think my life now is even better than before because of her.

My boy likes her very much. We like her too.But sometimes, I just think is that good to my boy. I want my maid to motivate and talk more English to him when I am not at home. I am worried he has language delay.


公爵府

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4#
發表於 09-10-21 23:34 |只看該作者
原帖由 fatpam 於 09-10-21 23:27 發表
My hubby also asked me to consider this point. I think my maid is very experienced and i don't need to remind her as she always know what to do. I like her yummy dishes. I think my life now is even be ...

見您對佢咁滿意,呢個工人已好難得啦.
您都要諗下,依家個小朋友咁like佢,如您轉左另一個,會唔會令小朋友唔開心而更唔肯開口講野呢???呢個都係risk.
另外無人擔保新人會肯比心機同小朋友玩/講野.到時您咪仲頭痕???
小朋友遲講野有好多原因,您不如試下搵其他方法去引小朋友講野/搵專業人士評估下,咁會唔會好d?


子爵府

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5#
發表於 09-10-21 23:45 |只看該作者
Thanks for your opinion.

Be honest, I don't want her to leave as I really need her help if I will have another baby. She is experienced to take care of newborn babies.


大宅

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6#
發表於 09-10-22 00:12 |只看該作者
仲有一個 point 要諗既係:請既係工人,唔係管家/補習老師...
佢只係幫你做哂家頭細務,唔係全能...
英文個D,有既係 bonus ,無都係正常啦~~

小朋友方面,以前好多親戚都以為我係啞既,因為佢地係我4歲個陣都未聽過我出聲,只係我阿婆知我係正常既~

有時小朋友係需要引導,有機會係小朋友本身想要既野都已經有齊,唔需要再開口問大人,只係用眼神已經搭夠,就唔洗咁麻煩開口講啦~(只係個人意見,我自己係咁的 XP)


大宅

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7#
發表於 09-10-22 00:26 |只看該作者
原帖由 fatpam 於 09-10-21 20:15 發表
我印印工人湊仔唔錯,家務ok,我好放心。
但佢較文靜,我小朋友一路都唔肯講野(近2 歲),打算生多個,想完約後轉菲工人(可以講英文同多口d),又怕佢湊仔煮飯唔夠呢個好。

好煩呀!點好? ...

我想話你知,我之前一個菲傭啲英文差過依家用緊既印好多,菲真係無任何優點可言,用開既好既話千祈咪轉,就算轉都咪搵菲,除非你好忍得。


男爵府

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8#
發表於 09-10-22 08:52 |只看該作者
One more point,
Philipines maids are usually more
counting on their rights and benefits,
if you hire a phillipines maid to take care
two babies (one is even a new born),
they may complaint too much work,
not enough sleep, or ask for more
pay


複式洋房

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9#
發表於 09-10-22 10:04 |只看該作者
既然係好就無謂轉了. 多一事不如小一事.
不如你自己take up多d 同小朋友溝通喇. 只係靠姐姐唔得架


珍珠宮

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10#
發表於 09-10-22 13:14 |只看該作者
我由第一個bun, 轉印, 再轉bun
依家都係要用返印

bun 下下同你講rules, 你吾好諗住bun 一定會肯同你小朋友講野, 我係講講野咋 ,吾係講教

我請過起碼有兩個bun, 我真係以為佢係啞架

題外話, 如果你小朋友兩歲都未識講野, 要留意下佢其他的發展


大宅

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11#
發表於 09-10-22 13:48 |只看該作者
樓主, 吾駛咁担心. 我細仔2.5歲前成日都吾出聲, 問又吾應, 我都有諗過帶佢去check下...之後我帶多左佢去同d差不多大的小朋友玩, 佢依家3歲多d, 係k1成日講到吾停口, 老師打過黎投訴...


複式洋房

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12#
發表於 09-10-22 13:52 |只看該作者
我一開頭用印,老公話想轉菲因為講英文對小朋友講野會好D,但係得X女傭轉左兩個菲,點知一個比一個衰,第一個來旅遊,第二個打小朋友,冇禮貌冇愛心,日日黑面叫你抄佢,有野唔做,叫都唔理你,駁咀,有錯唔會應,令我勁憎菲傭,我唔會再用菲傭,依家轉反用印.


大宅

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13#
發表於 09-10-22 13:52 |只看該作者
我一直用菲, 依家呢個提起我兩個仔, 次次都係"she...", "...her", 死未? 佢地d英文真係...

我返工9am-6pm, 我只會叫佢幫我大仔(p1)默英文.


男爵府

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14#
發表於 09-10-22 14:20 |只看該作者
我都覺得最緊要個工人好,國藉唔係問題,e+好工人難求,我驚你將來後悔呀....


子爵府

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15#
發表於 09-10-22 17:37 |只看該作者
我在家有同佢玩同讀書,但佢唔肯講任何野。

我已經報名同小朋友讀N1(但要下學期),想比多D刺激佢,同其他小朋友一齊,可能會多D開口。

工人要再諗諗先,我都有D唔捨得,佢今年8月返左印尼2個星期,都有少少掛心,怕佢以後唔返。

死啦!好似同佢有左感情。

[ 本帖最後由 fatpam 於 09-10-22 17:41 編輯 ]


別墅

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16#
發表於 09-10-22 17:41 |只看該作者
vvmikeyvv,

Agree very much with you! My maid is just same as yours. I also can't depend her to teach my son English. Sometimes i also can't understand what she says. ALso, she always speaks in Cantonese to my son. Ha Ha!


別墅

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17#
發表於 09-10-22 17:49 |只看該作者
揀工人最緊要有心同你做,語言方面其實bun都唔系幾精呢!尤其是鄉下出來果D,自己都唔知自己講咩。我驚你期望太高,會失望啊。

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