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侯爵府

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發表於 09-11-18 18:15 |只看該作者
見到隻b咁得意, 又唔想我地老左死左, 佢孤獨一人, 所以想再生多個
但, 除左考慮錢o既問題, 仲要唸埋, 今年一月生佢o既時候, 羊水栓塞, 死過返生
當中經歷左好多神o既恩典, 未生之前, 神已經同我講唔洗驚, 將來有咩事, 神都會同我一齊, 我亦明白, 我o既生命唔屬於我,...但要再生多個, 心裡面猶有餘悸... 面對死亡, 心裡面好平靜, 但, 過後, 真係好驚要再經歷多一次痛苦
時間無多, 要生就要早d生, 如果唔係, 再一次羊水栓塞, 比較難救得返...
唸過再生之後都要做絕育手術, 但係醫生話: 而家d人o既婚姻兒戲, 萬一真係再婚, 你想生都無得生 / 如果而家o既小朋友有問題, 要生多個去保住佢地, 做左絕育手術, 你想生都無....留返條後路俾自己好, 而家要避孕都好易~

唉, 唸得太多..... 我都知生唔生, 生唔生存到, 全不在我, 但要唔唸, 真係好難...


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2#
發表於 09-11-18 23:38 |只看該作者
原帖由 pyjess 於 09-11-18 18:15 發表
見到隻b咁得意, 又唔想我地老左死左, 佢孤獨一人, 所以想再生多個
但, 除左考慮錢o既問題, 仲要唸埋, 今年一月生佢o既時候, 羊水栓塞, 死過返生
當中經歷左好多神o既恩典, 未生之前, 神已經同我講唔洗驚, 將來有咩事 ...


咁,醫生有無話再發生機會率大唔大先?如果大,我會揀唔生(其實細的話都未必生!) 在我角度,我依家好怕死,我覺得條命仔好"矝貴",因為我個囡仲咁細,我死左,咁佢點呀? 如果因為再生多個而一命嗚呼咁仲死,攪到兩個細路都無左媽媽!


侯爵府

積分: 24038


3#
發表於 09-11-19 00:12 |只看該作者
醫生無講, 其實都講唔到, 因為呢D真係意外, 不過如果生, 就要預備定上次對我有效O既止血藥, 一支針1萬, 要打4支
我朋友做保險, 佢識幾個MAMI都試過, 有D仲生左第二胎, 無事
其實我唔怕死, 面對死亡時, 我好平靜咁問神: 係唔係要帶走我喇, 咁我老公點呀? 不過神無答我, 因為原來佢已經o係半個月前同我講左: "無論發生咩事, 我都會o係你身邊..." 係我唔記得左佢講咩, 聯想唔起...
我一D都無唸過O岩O岩出世O既仔, 當然, 而家可能會唸, 但我更怕再經歷O個種痛苦, 唔知幾時完, 無力, 好似無野承托, 一隻手俾針針十幾廿次, 連轉去手術室/深切治療時, 天花版o既燈光都令我好唔舒服...
我都驚再生, 死左, 老公會怪佢自己, 會唔o易d細路; 但如果唔會有事呢? 我又好似令到而家個b好孤獨
我睇唔清楚神想我點做, 但時間一分一秒流走, 再過半年, 我就30歲, 一定要快d做決定~
原帖由 米水 於 09-11-18 23:38 發表


咁,醫生有無話再發生機會率大唔大先?如果大,我會揀唔生(其實細的話都未必生!) 在我角度,我依家好怕死,我覺得條命仔好"矝貴",因為我個囡仲咁細,我死左,咁佢點呀? 如果因為再生多個而一命嗚呼咁仲死,攪到兩個細路都 ...


侯爵府

積分: 24038


4#
發表於 09-11-19 00:22 |只看該作者
其實係尋日再睇醫生, 所以呢兩日特別多野唸~


伯爵府

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5#
發表於 09-11-19 01:40 |只看該作者
曾經係王國某討論區睇到相關討論,記得有個人講得都幾啱,佢話你地覺得個細路孤獨,要生多個陪佢,咁又係咪對個細嘅公平呢?佢嘅生存就係為咗陪阿哥?同埋係咪保證佢地一定會兄友弟恭先?萬一個細佬唔生性,第日咪做咗阿哥嘅負擔?

當然發言那位不是要阻止大家生多個,而係應該從你有冇能力去照顧和養育(包括教養)多一個去諗,而唔係為咗怕依家呢個孤獨而去諗生唔生多個。

咁你呢個情形,我都唔會博。因為無咗阿媽真係好慘,唔好話咁細個吖,我咁大個,無咗阿媽,我都覺得好慘,尤其生阿仔個陣,人人都有阿媽照顧,就係我無
You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You'll learn things you never knew you never knew
-- Colors Of The Wind


子爵府

積分: 13830


6#
發表於 09-11-19 09:59 |只看該作者

Hi pyjess

如果要知道是不是神的旨意,可以用一些避孕率不很高的避孕方法喔。我就是這樣生了第三個。老公講,我們在那個月裡有過嗎! 只一次就中了。

最近,我可能又懷了。

我本想只生兩個, 後來生了第三個,才感受到她的好。現在可能要生四個了.

希望這不是真的啦。

以後會采取一些避孕率最高的那種方法了。


你就算是30歲,還年輕。醫學裡 35歲以上生才算是高齡產婦。

[ 本帖最後由 ndw 於 09-11-19 12:17 編輯 ]


子爵府

積分: 13830


7#
發表於 09-11-19 12:28 |只看該作者

Hi Kuri

"阿仔個陣,人人都有阿媽照顧,就係我無 "

讀到這裡,我都想哭.

It must be very hard on you.

請不要難過,想想,有很多住在國外的媽媽們生孩子,座月子的日子裡既沒有媽媽在身邊,又沒有工人幫。 9個月大著肚子還要在家門口鏟雪,才能出街。


伯爵府

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8#
發表於 09-11-19 16:20 |只看該作者
不過當外國人人都係咁,就唔會覺得自己特別慘~~

話時話,未有對象未結婚就無得講,結咗婚嘅真係有仔趁嫩生,先唔好講變咗高齡唔好,父母未必真係可以長命百歲,既然結咗婚,就早D生囉,早D俾佢地享下天倫都好嘛。

好似我奶奶,依家年紀大,抱個孫都無力~~咁我又唔係特登唔生,係自己好難成孕,好彩最後天主都眷顧咗我 ^^


原帖由 ndw 於 09-11-19 12:28 發表
"阿仔個陣,人人都有阿媽照顧,就係我無 "

讀到這裡,我都想哭.

It must be very hard on you.

請不要難過,想想,有很多住在國外的媽媽們生孩子,座月子的日子裡既沒有媽媽在身邊,又沒有工人幫。 9個月大著肚 ...
You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You'll learn things you never knew you never knew
-- Colors Of The Wind


侯爵府

積分: 24038


9#
發表於 09-11-19 23:05 |只看該作者
因為有哥哥, 所以我地先唔記得左細B(如果有的話)都有哥哥陪, 都有哥哥愛錫, 佢地係互相扶持 (打交都有人同另一個打), 並非單向的細B為唔洗哥哥孤獨而生存
就算, 我地幾識教仔, 都難免會就個小朋友, 但小朋友之間就唔係咁, 就唔就, 睇心情, 睇成熟程度, 睇教養...
我自己有哥哥, 永遠無法明白老公作為獨子O既孤獨, 將來, 佢上一兩輩都會離開人世, 親如老婆O既我都無法同佢有共嗚, 一齊回憶親人所做過O既, 甚至傷害過, 然後因為"人都唔O係度, 咩都算喇"O個種空虛
就算唔係兄友弟恭, 去到O個一刻, 我唸, 都只係想有個相同背景O既人, 存在O係世上

不過我都好同意要考慮能力問題, 無左MAMI真係好慘, 尤其自己生日=MAMI死忌, 呢個罪名點負責得起? 呢個亦係我要唸O既另一個問題...
原帖由 Kuri 於 09-11-19 01:40 發表
曾經係王國某討論區睇到相關討論,記得有個人講得都幾啱,佢話你地覺得個細路孤獨,要生多個陪佢,咁又係咪對個細嘅公平呢?佢嘅生存就係為咗陪阿哥?同埋係咪保證佢地一定會兄友弟恭先?萬一個細佬唔生性,第日咪做咗阿哥嘅負擔?

當 ...


侯爵府

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10#
發表於 09-11-19 23:31 |只看該作者
嘩! 4個~ 好勁呀~ 快D去驗喇, 要保重呀~

"如果要知道是不是神的旨意,可以用一些避孕率不很高的避孕方法喔。我就是這樣生了第三個。老公講,我們在那個月裡有過嗎! 只一次就中了。"

嘻嘻, 我地都係咁, 結婚無耐, 就有左隻B....當初仲要話:如果一開始就中, 即係神俾O架喇, 點知真係中左...當初好唔開心O架....一來, 我未湊過小朋友, 無細佬妹, 可以話好驚細路仔添; 二來, 原生家庭唔開心, 總覺得家人=咀咒...仲有好多其他原因.....而家回望, 我不得不講一句"感謝神"....唔單單因為佢將本來應該失去O既生命同埋子宮俾返我(2008年至今, 我知道有5單同類個案, 2個死左, 2個要切除子宮先救得返, 我完整無缺, 除左係神跡, 仲可以係咩?), 神亦祝福我隻B好多, "無論將來發生咩事, 我都會同你一齊"真係無落空, 我屋企亦因為大家都好鐘意隻B而變得和諧, 老公同奶奶O既照顧, 令我見到"家"應該係點, 令我見到咩叫"愛"....

"你就算是30歲,還年輕。醫學裡 35歲以上生才算是高齡產婦。"

我都知, 不過醫生話過, 如果我唔係2字頭, 而係3或者4字頭, 佢都救我唔返~ 如果再生, 要35之前生....所以前日見佢, 佢都好緊張我點決定, 唔知係唔係因為最近O個單, 死者只有33歲...畢竟, 我條命, 係佢好努力咁搶返黎, 仲要完完整整, 醫院姑娘話: "醫生好努力, 用盡方法, 見你後生, 仲要係第一胎, 唔想用到切除子宮呢個方法; 所以我好感恩, 遇到一個好醫生, 會為我將來打算

生一個B, 真係令我經歷左好多...


原帖由 ndw 於 09-11-19 09:59 發表
如果要知道是不是神的旨意,可以用一些避孕率不很高的避孕方法喔。我就是這樣生了第三個。老公講,我們在那個月裡有過嗎! 只一次就中了。

最近,我可能又懷了。

我本想只生兩個, 後來生了第三個,才感受到她的好。現在可 ...


侯爵府

積分: 24038


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發表於 09-11-19 23:33 |只看該作者
"有仔趁嫩生", 完全同意, 生得出, 無力同佢地玩, 都唔係好事~

原帖由 Kuri 於 09-11-19 16:20 發表
不過當外國人人都係咁,就唔會覺得自己特別慘~~

話時話,未有對象未結婚就無得講,結咗婚嘅真係有仔趁嫩生,先唔好講變咗高齡唔好,父母未必真係可以長命百歲,既然結咗婚,就早D生囉,早D俾佢地享下天倫都好嘛。

好似我奶奶,依家年紀大 ...


子爵府

積分: 13830


12#
發表於 09-11-20 08:11 |只看該作者

我好開心, 我知道係炸糊 la。

我好開心, Last Night, 我知道係炸糊 la。

以後會采取一些避孕率最高的那種方法了。

I have kept the depression feeling away from my mind for 19 days (ever since the birth control system error happened) because of my faith in Christ base on my Bible knowledge (my knowledge about God) and my experiences with God in the pass of my life. Then I was depressed/down for just 1 hour or so Last Night before I knew that I was not pregnant. My period came.

God really know how long I can hold off being depressive. And He listen to prayers, I know many brothers and sisters have been privately praying for me and my husband for that God will help us to have a good attitude to accept whatever the outcome is by knowing that this is in His control for our benefit. This Faith is better than any free "anti-depression drug" without any negative side affects and I do not even need to spend money to buy any pregnancy test tool to know for sure.

Thank You Lord.
Thank you pyjess.
Thank you for those who have been praying for me and my husband.

“Our God is an awesome God He reign from heaven above with wisdom, power and love.”



[ 本帖最後由 ndw 於 09-11-20 08:37 編輯 ]


子爵府

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發表於 09-11-20 08:54 |只看該作者

Dear pyjess

Take a good care for yourself.
May God Bless You and Your Family.

Get a very good Life Insurance when you are still in the age that could be pregnant. I am serious.

pyjess
我都知, 不過醫生話過, 如果我唔係2字頭, 而係3或者4字頭, 佢都救我唔返~ 如果再生, 要35之前生....所以前日見佢, 佢都好緊張我點決定, 唔知係唔係因為最近O個單, 死者只有33歲...畢竟, 我條命, 係佢好努力咁搶返黎, 仲要完完整整, 醫院姑娘話: "醫生好努力, 用盡方法, 見你後生, 仲要係第一胎, 唔想用到切除子宮呢個方法; 所以我好感恩, 遇到一個好醫生, 會為我將來打算

生一個B, 真係令我經歷左好多...


Thank God. You could put this experience with God into your faith deposit account with God. Stand firmed with your faith in Christ. I have mine with my experiences with God in the pass of my life. Like a relationship love account between husband and wife. You know what I mean?


侯爵府

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14#
發表於 09-11-20 13:22 |只看該作者
I've bought life insurance immediately after recovery cos i want to cover my family, especially my son.
Thank you for your advices and sharing.... I am totally agreed that relationship between God and human is just the same as that of couples. Love from God is more in depth. The first time I knew that I was pregnant, I felt disappointed but at the same time hurting God's heart as I didn't believe that his planning is much better than mine. Therefore, this is a huge "deposit" from God for he assure me his kindness, his love and his plan.

I think I know what should I do...Thanks again~
原帖由 ndw 於 09-11-20 08:54 發表
Take a good care for yourself.
May God Bless You and Your Family.

Get a very good Life Insurance when you are still in the age that could be pregnant. I am serious.



Thank God. You could put this ...


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發表於 09-11-20 14:49 |只看該作者
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侯爵府

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發表於 09-11-20 18:53 |只看該作者
當然都會祈禱, 不過你知就未必會答, 而我就要決定避唔避...o岩o岩睇完中醫, 點決定都好, 真係要調理下先得~ 多謝你~
原帖由 cecichow 於 09-11-20 14:49 發表
pyjess,

nice to meet u here.
祈禱啦!睇下神點答你,你再跟住行,實穩妥。

god bless.


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發表於 09-11-21 23:56 |只看該作者
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侯爵府

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18#
發表於 09-11-22 00:08 |只看該作者
所有回覆對我都好有用, 都係一種支持, 一種唸法
幅相係佢兩個月時影, 而家唔同晒喇...影相梗放D搞笑/得意相, 如果唔係, 隻B會不滿...話我地泄露BB機密入罪, 罰我一世掛住佢O架~
原帖由 cecichow 於 09-11-21 23:56 發表
係囉!我個回覆其實都幾多餘喎, hehe。
你個仔好得意呀!我見到都想生多個。

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