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發表於 05-2-16 16:37 |只看該作者

辭職與否

我有個小朋友,今年九月讀小一, 不過,我先生要求我辭職去照顧兒子, 因為他比較頑皮,而且又唔喜歡讀書同做功課,而且操行都幾差. 另工作方面,同上司關係又唔多好, 好想唔做好耐, 但又唔想放棄現在, 因為公司福利非常好, 而且入息都唔差,所以我都好矛盾, 請在職媽媽給點意見.

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發表於 05-2-16 17:55 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

Hi super媽,

我也有辭職的打算, 所以好了解你的矛盾心情, 不過我就仲有一年的時間考慮, 因為我囡囡06年才讀小學.

我覺得只要經濟許可的話, 就辭職吧, 自己在家照顧小孩, 輔導功課是最好不過的, 特別是你已發現了你兒子的問題, 那更需要你花點精神去教導了. 否則等他長大了, 你可能會後悔. 因為我見過身邊很多朋友, 都是自己照顧小孩後, 成績及操行都好了很多. 所以我也有此打算.

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發表於 05-2-16 18:05 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

MARINAYIU, 你好 !

好多謝你嘅意見, 我想我真的要好好考慮一下,
太多事情要顧, 好啦, 我要收工, 明天再同你傾過. TKS.

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同你一樣諗咗好耐,不過唔同嘅係我老公反對我唔做. 但我己決定咗"門"住佢下星期就去辭職, 是否太任性? 我大兒子９月入小一, 小兒子９月入K1. 加上我己忍夠我奶奶了.
但可借的是我不能換樓了!

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發表於 05-2-17 00:56 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

marinayiu 寫道:

我覺得只要經濟許可的話, 就辭職吧, 自己在家照顧小孩, 輔導功課是最好不過的, 特別是你已發現了你兒子的問題, 那更需要你花點精神去教導了. 否則等他長大了, 你可能會後悔. 因為我見過身邊很多朋友, 都是自己照顧小孩後, 成績及操行都好了很多. 所以我也有此打算.

Hi, marinayiu,
同意, 但朋友說過是否應該診後生揾多Ｄ錢為小朋友將來有更好的生活嗎 ? 這是我覺得最矛盾的地方.

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發表於 05-2-17 10:39 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

jalijali 寫道:

Hi, marinayiu,
同意, 但朋友說過是否應該診後生揾多Ｄ錢為小朋友將來有更好的生活嗎 ? 這是我覺得最矛盾的地方.

我想我們之所以矛盾, 就是因為有太多顧慮. 我也有想過是否應該趁現在儲多些錢, 將來可以送小孩出國留學? 又怕自己日日對住仔女時, 會唔識教(因為自己都幾火爆)? 又怕經濟便緊了(可能會月月清), 唔可以好似現在這樣生活?
但這些是否可以算是多慮呢? 應該抱著事在人為的态度, 教導小孩成才, 才是最重要的吧.

你先生怎麼會唔想你辭職呢?

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發表於 05-2-17 12:12 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

Hi, marinayiu:

I also has same question for long time, and discuss with my husband (he support me quit my job if my elder son study P1 on 2006.) But I also think if I quit my job, my cashflow will haven't any saving per month. One of my friend said if the standard of the kids can't setup good at the starting time, it's difficult to chase back. I think this is my main consideration only. :-| :-|

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發表於 05-2-17 12:43 |只看該作者

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Dear all,

我又係想quit,但又十五十六......My hushand support me but my family members object.....they said it's high risk to quit my job. It may difficult to find a job have the same salary in the future if I stop working for a few years. And, I also worry about I put a large financial burden to my husband and both of us will have high pressure especially regarding the money.

Besides, one critical point that i want to takecare my son by myself is i find i'm difficult to live with a maid. Living with maid made me feel lost of privacy and sometimes i feel i need to please her (even she do something wrong and show her long face to me sometimes)since i hope she will take good care of my baby and cannot behave what i'm.

Money is not a big problem but still a problem ah.... lost of my salary make me feel a bit unsecure.......

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發表於 05-2-17 15:51 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

我個CASE同你好相似, 所以我地真係要認真想想.

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發表於 05-2-17 16:14 |只看該作者

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我未辭職前都稔住等個仔入讀小一時才離職，但我等不到，雖然人工好假期好，但同新上司唔係好夾，在這樣的環境工作，我覺得好大壓力，好辛苦，所以辭職回家湊仔去，雖然無o左一份人工，經濟方面會有一定的壓力，但可以每日親自教導自己的孩子，也很好吧！而家小一也會有很多功課，做父母的必須用很多時間去教，況且你說你的孩子較頑皮，我相信你要親力親為去教他勝過將他交比工人 :-P仲有，你先生都支持你做全職媽咪，咁你咪更安心去做呢份咁偉大的工作囉

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發表於 05-2-17 16:44 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

This is also the dilemma. Money + better life for kids vs take care of kids by myself.

I tried to be a full time mom last year. But I think I like working rather than staying at home preparing the dinner & go to the wet market... Also I want to take my kids to travel at least once in a year. So if I don't have work, traveling will be a luxury thing for us.

So now I am the working mom again. I think I will keep working to save more money for kids' future.

:-)

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發表於 05-2-17 17:30 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

如果做份part-time job 是否比較兩全其美呢?

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發表於 05-2-17 18:23 |只看該作者

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This is what I think, but part-time earn much less than my current salary. I get $1,xxx daily now, but I have seen an advertisement with 3hr x $22/hr. i.e. $66/day. Hard to compare.

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發表於 05-2-18 08:10 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

與其得$66/day,不如唔做就算,或者可以考慮下做補習啦,都有$80/hr.
我依家係working mum,冇乜時間同BB玩,所以BB成日都唔睬我.但係依幾日放假,我日日陪住BB,同BB既感情好了好多,真係唔捨得返工!BB頭幾年真係好重要,到佢大個左想再補償都冇用.我好後悔錯過左BB頭一年既時間,但係我最快要八月先可以quit,到時BB又再大d了!:cry:
其實你地老公有幾多salary先可以考慮唔做呢?

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Re: 辭職與否

I want to know also, how do you judge "經濟許可"?

foreverbb 寫道:
其實你地老公有幾多salary先可以考慮唔做呢?

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jalijali 寫道:
I want to know also, how do you judge "經濟許可"?

其實這好是乎各人要求, 對我來說, 老公份糧夠家庭基本開支, 平時額外消費(自己覺得都唔算好大駛), 另外再有些積蓄(即不是月月清), 就OK囉.

你地又點睇呢?

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發表於 05-2-18 18:17 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

Hi all,

我都有疑問呀... 依家我同老公一人一半咁支持屋企d支出, 如果唔做工就猛猛緊...我好努力儲錢架啦, 唔知要儲到幾多先係"安全"呢? 大家有冇意見?

我個人其實有好多目標想達到, 每個目標都要時間/$去做...(其實我完全唔大使, 想唔做工只係想多d時間湊bb同達成個人目標 <好似學音樂咁...>)真係唔知點算好... 供樓要$... 學嘢又要$, bb第時返學又要$... (救命呀~)

<<不過人生苦短, 唔達成自己想做既野, 咪好蠢囉?!>>

各位俾d意見啦!

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發表於 05-2-19 10:25 |只看該作者

Re: 辭職與否

Share the same feeling.

To case is even worse because I like shopping & buying clothes. So if I don't have salary, it will affect my emotion as well.

My husband though will support me if I don't go to work, it will increase his burden. Also he once said that with my qualifications, I should be productive.

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MaggieMaMa 寫道:
Hi all,

我都有疑問呀... 依家我同老公一人一半咁支持屋企d支出, 如果唔做工就猛猛緊...我好努力儲錢架啦, 唔知要儲到幾多先係"安全"呢? 大家有冇意見?

我個人其實有好多目標想達到, 每個目標都要時間/$去做...(其實我完全唔大使, 想唔做工只係想多d時間湊bb同達成個人目標 <好似學音樂咁...>)真係唔知點算好... 供樓要$... 學

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Re: 辭職與否

Hi all,

I can understand your feeling much. I am also struggling to go out work again since my BB has been 6 month old. However she is so "close" "attach" to me ar... I cannot leave her to my mom for taking care. She cries very loudly when she see strange faces. Surely the basic cost such as installment $ for house, BB napkin & milk powder, food, transporation cannot ignore. Most of my friend told me the first 2 years of BB is very important. I will save $ for family instead of using for myself. I also have my own target after finish my Master degree such as buying a new flat too.

Dora ma ma ?-(

:lalala: :mrgreen: :-| :wink:

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