"因早前己有傳道人到醫院和她談過也遭拒絕, 理由是她母親己替她在彿寺買了長身位, 她不想再煩家人為她重新處理, "
I think this reason may have a successful reply to her (some sisters and brothers here may not agree with here at this point) :
Accepting Jesus and being want to be with him forever is a faith or believing in her heart sort of thing. She can still let 她 家人 arrange her dead body in whatever they want and think about her in whatever way they want such as having a 長身位 in 彿寺. How other think about her does not influence where her 靈 end up a bit. Where her 靈 end up realy depends on her own free will choice. Does she want to be with God, Jesus or Not. That simple.
I think Jesus understand her financial issue that she may not want her family have an extra burden on arranging her death. "是她母親己替她在彿寺買了長身位" The money already paid and there is no refund. Even have refund, who is going to take care of these complicated errand? Her family member, not her. So, I think Jesus will understand.