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公司以前有兩位這類女人,大家似火星撞地球,明刀明槍互相說有骨或影射的說話... 同事們個個都怕咗佢地,敬而遠之 @.@

約半年前走咗一個,諗住可以有清靜的日子過. 點知...淨番嗰個唔知係咪悶得濟無人同佢"玩",現在成日搵人玩針對. 她職位不高不低做supporting,持住做了1x年,最喜歡要d後生仔女埋佢堆,同事們搵她做嘢一定要請食嘢,買佢怕.否則她就為難d同事,說好忙多嘢做/做唔切. 她又鍾意講是非,背後講老細壞話,仲要扇動其他細ge唔合作,影響team spirit. ~ 呢個人仲要响我部門, help~

以前我好討厭她日日來講"邊個邊個點點點..." 每次我聽完就算,但每次見她同一番說話同別人講幾次,長年累月我覺得她真係有問題. 最嚴重係有一次她連續兩日同我講同一件是非

mouth: 近年我多了工作量,根本無暇'應酬'她. 試過因為(覺得煩)唔想聽咁多無謂嘢/是非,借d耳行開,她可能feel到開始黑我面,我反而樂得清靜. 點知她在部門內諸多唔合作,老細叫成team食飯,她又自己約走一班人出外食. 老細問起我都唔知點答好.

她試過經過時"Miu"&"掘"我,我叫自己當睇唔到,唔好理佢,做好自己工作就是,相信有一天她會"無癮". 但我發覺越唔理佢,她就變本加厲. 在公司我唔想隨便和同事講,唔知邊個係神邊個係鬼... 亦唔想令人覺得我講是非,只向一位交得心的A同事傾訴過,A當然亦清楚那位"女同事"的為人.

係咪個個女人到了咁上下年紀都係咁,尤其是獨身. (我無意中傷獨身女士,只是想起對上一份工公司裏都有一位相若的,不同的只是她喪偶+大病在身,我唯有叫自己體讓吓)

大家公司有這樣的同事嗎? 分享一下你們的感受和處理方法

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梗有1 個半個響o左近.......佢地最鍾意針對有家室, 有男朋友o架同事。希望佢地快o的有人接收啦 ! Good Luck!

原帖由 靚咪媽 於 09-12-8 16:45 發表
公司以前有兩位這類女人,大家似火星撞地球,明刀明槍互相說有骨或影射的說話... 同事們個個都怕咗佢地,敬而遠之 @.@

約半年前走咗一個,諗住可以有清靜的日子過. 點知...淨番嗰個唔知係咪悶得濟無人同佢"玩",現在成 ...

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hehe - 4 out of 6 staff in my dept are over 50. so i get used to it already, as I will be one of them in few years time...

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依d未叫old patpat....你不用理佢..佢年幾大似老買老...好多時都係咁...我大肚時佢買野比old人撞親...個d...old人可以惡過你話你撞倒佢先...好野蠻...做好本份算吧啦...

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Our dept. has 4 nos of such kind of woman. Especially 2 of them are single....... They like to speak softly and laugh loudly in front of you. They are not hesitate to show you that they are now talking about you. They hate you were married, you can leave on time to take care the kids. (In fact, they don't want to leave early as no dating)

They feels that it is not fair as you never blamed by the dept. head (In fact, the dept. head always blame them due to they usually make big mistake). They get angry because your junior take sick leave...........They can say many things as they want even it is not their business. They are really horrible

. I hate to hear their voices and their faces........

I tell myself I will never know them once I left the company.:;pppp: (even see them in the street during lunch hour)

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原來依家咁多公司有5x女同事, 我成日以為女人過左50實無公司請tim....
5x仲要single, 應該都好難有人接收...

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其實我有諗過我需要份工
我做到五十都未可以退休
我都怕到時全公司都係後生仔女
自己又咁老
唔知會不會被人"其視"

有捨必有得有得必有失

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原帖由 五月MaMa 於 8-12-2009 18:44 發表
梗有1 個半個響o左近.......佢地最鍾意針對有家室, 有男朋友o架同事。希望佢地快o的有人接收啦 ! Good Luck!

真係有關係咩? 咁就慘...

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我覺得人越大越難找到適合的對象,因為要求會提升.

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咁可能部份人少,大家都算年齡相近, 啱傾d 會好d.

原帖由 doggie 於 9-12-2009 01:55 發表
hehe - 4 out of 6 staff in my dept are over 50. so i get used to it already, as I will be one of them in few years time...

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我真係唯有唔理佢咋... 叫自己唔好為呢d事/人煩心. 不過只係有時她太過份,都幾得人驚...

你講ge "old人"應該唔係你同事,係响街嗰d吧, 呢d我都遇唔少,不過算,轉頭都唔會再有機會見到,當敬老.

原帖由 SAGO 於 9-12-2009 11:30 發表
依d未叫old patpat....你不用理佢..佢年幾大似老買老...好多時都係咁...我大肚時佢買野比old人撞親...個d...old人可以惡過你話你撞倒佢先...好野蠻...做好本份算吧啦... ...

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我覺得呢類人好無禮貌,無論什麼年紀都唔應該... 無奈,天下多的是~

其實返工時間流流長,對同事多過對屋企人,點解唔可以同事間關係好d呢?

原帖由 2SonsMom 於 9-12-2009 15:18 發表
Our dept. has 4 nos of such kind of woman. Especially 2 of them are single....... They like to speak softly and laugh loudly in front of you. They are not hesitate to show you that they are now talki ...

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好多都係年資較耐做到5x - 退休的.
所以, 除非佢或我自動消失,否則都有排挨.

原帖由 gigi1020 於 10-12-2009 14:37 發表
原來依家咁多公司有5x女同事, 我成日以為女人過左50實無公司請tim....
5x仲要single, 應該都好難有人接收...

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我又咁睇... 我唔會歧視Senior,無論職位高低,反而我都加多份尊重. 有幾多可以在一間公司做十年、廿年、三十年? 做到5x/退休,他為公司都付出唔少呢!

原帖由 WinChi 於 13-12-2009 14:09 發表
其實我有諗過我需要份工
我做到五十都未可以退休
我都怕到時全公司都係後生仔女
自己又咁老
唔知會不會被人"其視"

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好多女人都係咁; 仲講到自己好岩; 陣陣有詞.

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原帖由 靚咪媽 於 09-12-14 12:10 發表

好多都係年資較耐做到5x - 退休的.
所以, 除非佢或我自動消失,否則都有排挨.

除非發左達, 如果我份工可做到5x退休我都願...個個月有糧出又唔辛苦...

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I am working in a small company (20 staffs totally), only 5 are ladies (including me!). 2 are 'old staff', they worked in the company for >15yrs...

They are both 難頂, but in different ways!! one is the type like you are talking, she likes to 投訴 others in front of the boss for small things. And she will be very good to her 'group of ppl'!!

The other one pretend to be very nice in front of everyone, teach you things, etc.... but in fact, once you do wrong (even little thing, such as typing error), she will 搞大件事, 令全公司d人都知先安樂!!

I am afraid that I will be like them when I worked for 15 yrs in this company...

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我部門仲騎呢,六個人,仲要有三個老女人,都係五十幾,佢地都係做佐三十幾年,老臣子,老闆仲好重用佢地添,皆因佢地識擦鞋,仲成日撩事非,終日閙人,說三道四,如果我有咩做錯野,例如打錯一隻字咁,其實真係好小事,就大大聲係到拍檯,話我點做野,突登要比老闆聽到,仲有話我唔小心令到佢就來死,成日都要幫我check住ｄ野，我心唸，你唔check,
要你來做咩呀，又話自已夜晚瞓唔著，唸起公司ｄ野邊d
未做，話我大覺瞓，我心唸你都痴線，成日係公司大叫，拍檯閙人，死都死自已ｄ細胞，我通常都唔出聲，任佢講，公道自在人心，呢ｄ女人因為佢好熱愛自已份工，無寄託，將自已全付精神放在工作上，如果一日停下來，肯定好快死，因為無人再比佢閙，因為佢閙人好似亞媽閙仔咁，又大聲，仲有話如果我唔想做，就自己話比老闆聽就得，我心唸，你都short 概，我無謂同你呢ｄ人顛，惟有大家等邊個夠長命，我剩係知道為佐要每月要出糧，只可以繼續忍忍忍，有時真係覺得好辛苦，我都唔知呢ｄ人係要中傷人，先可以抬高自已，才安樂，永遠唔會為別人唸吓，大家同事，一日對住十個鍾，仲多過屋企人．．．真唔明解呢ｄ人可以咁．．．
但無辦法，佢識擦鞋，放工又唔走，日日留到八九點，老
細永遠覺得佢係最勤力．．．，真不知所謂．．．

我拍止一個,最顛過個就係坐係我隔離位,有時真係做到心死,但真係唔知有咩辦法,鬼叫自已窮,頂硬上

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原帖由 mongmong 於 09-12-15 10:15 發表
我部門仲騎呢,六個人,仲要有三個老女人,都係五十幾,佢地都係做佐三十幾年,老臣子,老闆仲好重用佢地添,皆因佢地識擦鞋,仲成日撩事非,終日閙人,說三道四,如果我有咩做錯野,例如打錯一隻字咁,其實真係好小事,就大大聲係 ...

我司都有一個同類人，一樣5x, 不過佢做咗只係幾年，己經常常扮亞姐鐘意點人做嘢，鐘意小事化大，都係果句，鬼叫你窮,
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rose0619:

我都好同意你的講法，佢地就張ｄ小事化到好大，仲要好大聲，驚死老闆聽唔到咁，佢自已做錯就唔出聲，成日扮大家姐，一味閙人，都唔知呢ｄ女人ｄ心理係點，大家同事應該好好先岩，朝見晚見．．永遠唔識唸人個邊，以為自己大聲就得．．．我係費時同佢嘈，因為我仲有係到捱．．．如果唔係咁多人等著我養，一早閙爆佢，佢仲以為自已真係咁惦，公司無佐佢唔得．．．永遠係到篤人背．．．打唔通比其他部門同事，就話人地講電話唔做野
根本唔知其他同事係咪講緊公事，已經同老闆講，其他同事係到吞ｐop,呢ｄ咪叫知少少扮代表囉．．
我心唸你係到惡晒，出到去咪一樣比人話係死狗
一句講晒，鬼叫你窮，頂硬上

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