I have attended a seminar before and the professionals there said Mom plays a crucial part for baby to young kids. Daddy should work harder to win their children' heart.
My mother said I am not so closed to her when I was small. But now I am pretty good to her compared with my 3 brothers.
When my bb girl born, she choose 1st the maid, 2nd her father, and the last one is me (sometimes she even choose her grandfather as he hold her so comfortably and gave her snacks). (her grandfather is fat). I feel so upset. But it' ok now.