one night, i put corn (his favourite) in his rice, and he is very happy , can eat by himself amost 80% of the whole meal ( i just need to remind him )... but the effect of "corn" decrease on the 2nd meal.....
i didn't give the whole bowl at one time, even i put a little, sometime he seem doesn't want to take up the spoon himself. :evil:
i guess at this age , they should understand what we're talking (like, asking/ telling them should eat by himself) , but if they show no mood to do or doesn't take action , shouldn't we force him?