朱朱媽,
Of-course, I can understand what is your feeling now . I had my bb after 10yr I got married. 33yrs old is not really old , I bingo when I was 37 last year! Sometimes if you feel more relax the result might be better. My feel is same as your husband before "他話系你的就系你的 , 如果注定我們沒有BB , 那就順應天意 !" I know it is not easy to放下 , but 十分緊張和無法放下心情 really對IVF有影響 . Do you believe in God? I am a Christian, I pray to God and leave the problem to him, it make me feel better after that.
For the problem-sperm not a good quality, my understanding is if it is really in a poor condition they will use the method "mirco injection" (The Dr. will make the decision when mix the sperm with the eggs)and they can solve the problem for you :-| Don't even give up Ah! Good Luck!
Thank you for your sharing . I hope I can take it easy. Since no one give me the pressure (even my husband; my mom and mother-in-law) , the pressure is given by myself . But waiting for result is not so easy , hope that I can occupied the time-thinking with other things.