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男爵府

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發表於 10-1-22 08:41 |只看該作者
由大學畢業之後到現在15years,都是full time 工作.十年前阿仔出世開始有full time工人直到現在.我十年無做家務.

最近因各種原因,包括健康問題和工作不開心,老公又轉工加人工,所以suggest我嘗試下主力湊仔做家務,part time 在家接freelance jobs 做.

聽落好似幾理想.因為阿仔早上要返學,at least直到12.30pm(2 days), 1.30pm (2 days), 或甚至3.30pm (1 day)先返屋企. 我可以使用早上的時間做野,然後接佢放學.晏晝在家佢做功課我就可以做家務and take care佢,也要湊佢去課外活動. 

經濟上會ok, 不過會大不如前.(我以前搵錢仲多過我老公)

一方面我想試下唔做full time, 多啲時間陪仔,打理好屋企(必定好過我個工人).

但是另一方面有啲担心:
1. 我無做家務十年,唔知頂唔頂得順
2. 收入少好多,我要'洗盡鉛華",戒shop名牌手袋&衫& 錶 etc, no more facial and gel nails.....so on so forth. 也要少啲出街食飯(we always spent few hundreds per dinner outside, just 3 of us).

呢次改變真係會好大, not only to me, but the whole family. 真係唔知work 唔 work.


大宅

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發表於 10-1-22 10:06 |只看該作者
If you go ahead to try for part time and if doesn't work, is it easy for u to find the full time job again? If yes, why not?

If not, then you need to think carefully. Sounds like you and your family needs to sacrifice a lot.

I used to work for regional role (needs lot of traveling) and had high monthly salary but after have kids, I cannot work this type of job. Despite I can still shop for 名牌手袋&衫& 錶& facial, sometimes I still missed those days as I earned good salary. Luckily now my kids make me feel good and so I feel the sacrifice is worthwhile.


大宅

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發表於 10-1-22 15:10 |只看該作者
我都可能會轉做全職媽咪了,都有好多擔心,但只要見到小朋友健康成長我相信係絕對值得嘅,而且同小朋友一起成長係幾高薪都買唔到架!


翡翠宮

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發表於 10-1-22 20:37 |只看該作者
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原帖由 ahwoon666 於 10-1-22 15:10 發表
我都可能會轉做全職媽咪了,都有好多擔心,但只要見到小朋友健康成長我相信係絕對值得嘅,而且同小朋友一起成長係幾高薪都買唔到架!


男爵府

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發表於 10-1-23 20:36 |只看該作者

回覆 3# jonahlee 的文章

Yes I can totally understand your point of missing the job before. It's not only the high pay, but you easily feel your own value through work. Maybe it's superficial, but it's true.
But you are right too. Our kids are valuable. My son is very good boy and I do think he's worth the world to me.
I have to keep reminding myself on this point.
There's seems a lot of "sacrifice" but I'm sure we will "earn" a lot too!
In fact, I would work hard on part time job hunting/working.


男爵府

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發表於 10-1-23 20:40 |只看該作者

回覆 4# jonahlee 的文章

quote jonahlee : If you go ahead to try for part time and if doesn't work, is it easy for u to find the full time job again? If yes, why not?

Um...in fact I try not to hunt for full time job now. really want to try out this part time mode. Am starting some website biz (which is perfectly ok to work part time), the income might not be too bad. Wanna focus on that and launch the website asap to see if it works.

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