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發表於 05-2-26 15:50 |只看該作者

有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

如果屋企有兩個細路, 其中一個係BB, 我想問下你地返工會否覺得有問題? 平日大果個返學放學邊個湊? 買送邊個買? 或者時間分配方面有冇難度?

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mandy1808

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發表於 05-2-26 17:13 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

我覺得返工無問題，因我同奶奶住，平日大果個（小三）由我送上校車返學（全日班），放學就由奶奶等校車，再湊佢返補習．細果個（11個月大BB)，由奶奶照顧，餸菜，通常由我兩公婆下班後買定．時間分配方面尚算妥當．

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發表於 05-2-26 21:49 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

我都係在職媽咪, 我暫時覺得返工冇咩問題, 只係有時會突然好掛住對仔女, 不過返工後又會有番d 私人時間.

我對仔女平由工人湊, 大仔6歲幾, 讀小一, 返學放學由工人湊, 細女4個月bb 都係工人湊, 放工後就由自己湊番唒, 晚上瞓覺都同我兩公婆一間房. 不過放工後自己湊番, 所以有時都覺得幾辛苦.

買餸方面, 有時工人買, 有時我買. 時間分配都尚算 okay .

Emily_bb

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發表於 05-2-26 21:54 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

講漏一樣, 我個大仔係搭校車嘅, 所以我工人只係負責到校車站接送, 唔使送到返學校. 而我屋企同校車站只係行2,3分鍾左右.

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發表於 05-2-26 21:58 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

Dear all,

如果要ot怎麼辦?

SiuHak :exclaim:

:-) :-D

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發表於 05-2-26 22:09 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

我個大囡讀小二全日班...返學工人湊...下午我爸爸
媽媽會黎我屋企幫手睇頭睇尾咁...接番大囡放學...
個細囝因為太細個(五個月)...暫時唔想俾佢落街...
好彩有屋企人幫手湊咋...如果唔係我都唔放心架...
其實湊二個真係好辛苦架...D時間好難控制架...

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發表於 05-2-26 22:24 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

我份工就唔使點 O.T. 不過, 有時我兩公婆想過下2人世界, 就會放工後行陣街, 食餐飯先番屋企. 咁當然我地都信得過個工人先會係咁. 不過, 我地都會盡量快 d 番屋企嘅, 始終都掛住對仔女吖ma. :lol:

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發表於 05-2-26 22:32 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

i can only 買送 in the weekend.

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發表於 05-2-28 00:28 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

Mummy:

I have a son (8 yrs) and a daughter (8 months).

Everyday morning my husband will take my son to school then go to work, and I take my daughter to 育嬰院 then to work.

My son will go to my mama home after school by school bus, and I will go my mama home to have dinner and back home with my son at night. My husband need to OT all teh time, so he will go home directly & only have dinner with us when he have time.

The 育嬰院 which my dughter stay overnight, so I wiil only take my daughter home on Wed, Fri to Sun.

But KMB really earn many $ from my family, as I live in Choi Hung, my son study in School Village, my daughter at Price Edward, I work in Yaumatei, my husband work in Quarry Bay. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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發表於 05-3-4 13:55 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

我想問下各位媽咪, 你地而家有個細 bb, 咁個大嘅有咩唔同左? 有冇覺得好似忽略左佢地? 冇咁多時間陪佢地?好似講故事或者課外活動.

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發表於 05-3-4 23:53 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

My girl is studying K2 (half day school), my little boy just 7 months. It is quite a hard time for now.

I will send my maid to supermarket on every Saturday to buy vegetables and meat. She has to decide what should we eat during the week. Not often to eat the steam fish except Saturday!

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發表於 05-3-5 00:08 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

[quote]
Emily_bb 寫道:
我想問下各位媽咪, 你地而家有個細 bb, 咁個大

:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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發表於 05-3-5 11:14 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

mercymama,

我個大仔都好錫個妹,成日都要我比個妹佢抱, 又成日幫手. 但我就覺得自從個妹出世後, 佢成日嗌悶, 一放假就問我可唔可以帶佢出去戶外玩下, 但呢排天氣又變幻無窮, 而且bb 始終仲細, 我都盡量唔去街. 跟住佢就問我可唔可以睇卡通片或兒童台. 我喺無可奈何情形下, 唯有比佢睇. 但其實我唔係咁鍾意比佢成日睇電視. 我可以點做?

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發表於 05-3-6 18:03 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

Hi all,

I'm a mother of two girls (elder: 5yrs. old, little: 4 mths.) My mom comes to my home everyday to take care of my 2 girls. Elder daughter go to school by bus. Sometimes my mom, sometimes my maid take her to the bus-stop. My maid do all the household chores. Thanks my mother for devoting all her times to me except weekend when I'm free. That's quite perfect.

However, I still want to be a full-time mom since I really want to take care of them by my own.

sumi-mama

My baby -- Sumi & Selene

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發表於 05-3-6 23:38 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

Emily_bb:

Do you have time to go out with your son alone.
As I will stay at my mama home on every Sat & public holiday, so I will have little bit time to go outside with my husband & son, and leave my BB to my mama for a while.

LIke today, I leave my BB to my papa (she is sleeping), and I go out have lunch with my husband & son for 1.5 hrs, he is very happy.

If you can't leave your BB, you can try to play together with your son & BB, like singing, or even read story book, try to play with your son when the BB is sleeping.

:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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發表於 05-3-7 23:16 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

Dear mercy_mama,

Thank you so much for your suggestion. Anyway, I will try

:-P

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發表於 05-3-7 23:52 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

我個工人湊兩個, 兩個都未返學(21m and 6m) 有時媽咪出嚟望吓, 唔出都唔免強佢, 佢都有自己時間, 咁工人就自己攪掂, 我放工即飛番屋企, 買餸由我買埋(仔囡瞓先去買)

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發表於 05-3-11 22:49 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

My kids are 7 (P.2) and 2 1/2 (nursery) now.

When my younger son was a baby, I was lucky to find a Chinese helper (a friend of my friend - indirectly I know this lady). So, I feel comfortable to let her bring my elder daughter (she was 5, K3) home. And my domestic helper will mainly take care of the baby.

After that lady resigned, the baby was 6 months at that time. I feel comfortable to let my daughter travelling by school bus. My helper could bring the baby down to the school bus stop and picked up my daughter.

I also strongly feel that because of the younger one, the elder one cannot go to a lot of other interest groups or so. And because of the elder one is now in primary school, I also feel that I cannot have time to play with the younger one.

My friend comforts me - but they are having great time and fun all the day. And they are learning something that cannot be learnt in interest groups -- management of conflicts all the day, negotiation, love somebody with your whole heart, etc.

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發表於 05-3-16 00:18 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇兩個細路仔(其中一個係BB)既在職媽咪?

Hi flysss,
My elder girl is 4 1/2 (K2) and my little boy just 7 months. Maid is taking care of them whose worked here over 4 years.

My arrangement is similar as you. Every morning, myself or my hubby will take my girl for school (in fact, we live close to the school. If she takes school bus, we will be the first stop and she will feel boring.) After school, my maid will bring little brother downstair.

I agreed with you that the elder one will lesser the chance to attend interest groups. For now, I only can afford the time on every Sat for swimming class. Anyway, I think that if the little brother grows, everythings will be changing and better.

Keep it up.. let's share your thought.

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