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happy_mum

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發表於 10-2-5 07:30 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

I just want to share my feelings.(Just a corner to air it out!)

One of my maid has been working for me for 7 months now and she is suddenly pregnant now!

I am just feeling that I have been screwed totally as she seems to have no intention to leave. (She told my other maid.)

When I hire her she claim that she is single and the boyfriend is in the Philippines. Although she did say that she wants to have children but I never thought this would happen as the boyfriend is in the Philippines.

To cut the story short is she did not tell me that she was pregnant, until she went to China with my mum and had some spotting or bleeding. Then my relative called and ask if I want to send her into the hospital. Now that she is back in HK, and she was telling my other maid that she would give up her maternity pay and I could hire a part time while she goes back to the Philippines to give birth.

Gee, although she told me last night that she would respect my decision whatever it is going to be. But according to my other maid, she doesn'tseems to think of leaving (break the contract with me) but maternity leave?

She also knows her right that I can't terminate her because of her pregnancy. But I honestly don't think she would be capable of looking after mymum(such as walking up the hill in the morning) when she gets bigger.

Dxxx it!

[ 本帖最後由 happy_mum 於 10-2-5 07:46 編輯 ]

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原帖由 happy_mum 於 10-2-5 07:30 發表
I just want to share my feelings.(Just a corner to air it out!)

One of my maid has been working for me for 7 months now and she is suddenly pregnant now!

I am just feeling that I have been screwed ...

唉~~戥你慘...!!!
仲要照顧埋佢...
真係比唔到什麼意見你.
我都轉工人中....所以太後生都唔會請.起碼有番三張中...唔係話唔會咁...只希望少一點機會...
希望有人提供意見.

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tweetybird

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發表於 10-2-5 09:01 |只看該作者

唉..真係無咩野可以做，搵她個agent同她傾下得唔得？她做左7個月only，應該唔entitle有產假的。但咁又點...日日對住件咁既野係屋企都想嘔，既做唔到野..又唔可以叫她做粗重野，坦白講扶下老人家出出入入上上落落都要番多少體力的，你話她的肚越來越大咁點算？咁仲可以跟出跟入咩？一個唔該話唔舒服要留係屋企，倒番轉頭要人服侍埋她都想死...

你要真係問下你個agent..

原帖由 happy_mum 於 10-2-5 07:30 發表
I just want to share my feelings.(Just a corner to air it out!)

One of my maid has been working for me for 7 months now and she is suddenly pregnant now!

I am just feeling that I have been screwed ...

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chaklongma

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發表於 10-2-5 09:17 |只看該作者

我大住個肚都係咁返工, 買餸煮飯啦
工人有咗, 大晒呀~~
最多唔做佢做d粗重野
仲要同佢講明, 佢未做夠40 weeks 係無產假
生仔 & 住院d $$ 佢自己要比
佢諗返菲生, 就叫佢早d返
個肚大晒, 人地唔比佢上機
到時向hk生, 生咗bb都唔可以向你度住
佢唔舒服就see doc, 攞SL CERT. 比你
同佢講over 咗嘅SL Leave 係無人工
叫agent 同佢傾吓
呢d咁嘅工人真係不負責任~~~

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真係人間慘劇

!遇著D咁既工人, 真係又要閙吓香港正苦:;pppp: :;pppp: , 點解大肚唔可以立刻終止合約, 新加坡同台灣都係咁保障國民, 大肚工人立刻要走,我地正苦就由得你死活, 如果我有時間照顧大肚婆, 洗乜請佢地照顧小朋友同老人家

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發表於 10-2-5 09:49 |只看該作者

一個唔該話唔舒服要留係屋企，倒番轉頭要人服侍埋她都想死...

點解要服侍返佢??? 佢未自己係屋企休息囉, 佢係病假, 雇主冇義務要提供服務係佢嘅病假日, 我哋自己病到死吓死吓, 未一樣要自己起身煲水, 先有水食, 咁邊個服侍我哋呀?

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chaklongma

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原帖由 AK47AK47 於 10-2-5 09:49 發表
一個唔該話唔舒服要留係屋企，倒番轉頭要人服侍埋她都想死...

點解要服侍返佢??? 佢未自己係屋企休息囉, 佢係病假, 雇主冇義務要提供服務係佢嘅病假日, 我哋自己病到死吓死吓, 未一樣要自己起身煲水, 先有水食, 咁邊 ...

講得啱呀
要食慌佢唔識起身自己煮~~

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大豬既老婆

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發表於 10-2-5 11:12 |只看該作者

其實我唔系好明，如果個工人大肚，做唔到本來要做既家務，甘仲需要唔需要出糧、出足糧比距呢？

我覺得工人真系無理由可以比距 during contract 既時候懷孕。雖然感覺上好似好不近人情，但孕婦其實根本唔方便做體力勞動，我請工人就系想叫距洗3煮飯拖地，如果距煮飯聞到味又會嘔，拖地又話怕整親，甘我比錢距系屋企坐？平時寫字樓工唔同窩，大肚都可以打字，寫report，用電腦，check email。起碼無甘影響我既工作。我覺得最多只可以接受保留contract，但要距放無薪假期，同埋距要自己搵地方住，生完可以返黎做野。如果距OK既，中間段時間咪唯有搵part-time頂住先。

講真，如果有個大肚婆系屋企，我真系接受唔到要距大住個肚做家務湊小朋友煮飯。理論上系OK，但覺得好似良心過意唔到，所以最好就系唔好系我面前。

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mylulu007

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原帖由 tweetybird 於 10-2-5 09:01 發表
唉..真係無咩野可以做，搵她個agent同她傾下得唔得？她做左7個月only，應該唔entitle有產假的。但咁又點...日日對住件咁既野係屋企都想嘔，既做唔到野..又唔可以叫她做粗重野，坦白講扶下老人家出出入入上上落落都要番多少體力 ...

計到佢生得果日, 工人做滿40wk喇, 都係entitle有產假的......

總之俾正苦害死啦, 又唔獨立外傭法, 我地唔係大公司, 又點可以好似公司咁, 俾大肚既僱員調去做低危工作?

呢條條列真係笑話. (苦笑)

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babycoming

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發表於 10-2-5 12:24 |只看該作者

之前我有問過AGENT有關呢D野,我係大公司請既,個AGENT細細聲話其實如果真係個HELPER懷孕周數係在佢未黎到香港時已懷孕的話,係可以返去佢地公司嘈同唔洗賠一個仙走喎

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2025勳章 2025勳章蛇年勳章 2024年龍年勳章 2023年兔年勳章

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發表於 10-2-5 13:42 |只看該作者

原帖由 tweetybird 於 10-2-5 09:01 發表
唉..真係無咩野可以做，搵她個agent同她傾下得唔得？她做左7個月only，應該唔entitle有產假的。但咁又點...日日對住件咁既野係屋企都想嘔，既做唔到野..又唔可以叫她做粗重野，坦白講扶下老人家出出入入上上落落都要番多少體力 ...

到生得時應該夠年資享有產假la.

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發表於 10-2-5 14:03 |只看該作者

我都唔知正苦諗乜，大佬，我同佢簽2年約，佢大咗肚到生，唔做得粗重嘢(即係琴高琴低唔得，去買嘢攞重嘢又唔得)，仲要驚佢係我屋企生，又驚佢產前/後抑鬱。咁我請佢做乜呀，係咪搵自己笨。

真係要立過d專係俾外傭嘅例，切合返現實，佢地唔like咪唔好黎hk做囉，好過而家咁

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happy_mum

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發表於 10-2-5 21:44 |只看該作者

giveupguy,

She is also in her 30's and that is why she said she wants to keep the baby!

原帖由 giveupaguy 於 10-2-5 08:49 發表

唉~~戥你慘...!!!
仲要照顧埋佢...
真係比唔到什麼意見你.
我都轉工人中....所以太後生都唔會請.起碼有番三張中...唔係話唔會咁...只希望少一點機會...
希望有人提供意見. ...

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happy_mum

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發表於 10-2-5 21:48 |只看該作者

candycatz,

you are absolutely correct. that is also my concern as the job nature of being a helper is "kind of physical", at least it is not like an office job. that's why i think it is not fair that we have no option to break the contract.