This is a gift from God. You should be very happy. Financially, you can choose to deliver the baby at Government Hospital. Since you have c-section last time, you can choose to have c-section this time.
First of all, don't think of losing the baby first la!! as most bloggers suggest, this is really a gift from God. Your baby will be soo happy to have a brother & sister to accomply & play with always.
And yes, for sure life will be more challenging from now on, as there are 2 babies to take care of. But there is no problems that cannot be solved.
If u really wanna move out, then you have to think abt financial issue. If not moving out, and living with 99, that means u have to have a better communication with 99 la!! i know there must be some conflicts here, sometimes it is also a lesson for us to learn to communicate & accepts the things we cannot change.
You see, my grandparents has 6 children, and they were very poor in the early 40-50s, living in china too. How can my grandparents take care 6 babies at the same time ne??? After i become a mom, finally i realize the greatest love of all is "mommy love" la!!
So don't worry too much, remember this is a happy thing !!! Life maybe more "SUN FU" from now on, but at the same time, MORE " happiness" in your life and ur second baby must teach you to become a better mother!!!!
now the most important is to check if you can bear BB just after few months C-section.... in my understanding, 最少一年 d開刀既傷口先叫完全好返, 醫生都建議要隔一年先再有 bb.... 都係快d搵醫生睇下先 la!
但都係果句, 個天比得你有你就可以生, 以後的生活應不會是太大問題...
好似我咁, 自己有病, 理應唔 arm 生仔, 但又 '意外' 有左 (仲 '中' 左 2 次 tim!!), 而家生左2個仔 (大的 2.5yrs, 細的7個月), 咪又好好地生活 (仲好開心 tim!), at the begining 係會辛苦d (我而家好辛苦, 2個 b好困身), 但見到佢地2個一齊玩, 你會覺得辛苦是值得的!!
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