夫婦情感 今日: 7|主題: 42776

candytsy 寫道:
ringoivy
我已經生著成年有多,睇過好多醫生應該補唔返,正如你所講開支大,收入少佢仲要照顧失業的兄妹(已婚),我有時好唔明點解同係心抱有咁唔同分別,如果奶奶對姑仔好我心會好過啲,因為這是她的女兒.你的方法我都有用過,點知佢真係日日食面包都要將啲錢慳俾佢地,但我見佢地生活都唔係好差,因為佢地仲有親人照顧又唔使供樓交租,搵幾多食幾多生活好寫意.每次總為他的家人而煩影響感情,我又可如果.

candytsy 寫道:
CMMANDY
我媽媽當時幫了我不小,因為小B出世時要住院成大半個月,我媽為了我已經不時出入醫院來回我屋企,有次因為忙亂中差的跌親,自此身體亦差了,自顧不下,如果唔係我媽,我諗我已經c著.

candytsy 寫道:
東張西望
其實我都有煲雞或其他湯飲,我都好想你講咁樣可以成日煲啲野飲,但我只得一雙手,返工早出晚返,個女日交俾啊媽揍,放假晚上要自己揍返,我跟本連自已食飯都冇時間,有時間我都想煲啲野補下,但除著食,我條腰痛到做唔到野,照過x光又冇事,個人的頭發脫到就光,找很多醫生用了不小錢,仲有好多毛病--手震,心跳頭暈.好似在鬼門關返返來一樣,個人已經不如前,亦唔能繼續我以前的工作.

Martina 寫道:
candytsy,

My husband lend MY money to his family without asking my acceptance. 6 digits no come back.... his family is terrible. Father is crazy, always got drunk. Mother is not that bad, but never cook anything for me after I gave birth. All his brothers & sisters (my hubby is the youngest) fight to give command during gathering on where to eat, what kind of food.... Brother & cousin owe me money for yearssss & show No sign of returning any $$$

Well, my hubby still very much protect HIS family. I always shut up whenever his dad/mom's name are brought up. Everytime I ask my hubby to push his relatives to pay back $$, my hubby always said forget that.

You see, my case is soo....

Lastly, probably your health before give birth is not so good, right ? See Chinese doctor may help.

happykklam 寫道:
我覺得妳奶奶最乞人憎係偏心，大家都係新抱，點解妳坐月就咁慘，而妳嬸仔就一日一雞呢，其實我奶奶都係對我唔好，不過我無唔開心，因為我用番佢對我嘅態度嚟對佢，同埋我覺得無謂為個“閒人”攪到自己唔開心，至於過年過節我同老公都會番去食飯，我哋嘅做法就係【準時食，食完走，唔出聲，唔搭咀，佢問到，答一句，無問題，慳口水】，自從我同老公咁做之後，我奶奶反而對我好咗，不過我真係唔“希罕”，反正同老公都封咗佢係閒人，而家佢做任何事都唔關我事。