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第1次請工人,因為生左第2個又要出去做野.個工人做左就快半年,開頭都 OK,後來愈來愈覺得佢吾得.
1)話有湊過 NEW BORN 經驗,但覺得吾係囉.一啲安全意識都沒.(有次眼瞓竟然可以放個BB係沙發上再墊"咕純"1手托住頭係度"鐘眼瞓".任由個BB係度踢踢,幾驚個BB跌落來呀)
2)洗碗吾乾淨,被我捉過2次.有次仲要係小朋友既碗添.
3)吾仲意吃印尼麵,淨係吃我哋既"辛辣麵"初初來果陣個櫃有幾種麵出前X丁,印尼麵,辛辣麵,我哋叫佢自己煮麵食,佢竟然拿我哋既辛辣麵來煮.
到而家有時叫佢煮麵吃,佢都好少,佢話佢要吃飯.
做左半年我淨係買過2次麵(2PACK),而家仲有2包.
4)初頭來果陣,佢自己選左張櫈坐,佢好自律地吾好坐其它櫈,浪衫要企高都會拿佢自已坐果張,吾會踩我哋坐既櫈.到左而家屋企所有櫈都俾佢坐晒.浪衫都拿我哋坐既櫈用.(有啲吾高興,如果佢當初沒咁自律,或者我家吾會咁)
5)明知我哋裝左 CAM ,我覺得佢好似都沒咩避忌,咩照做.(你哋個姐姐係吾係咁架?)我話果次鐘眼訓的事就係已經裝左 CAM 佢都係咁做.
6)自問對佢真係好好,吾使佢買餸,我收工至趕去買,收工後個BB 所有野都會由我湊,包括餵奶,沖涼.
BB由出世到而家夜晚都吾使佢睇,都係我哋自己睇番.
佢淨係陪個大囡玩,同埋日頭餵BB飲奶.煮飯咁.正常清潔.

但:我就愈來愈對佢不滿,唉....其實佢有沒大問題呢?如果你哋係我,會吾會覺得有問題呢?定係我要求太高?

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點解你對佢越來越不滿？你忍佢無同佢講定講左佢吾改？好似我ex yan話極吾改仲bor 咀，我就越來越不滿，結果fire左，仲比我插到PP；而家個bun就會改，雖然有D野可能只係一排，到時又黎，咁我咪再鵝lor，不過起碼佢肯改我就順番吾會有積憤. 如果你工人有心改，態度可以，同佢傾傾啦！同埋你有無比家規佢？我可能係一個幾煩嘅僱主，吾止first day比家規同time table，之後仲會針對發生嘅問題，再update份野再比佢，佢亦會貼係廚房方便大家睇（有時我自己都吾記得要問佢攞黎睇），我覺得咁大家都好！家規可以比佢清楚僱主要求同比我睇倒佢聽吾聽話.

原帖由 baby-tung 於 10-5-20 18:17 發表
第1次請工人,因為生左第2個又要出去做野.個工人做左就快半年,開頭都 OK,後來愈來愈覺得佢吾得.
1)話有湊過 NEW BORN 經驗,但覺得吾係囉.一啲安全意識都沒.(有次眼瞓竟然可以放個BB係沙發上再墊"咕純"1手托住頭係度" ...

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Ha ha, in this world only one of you, can't find another one exactly the same. If u were your maid, came to HK and found so many new things to eat, and u didn't say not allow, she will eat whatever she like. Honestly if u don't want to let her eat, u shd keep the things separately and let her know she cannot eat these. I bought many snacks and I expect she will take some, just don't finish all. Tell her your bottomline and your life will be easlier. Talking about the stepper/chair, do u mind to sit on the stepper/chair after u step on it? I believe the answer is no. Then why u so care about your maid step on it lei? She works in your home and almost part of your family member lah, if she is ok, don't blame too much coz u may find another one worse than her... I had such experience b4 lah. If she finds that you don't like her, she could change to another person and play with you, is it worth? HK mom is so "che doll", we need to hire maid to take care of our children... but it's so difficult to find a good maid. If your maid can clean and cook and your children like her, then don't think too much lah.

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原帖由 baby-tung 於 10-5-20 18:17 發表
第1次請工人,因為生左第2個又要出去做野.個工人做左就快半年,開頭都 OK,後來愈來愈覺得佢吾得.
1)話有湊過 NEW BORN 經驗,但覺得吾係囉.一啲安全意識都沒.(有次眼瞓竟然可以放個BB係沙發上再墊"咕純"1手托住頭係度" ...

其實你個問題係你覺得工人轉變咗, 冇咗以前嗰種自律, 令你擔心佢會唔會越嚟越過份, 而事實上你都睇到佢冇以前咁收歛. 其實工人嚟之初, 就應該要俾佢知屋企有屋企的規矩, 必需要守, 唔係靠佢自律, 因為冇俾規條佢一旦佢過咗線, 你又點可以責備佢呢? 食物, 我會話俾佢聽邊隻麵專係俾佢食, 我係俾公仔麵佢食, 其他牌子, 因為仔囡買返嚟的, 未得同意佢係唔可以掂(唔想小朋友要食時冇得食, 起爭拗), 有專用椅子俾佢, 佢要踩腳或坐就用專用椅子, 唔會用我哋坐的椅子, 樣樣嘢事前細分了, 就免卻以後的煩惱.