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發表於 05-5-26 11:43 |只看該作者

我已經眼濕濕啦

話說呢排嫲嫲已經同我講阿仔好跟個工人.咁前晚,當我喑阿仔瞓時,個工人沖完涼出嚟,佢撩阿仔玩,咁阿仔就要佢抱啦,咁我唔俾佢就喊到唔收聲,結果冇辦法為有俾個工人抱啦,咁我就黑住面話個工人,叫佢以後當我暗阿仔瞓時唔好撩佢玩啦.
咁到噚晚,當阿仔仲淨兩安奶未飲完時,佢見到個工人喺廁所出嚟,就喊住要佢抱,連奶都要個工人餵.當時我見咁,我真係好想喊出嚟.我而家唔係嬲阿仔,係嬲個工人,每次都係阿仔見到佢先要扭抱,但係我又冇辦法,唔通叫個工人沖完涼唔好出嚟咩.唉!我可以點做呀!

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發表於 05-5-26 11:53 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

我係你就要硬性定明你同個仔親子時間工人就要回避, 例如叫佢入房熨衫, 要在指定時間/或得你準許先好出黎.

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ho_mama

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發表於 05-5-26 11:54 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

janmom：

下次，你揍你ｂ時，就翻入房閂埋門，佢唔肯咪拎ｄ新既玩具�書書�VCD 黎引佢，喂奶都一樣，閂埋門先喂，咁你ｂ咪見唔倒個工人囉！　ｂｂ係咁架啦，個個都係咁心野架！　仲有，你大可同個ｂ響房度玩ｄ親子遊戲，tum 下個ｂ開心，咁佢會對你印象深ｄ架！　你ｂ幾大呀？　好細既就可玩下躲貓貓，健身操，大ｄ既同佢玩下小明呀，唱下歌仔呀做下ｄ動作呀，咁都得架！ :-P

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liwoodma

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發表於 05-5-26 11:57 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

其實大部分有工人的媽媽都會有呢會煩惱, 但你工人其實好唔識做, 明知你唔鍾意, 就唔好成日蒲頭啦!好似我工人咁, 每次假期出去同我個仔講byebye我個仔都唔制, 咁佢又會抱番佢一陣, 搵野食tum佢, 我同佢講:你估你好重要呀!You go la!以後我叫佢放假不用說bye bye la.

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august19

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發表於 05-5-26 11:59 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

係咁架啦, 我以前都有你既feeling, 唔開心架, 但係無法啦, 你交得bb比工人湊就要預埋, bb好跟工人好過佢怕個工人你仲驚, 咁即係証明個工人無乜打/罵個bb啦.

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YYLam

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發表於 05-5-26 12:05 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

janmom

我以前阿囡細時都試過要工人唔要我, 我都有唔開心, 但當佢大左之後就無呢個問題, 成日都要我同佢去上課外活動, 都有成日要"chi"住我地, 唔同佢去都唔得ga...不過阿囡依家就好錫工人, 話說工人唔記得錄電視, daddy話鬧/打姐姐(講笑jet), 佢就話唔好, daddy話咁鬧/打你, 佢話好呀, 如果換轉係打daddy, 佢就唔會話唔好ga...

所以你唔駛太擔心, 佢地大d會識得分邊個至係mami, 會跟返ga, 依家係都梗係要同個仔親近d啦, 同埋解釋返比佢地聽mami想同你一起玩, 始終佢地對工人時間長d, 如果工人又對佢地好, 係呢段時間佢地係會跟工人多d...

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發表於 05-5-26 17:26 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

阿仔而家都16個半月啦.唉,一於今晚試吓你個方法啦.希望阿仔唔好再傷我心啦!

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christytsui

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發表於 05-5-26 17:41 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

It is unfair to the workers ,
they treat yr child good, but you get angry / hate her!!! But do u want the workers treat yr child bad???

I know all of you love yr child, but i really think u are so unfair to the workers. The workers just earn some money, and do her best. No problem wor!!!

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發表於 05-5-26 18:00 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

agree with christytsui, the maid treats our kids well and they loved our kids is better than they treats them bad. I will not treat her bad if my kids likes her more.

When my kids getting bigger, they will love their mother more.

Don't worry and be happy..

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Furbabies

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發表於 05-5-26 18:02 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

Relax. Your boy's attitude will change in time. It's part of growing up for kids these days. You should be thankful that he loves your maid. At least he is well treated by your maid.

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發表於 05-5-27 10:42 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

其實我都知,但當你見到個情景時你係無法形容你o既心情囉!
朝早返工時阿仔未醒,到你放工返去(奶奶屋企)已差唔多8點,啲姑姐放工已爭住同佢玩,咁我都識做等姑姐同阿仔玩--冇話抱住阿仔.到食完飯返自己屋企都10點,等我沖埋涼攪埋其它嘢都快10點半,同阿仔玩唔夠半個鐘佢又要食奶瞓覺啦.咁你話我一日裏有多少時間可以'親子'呀!而家連我暗佢瞓o既時間都冇埋,所以我咁唔開心囉.
到噚晚,餵餵吓阿仔,佢到時到候就算佢見唔到個工人都喊住要個工人抱,我真係冇辦法啦.希望大家明白我o既心情啦! :cry:

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發表於 05-5-27 11:26 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

janmom,
其實阿仔咁跟姐姐係好事喎~ 起碼阿仔知道姐姐對佢好先跟佢啫, 調翻轉頭諗, 阿仔一見到姐姐就喊, 你咪又會諗姐姐平時都唔知點湊阿仔

以你咁講, 姐姐其實係奶奶屋企湊阿仔, 咁你可唔可以叫翻姐姐係你自己屋企湊呢? 咁你咪可以一返到屋企(8:00pm)同阿仔玩囉~ 跟手就食飯, 之後姐姐就做埋d手尾, 你又可以同個仔玩多陣喇, 玩到10:00pm你都要沖涼啦, 咁又得唔得呀?
講真, 你工人角式係被動, 你無理由嬲個工人架! 你要明白有時係你個仔主動扭個工人抱架~ 放開懷抱啦, 你要返工就係要犠牲d親子時間la

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發表於 05-5-27 11:44 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

janmom,

我都好明白你的感受, 心理酸得很呢!

不過, 在bb的心目中, 可能覺得姐姐成日同佢玩, 鍾意姐姐抱, 是難免......換轉是你, 有人咁錫你, 你都會有同樣反應.
(唔通你會喜歡一個冷莫的bb?)

你不用嬲你工人, 只要請佢在你親子時間去工作或回房休息.
而你要好好利用這段時間親親bb. 俾bb覺得你同工人姐姐是唔同的.

不過,我是不容許姐姐kiss bb或bb kiss 姐姐的......這是我-媽媽的專利.

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發表於 05-5-27 11:46 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

我個仔都係咁架, 而且我只係星期五六日先番我到湊, 佢都係要工人暗佢訓架, 佢同工人玩到架架聲笑, 我就會好留意點解工人同佢玩暗佢訓就得, 而我就唔得, 後來我發現原來我個仔鐘意人打直暗佢訓, 我咪打直囉, 佢鐘意工人點同佢玩, 我咪照學囉! 咁個仔咪一樣跟番我囉. 而後來有一次我工人洗緊澡, 佢有摟眼訓, 我咪暗佢囉, 點知點抱都唔得, 我索性比個"咕辰" 佢摟住訓, 結果佢訓咗, 之後佢都唔使人抱佢訓, 只要個"咕辰"和拍佢pat pat 就可以. 你要明白工人對佢時間長, 佢當然跟佢多d 啦, 你唔使"道忌" 架! 如果掉轉頭個仔唔跟工人即係你工人對你仔唔好, 你咪仲擔心!

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發表於 05-5-27 11:47 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

I think it is unfair to the maids in this case, too.

I am a mother of a 2-year-old boy. I always believe that it is good to have a person who loves and takes great care of your children. I don’t understand why you have such bad attitude, bias or comments on your maid when she is doing something good to your son. Once you have bias on her, you will think whatever she does is all bad and not up to your standard. That’s why there are so many unhappy mothers like you here. Grow up la..

When the baby grows, she/he will definitely know who is her/his mother. Don't worry and relax.

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發表於 05-5-27 13:34 |只看該作者

Re: 我已經眼濕濕啦

As i still an single, but i know you are so unhappy.

But i agreed with happysin very much!!! Don't put any angry on the maids!! No Bias to her!! This is so unfair to her!!!

Be happy la!! I think your baby know that you are her/his mother, and you love her/him so much gar!!!

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