My son is 4 and his English has some accent (but certain English sentences/words have very good American accent). Cantonese is still the most fluent dialect for him right now and he knows a lot of local Cantonese/HK slang as well. I speak Cantonese & English & some Mandarin to him at home. He speaks English or Mandarin to his dad but for the past year, he and his dad get lazy and just speak in English (plus some Cantonese) usually. He regonize a lot of Chinese words when he was 18 months to 3 years old. Nowadays, he did more English letters writing and reading and forgot many Chinese words (regonize and write, spoken Chinese has no problem). He can write 1-10, up, middle, down, left right etc and his name in Chinese. He started English preschool when he turned 3 and that's where he picked up more English. Also, all those Barney, Elmo, Sid the science kid (DVD) etc teach him a lot of English, too. He also loves to watch cooking shows and Dr Oz (I have NO idea why he's interest in this) show. That's where he picked up more vocabulary.
Even when he was small (up till now), I usually speaks the same thing in Cantonese and English (sometimes plus Mandarin) to him (so tiring!) so my son can translate different terms/sentences in Chinese & English esp for Chinese-speaking grandma (grandma pretend she doesn't know English).
During dinner time, I would ask him how was his day and he replied in Cantonese. Then, I told him Daddy don't understand Cantonese much and then he will speaks again in English/Mandarin. I think the key to let the kids learn both language is let them practice more (make them speak at home). I plan to send him to Chinese class during weekend but still looking for one that's closer. I think the youngest they accept is age 4 (Mandarin classes in South Bay).
原帖由 telly_ipock 於 10-8-19 09:48 發表
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bunnymonkey, yes I remember how you talk to your son in all three different languages/dialects when we hang out. It requires a lot of patience and you handle that very well. I'm pretty sure your son will be fluent in all three (Eng, Cantonese and Mandarin, at least for understanding and speaking) if you keep up your hard work.
Personally I prefer sending my kids to those Chinese after-school program daily more than the weekend only ones. My son tried both and I can tell the progress is much better with the daily versus weekly program. Of course that depends on how much time the parents can spend on practicing Chinese with the children. This becomes even more important for the weekend program because you only have class once a week. During the week, it totally relies on the parents.
Also the teacher is always a big factor. I would say most of the Chinese teachers I have encountered, they are more tuned to teach kids who already speak Mandarin at home, so they focus on reading and writing. But for me, I mainly want my kids to learn Mandarin orally. It's a bonus if they can read and write too.
Yes, actually Chinese after-school daily or immerse Chinese program would be better but I don't know any Chinese after-school that's close to my son's school. He is in full-time 4yo English preschool that end at 6pm (can pick up earlier).
For the 5yo kinergarten, I think school end at 2:30pm or 3pm and that maybe good to send to nearby Chinese afterschool (if any). Else the extended care in the same school is till 6pm. Yew Chung (bilingual school) is close to my house but the tuition is a bit steep so I won't consider that now.
Does your son's Chinese after-school provides pick up from his school? Or you need to find other driver to pick up your son after school? How much is Chinese after-school in your area? Each day stay there till what time?
原帖由 mrschao 於 10-8-26 01:05 發表
bunnymonkey, yes I remember how you talk to your son in all three different languages/dialects when we hang out. It requires a lot of patience and you handle that very well. I'm pretty sure your son w ...
In my area, after school Chinese program for Kindergarten or up is around $400/month (3pm to 7pm five days a week). They usually provide pick-up service with a small fee if the regular school is nearby.
if u remember, i'd mentioned to u that there's a chinese after school on the other side of the kindergarten campus that my son used to go. they also have a location in Mtn. View.
for the one in palo alto, it's about $700-800/month from 3:30 to 6:30pm two years ago. don't know if the price will be the same for the kindergarteners who started after school early from noon.
they'll also do pick up from the schools nearby at an additional charge of maybe $120-$150/month.
原帖由 bunnymonkey 於 10-8-25 13:23 發表
My son is 4 and his English has some accent (but certain English sentences/words have very good American accent). Cantonese is still the most fluent dialect for him right now and he knows a lot of loc ...
Thanks so much for sharing your experience and tips with me. I just hope we will be able to find some Chinese after-school programs as you guys mentioned around here by the time my son gets old enough for that. Right now, I don't know anything like that available because Chinese is not a big community here. Maybe I should open one, haha
Funny your son likes watching cooking shows. Maybe he will cook you some yummy meals some time.
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Yes, I remember you mentioned that. So that Chinese after school is a like chain with different locations? Oh that kindergarten finished school pretty early (noon). If the price of the after school is $700-800 + $120-150 pick up just for 3 hr daily, I probably will not let my son join. As this is another $1000 on top of the existing preschool/k tuition. May as well just go stright to Yew Chung etc and save some trouble. But anyway, is your son in any Chinese afterschool now? If so, how well is the class and how's his progress? Worth it?
Yeah, maybe you can try to open one! :D My son loves those cooking show and read his cookbook. He even asked me to read him bedtime story -- his cookbook!
my kid's never been to any Chinese after school program. actually he's never been to any after-school program. i think staying at regular school for 7 hours a day is already long enough.
he only goes to Chinese school during weekend
(2 hours per week). maybe i'm not too demanding ... as long as u can speak and understand some Chinese, i'm happy.
although i'm satisfied with his progress last year, actually i'm thinking to let him quit Chinese school maybe next year (already enrolled for this year). too many activities for kids is not good. we'll need more family time during weekends too.
for the Chinese after-school that i mentioned, i think probably the price might be for 4 - 6 hours in the afternoons. the public school kindergartners are off at noon and elementary kids are off around 2pm. but the private school kids across are off at 3:30pm but they still charge the same price (i think). however, they just walk across the campus and no need to pay for pick-up fee. and they won't do pick up if it's not in the neighborhood.
agree, if you're going there for after school and go to a private regular school at the same time, it's not cheap.
anyway, there are many choices for chinese after school but usually the decent ones are more expensive.