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大宅

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發表於 05-6-15 13:05 |只看該作者

If you have one more choice

If u have one more time to choose "To have or not to have a BABY"?


大宅

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發表於 05-6-15 15:04 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

不要﹗因為這個世界太惡劣了﹗....
不過,這是因為我已有了的關係,如果我從未試過..我依然想要,即使知道未必對bb和兩夫婦係好事。
但若時光倒流,即我已知道現在這個孩子和我們遭遇的一切,...已經歷過這幾年.....我肯定不會讓他來到世上。
天災人禍...算了吧﹗

誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗


男爵府

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發表於 05-6-15 23:48 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

要! 因為沒有小孩的家庭, 沒有生氣, 雖然辛苦, 但很充實, 很多意想不到的開心隋時發生, 但我只可承受一個孩子而已


大宅

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發表於 05-6-16 09:23 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

I agree.. if there is no children around.. there would be not much fun... BUT I found there are so much restriction if I have a baby to take care.. such as not enough sleep...not enough private time... no time to hang around with your mate...conflict with your husband about who is feeding her/ changing nappins...etc.. :cry: Can't save money.. actualy not enough to spend liked I used to... :-( The bad thing is my 99 is taking care the baby.. so most of the time i see her...so trouble...But luckily she is not staying wih us....so from now.. i will suggest my friend if they are planning to have a baby.. better to employ a housemate first...


男爵府

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發表於 05-6-16 22:13 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

MonkeyGirl,
你講得好o岩 我以前就係99湊, 好多意見分岐, 搞到大家都唔開心, 到BB4個月大時, 請o左賓賓先解決這頭痛的問題 :evil: 咁你會唔會再生


複式洋房

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發表於 05-6-16 23:30 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

MonkeyGirl,

If I have 1 more choice again, I'd still welcome my 2 kids to my family & to this world as well.

I agree there will be many "sudden and uncompromised issues" happening around you & your husband and your 99 once the baby is born. 99% are problems, conflicts.....while only 1 % is "happiness". But, are these really CANNOT be solved? I do thing ALL can be solved if you can sincerely talk with your husband about all your feelings inside. Try to solve everything hand in hand with your husband and start a beautiful mind today. You can see things more beautifully.

Try to think more positively, and I hope you can live happier in future. My sincere blessings to you & your family.

By the way, is your daughter a "monkeygirl" as your name. I really have a monkey girl who was born in March last year.
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別墅

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發表於 05-6-16 23:46 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

agree !

RCHU01 寫道:
要! 因為沒有小孩的家庭, 沒有生氣, 雖然辛苦, 但很充實, 很多意想不到的開心隋時發生, 但我只可承受一個孩子而已


男爵府

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發表於 05-6-17 11:12 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

隨著囝囝日漸長大, 起初由手抱bb至現在識行, 懂得同你玩, 同埋識講說話, 每一件事都係難忘的; 雖然有時好辛苦, 但呢D事相對來說只是小事了, 所以我唔會後悔生BB; 但係要再生多個就顧慮太多了, 錢係一個問題, 教都係一個問題, 我都驚o個種壓力很大.


洋房

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發表於 05-6-17 12:13 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

如果可以…

早早的生,十八就生,最好打孖上,一次過,又或剛生完,唔理男定女,轉頭又來多一件,一件起兩件止。

跟住仔女十八又生,十八年又生…起碼4 代同堂

咁就可以講,如果我死,還有千千萬萬既我…想想都開心…
I love my family 我的小天使,為妳,媽媽會努力工作


伯爵府

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發表於 05-6-17 12:34 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

唔會後悔.我後悔應該早啲生


大宅

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發表於 05-6-17 15:23 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

我會要~雖然我為左個仔而停止左我既學業~
但見到佢一日一日咁大~識既野多左好多~
真係好開心ga~


侯爵府

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發表於 05-6-17 21:27 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

RCHU01 寫道:
要! 因為沒有小孩的家庭, 沒有生氣, 雖然辛苦, 但很充實, 很多意想不到的開心隋時發生, 但我只可承受一個孩子而已


agree
:-D :-D :-D :-D


大宅

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發表於 05-6-18 15:16 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

QQMONQQ,

You are right , my daughter was born in last Feb.. also a monkeygirl.. ..

Thx for your advise.. but there is something that i can't totally tell the truth to my husaband about 99. As he respects his mum.. & my 99 basically daily is taking care of my BB (apart from my day off) & also she cooks for us (I & my husband) so she is GOOD .. I mean it.. but on the other hand...you know.. 99 likes to collect bottles.. to put something in..no matter how many bottles you have... she likes it.. my kitchen now is full of stuff... something that I don't really use them..Also she likes to buy double in quantity to come back my god one time she bought 3 packs of toilet rolls (total i think 30 rolls.. ) My flat only - my husband, BB & me 3 of us...i don't really understand why she bought that much Do u think i can complain??


大宅

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發表於 05-6-18 15:22 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

RCHU01,

You are so LUCKY that can emply a housemate to help u out.. :-P But i can't :cry: ..because of my baby.. i quit my job and looked for the other one.. My paid now is much lower, so to employ a mate?? I don't think so.. I quit my job because i want to hve more time to spend with my BB...To have one more baby I don't think so.. unless something change.. I mean my financial side...


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發表於 05-6-18 21:24 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

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男爵府

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發表於 05-6-18 21:37 |只看該作者

Re: If you have one more choice

要,有小朋友有太多樂趣,樂多於苦

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