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複式洋房

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發表於 05-6-19 18:48 |只看該作者

有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

舊工人話唔做又做, 想請番佢佢又話諗清楚要返印尼,
拖拖拉拉最後走左, 而家請左個新工人,返左幾日激到
我嘔血,因為佢好好好大頭虾囉, 頭先鬧工人豬咁蠢,
落街唔記得鎖門,拖地拖甩左個地拖pan,未夠滿既衫
放入洗衣機(由於冇空氣d衫又濕濕地全部焗到發左毛),
成機衫都唔要得....叫佢用生抽,佢就用蠔油(林)o係
魚上面,不知所謂. 結果一肚氣咪鬧佢鬧到佢cry囉,
而家好似覺得自己好(雖),要唔要say sorry to her ??


水晶宮

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發表於 05-6-19 19:01 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

[size=medium]如果係我,我會咁做:

1)
路遙知馬力,日久見人心!


男爵府

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發表於 05-6-19 19:38 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

我都有試過鬧到個工人喊的經驗

事緣都係個工人無記性,如好多次唔記得關水喉,唔記得關大門,唔記得洗米,唁記得那樣唔記得造這樣等等。有時真的無那麼好氣跟她去音聲細氣的跟她說,她就以為無所謂。唯有很serious跟她說,唔需要就住就住的,因為要俾她知道事件的嚴重性,亦要俾她知道可一不可再,我係好認真的,亦講好了,如果下次再發生,你會有什麼action會去做。

但hehalady的方法亦可試的,不過如果連續都係一樣無
變,那你就要考慮下我的方法了。


水晶宮

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發表於 05-6-19 22:05 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

[size=medium]tweetybird

其實我都唔想【jar 頸就命】.... 奈何有 2 件

路遙知馬力,日久見人心!


民房

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發表於 05-6-20 10:23 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

Polly,

The ultimate tricks the maid using are:
1. Pretending not understand what you said
2. Saying this is your order or you told me to do so, but actually not.
3. Cry
4. Headache
5. Panadol, but no doctor
6. Not eating
7. Black face
8. Playing idiot
9. Smart and nice to everyone else except you

No need to say sorry, since this is her duty to HELP you in domestic work. Making rules and watch her closely especially in the beginning period like you now. One on one couching is needed for Indonesian maid for months and depending on the quality and age. For Indonesian maid over or close to 40, they are slow, slow and slow learner or act like old people here in Hong Kong over 60 years old.

Best luck,


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發表於 05-6-20 11:35 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

Totally agree.
我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too!
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.


公爵府

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7#
發表於 05-6-20 11:53 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

我會用hehalady的方法. 因為直接同佢say sorry, 會令佢覺得佢自己其實係岩, 只係亞mum錯, 如果唔係佢都唔會同我say sorry.

但跟住用溫柔少少的語氣同佢講Hehalady教的方法. 令佢舒服返少少. 講真我覺得出街將大門鎖上係好basic 的野. 好似返工開電腦一樣, 返到位唔開電腦, 亞頭實

有時工人做的野真係


民房

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發表於 05-6-20 12:38 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

My experience is really bad, I have used hehalady method at the begining. But the situation grow worse in light speed. I have to use very hard methods within 2 weeks and have to keep this level.

:-( :-( :-( :-( :evil: :evil:


水晶宮

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9#
發表於 05-6-20 13:09 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

事實上,我都係睇情況 .... 如果係一般唔記得乜、唔記得物,但唔算嚴重錯誤,我就會忍住道火,鬧完之後,就會好聲好氣同佢講,等佢舒服 d,因為始終係同一屋簷下,我又有 2 件要佢照顧 .... 但有一次 ....

果個菲菲剛到
路遙知馬力,日久見人心!


男爵府

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10#
發表於 05-6-20 13:43 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

lobun
100%同意呀!但我個工人唔係話頭痛係牙痛,叫佢去睇醫生死都唔去,果次比咗1排Panadol都無回頭


民房

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發表於 05-6-20 14:06 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

hehalady:

Exactly the same wordings I use for my maids:
(如果妳唔想做


民房

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12#
發表於 05-6-20 14:12 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

Mori,
so no more panadol la, I told her I will go to the doctor with you if I found you saying you are sick, headache or don't want to eat.....
You guess what, she suddenly become very healthly for the last 2 months.
You must not let her not having her meal: 1.) she will accuse us for not giving her enough meal later.
2.) I have to make sure she is having the same meal she make for us.


水晶宮

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發表於 05-6-20 17:11 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

[quote]
lobun 寫道:
hehalady:
Exactly the same wordings I use for my maids:
(如果妳唔想做
路遙知馬力,日久見人心!


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14#
發表於 05-6-20 22:29 |只看該作者

Re: 有d後悔,要唔要同工人道歉?

我絕對唔會同佢 SAY SORRY, 因為係佢三番四次做錯野,喊都無用.....如果唔想我鬧佢, 唔做錯野咪得囉!!

我每次鬧完工人, 都會同佢講: "你唔做錯事, 我係唔會鬧你既, 你估我好好氣咩, 鬧完你我都死好多細胞!! 只要你好好地做, 太太一定會對你好, 否則你準備返屋企啦!! "

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