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佢之前確實okay, 人無完美, 我但求佢湊得掂仔, 屋企又乾淨我就okay,

但最近佢開始玩野,詳情如下:

1) 去superamrket或其他地方買野開始唔比單我, 由一開始佢比單我, 我都無睇, 話得啦就叫佢將d剩$放番落盒到, 我亦無數無次剩多少, 只見到有紙幣, 咁上下就okay, 但佢最近開始唔比單我, 起初我以為佢無攞, 我唔出聲, 但次次都係咁, 我就話要佢開始keep 單, 將d單貼在薄上keep 好.

2) 佢一上工已有自己手電, 到左9月開始, 佢要帶仔一星期兩日到playgroup, 我要佢到左school比電話我,有一日佢無打, 我放工返來問佢, 佢話我無用個電話啦, 貴喎, 佢又用得小咁話,我覺得佢玩野咯, 知我要佢比電話我就話唔用, 即係要我比電話費啦, 好地地講我OKAY, 做埋小動作我就唔HAPPY. 我今之妥協就更難做.

3) 一開始佢要求FOOD ALLOWANCE, 我地比佢, 有時同佢一齊出街食飯我來,我地都無計. 佢一路以來都在家煮, 米都係煮我的, 佢而家唔好, 我就更唔想比佢用, 但又怕一開口關係就差, 我個仔在佢手上, 而家就話屋企人住附近,日日都上來望下, 但我就快搬遠亦無人可來望.

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原帖由 mikeivybb 於 10-10-3 14:17 發表
佢之前確實okay, 人無完美, 我但求佢湊得掂仔, 屋企又乾淨我就okay,

但最近佢開始玩野,詳情如下:

1) 去superamrket或其他地方買野開始唔比單我, 由一開始佢比單我, 我都無睇, 話得啦就叫佢將d剩$放番落盒到, 我亦 ...

其實一開始佢俾單你, 你都要認真的睇條數, 我之前有個菲姐, 每次買嘢都有單返嚟的, 但次次都找小錢, 最離譜一次係小咗廿蚊, 張單條數係啱, 但佢俾返我o既錢就小咗, 次次佢都話人哋呃佢喎! 仲要係唔同舖頭, 間間都呃佢, 就連惠康都呃佢喎! 好啦, 而家換咗工人, 又冇發生找小錢事件喎, 係一次都冇發生, 有冇咁啱呀? 啲人剩係呃佢一個, 定係佢想呃我錢呀?

所以佢有俾單你都唔表示佢條數清楚的, 你都要對數, 唔好諗住以心為心, 佢哋啲人, 冇性ga!

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係, 佢真係無人性, 我對佢真係好好, 我隨左仔有timetable之外, 都無比timetable佢做野, 我見佢自動自覺我都okay啦. 去街食飯又叫埋佢, 仲要比佢食先, 我地兩公婆就輪住食, 晚晚去呀媽到攞飯又唔使佢煮, 我媽煲湯又比佢, 湯d肉又比埋佢加餸. 去媽到食飯又生果又燕窩都預佢, 無非都無因為個仔/孫係佢湊.

又比佢用洗衣機, 有時又買包餅佢食. 佢做左4個月到左暑假, 我地去旅行, 佢話想回老家,我都比佢先返左去, (但有簽張野話如果解約佢要補$唔可以補假比我)佢返去我又買d零食比佢仔女, 晚晚9點就可以收工返房唔再打攪佢.

試問我都係咁啦, 不過我都明唔係屋企人就點都唔會同你親, 正如你老闆對你好, 可能你會諗係我自己做得好, 唔係老闆好人.

唉, 如果我而家咩都做返正, 個關係一定會唔好, 我要返工, 個仔在佢手真係唔敢. 就算我炒佢, 不但要比多一個月佢走, 又唔表示下個一定好, 仲有小朋友個心理都唔好.

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原來唔只我一個有類似經歷...
可能你都講得岩, 就算老闆對你好, 你都覺得係因為自己做得好. 並唔係因為老闆好....
唉, 心都灰埋...

不過你都應該要渣番正黎做. 少數怕長計, 同埋佢陰D陰D你, 你條氣都唔順啦....

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原帖由 mikeivybb 於 10-10-3 18:03 發表
係, 佢真係無人性, 我對佢真係好好, 我隨左仔有timetable之外, 都無比timetable佢做野, 我見佢自動自覺我都okay啦. 去街食飯又叫埋佢, 仲要比佢食先, 我地兩公婆就輪住食, 晚晚去呀媽到攞飯又唔使佢煮, 我媽煲湯又比 ...

E+知未算遲, 你對佢方法, 須要改變喲.
多上來看其它的媽媽, 她們很有知慧, 可以從中學到不少東西.

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只能嘆一句, 大家唔同國藉, 唔同文化, 唔好諗住中國人嗰套我對佢好, 佢就會對番我好! 係唔work ga! 哩啲係要請過外傭先會切身明白感受.

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但無奈地我要靠佢地幫我湊仔, 我不能做全職媽!

今晚佢返來時好好聲氣, 仲問呀仔有無好番d (阿仔發燒左兩日).但尋日佢玩野時我同佢講bb尋日發左全日燒佢都無反應.真假!

佢識做時我可以當無事, 想試我底線就無得傾.

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agreed. must check even it's very small amount of money. This is to let the maid know you are checking and serious about what you said.

maids like to test our button line. My maid usually no need to go buy groceries when my daughter is still little... a few months ago, I started to take both kids out on Sat and told her to get things from Wellcome... the first few times went ok.. but it starts to have different kind of problem in the past few weeks:

1st week -- less changes - the money she returned to me is different than the amount shown on the Wellcome receipt... of course she knows nothing when I asked her.. then I said "Wellcome cheated on you, you have to be careful next time, check the change before you leave Wellcome."

2nd week -- lost receipt.. and 'pretend' honest to mark down the $$ and saved those price tags .... but of course the amount is not accurate

I told her, next time if receipt lost... she will have to pay for the food.

3rd week -- the 西蘭花 was bad when we eat it on Monday... I've been buy 西蘭花 on Sat and eat it on Monday for more than a year... never had a good 西蘭花 will turn to bad in 3 days. She said it was good on Sat!

I ignore what she said and just told her to look clear (since she is old.. she is supposed to wear 'lo far' glasses.. but she never... )

Anyway, I am getting rid of her soon.... before I go crazy myself la!!

原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-10-3 16:59 發表

其實一開始佢俾單你, 你都要認真的睇條數, 我之前有個菲姐, 每次買嘢都有單返嚟的, 但次次都找小錢, 最離譜一次係小咗廿蚊, 張單條數係啱, 但佢俾返我o既錢就小咗, 次次佢都話人哋呃佢喎! 仲要係唔同舖頭, 間間都呃 ...

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原帖由 mikeivybb 於 10-10-3 22:38 發表
但無奈地我要靠佢地幫我湊仔, 我不能做全職媽!

就是因為我地想佢地對我地b好d, 還有b在她手, 怕左佢, ,好矛盾, 對佢點極好, 佢地都是沒有因為今已相向, 但我地又沒有辦法和, 可以點呀, 再請另一個, 初初會好, 慢慢又是學精變衰!!

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原帖由 eshiro 於 10-10-4 10:37 發表
agreed. must check even it's very small amount of money. This is to let the maid know you are checking and serious about what you said.

maids like to test our button line. My maid usually no need ...

我嗰個咪又係咁囉, 找小錢博我唔睇, 第1次找小$20我算, 當佢真係俾人呃, 但之後次次都俾人呃, 我要佢填數俾返錢我, 咁佢就扮嘢話落去同人哋攞返喎, 次次都攞得返. 最經典一次係惠康, 當時做緊promotion, 買嘢會送張$1圖案的券, 揭開裏面內容就可以加$1換購嗰樣嘢, 哩個衰賓又找小5毫(C唔C呀? 連5毛都要呃), 話惠康話冇錢找, 以哩張$1圖案券當係找贖喎! 最衰格佢仲要自己私自揭開咗(本身係封實的, 要撕爛啲邊先開到)睇咗係啲咩嚟先攞返嚟俾我, 仲要當係找贖嚟俾返我, 邊有咁貪心同咁cheap o既人ga! 話賓好過印, 都唔係全然係囉! 而家啲賓都好衰格.

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hate it when they think we are 'lulu'............. my maid is Thai ar... still always test my button line bit by bit...... so tired to deal with them

原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-10-4 14:53 發表

我嗰個咪又係咁囉, 找小錢博我唔睇, 第1次找小$20我算, 當佢真係俾人呃, 但之後次次都俾人呃, 我要佢填數俾返錢我, 咁佢就扮嘢話落去同人哋攞返喎, 次次都攞得返. 最經典一次係惠康, 當時做緊promotion, 買嘢會送 ...

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唔知係咪佢知我都唔妥佢, 尋晚佢放完假返來問我bb點, 仲有無唔舒服(因為我個仔發左兩日燒,但前一日我同佢講bb燒, 去左醫院佢無反應.) 既然佢扮無野我都可以算數, 但今晚我出去食飯就無叫佢去, 我要比佢知道, 佢做得好我先會對佢好, 如佢玩野, 我對佢好的bonus就會無左.

明天佢又要帶仔去返學, 我會再同佢講叫佢打比我, 如果佢唔想用自己電話可以去問校長借, 只係佢麻煩, 我亦只要知佢地到左, 佢自己點做, 自己諗!

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唉, 請工人真係傷神又傷心~

我個工人都好鬼煩~ 對佢好佢唔會知~ 我奶奶知佢唔食豬肉, 專登買牛, 雞, 魚比佢~ 平時每日一定比生果佢, 通常星期六我會自己湊左bb出街, 爺爺嫲嫲又會出去玩/上大陸, 佢基本上係星期六都係屋企休息, 佢仲可以成日情緒到, 一話佢少少野(絕對唔係鬧佢, 係同佢講想佢改善d野, 例如mark好bb嘅record), 就同我講想resign~ 覺得嫲嫲唔like佢, 佢自己成日好多mistake(即是話我成日話佢), 所以唔想做喇喎~ 勁想叫佢即走~ 最慘我奶奶唔想佢走, 因為覺得工人好錫bb, 佢好放心可以出街, 唔怕佢虐待bb~ 同埋好怕要從新習慣過新工人~ 唉, 但平時就好多小事唔鐘意個工人~ 所以好麻煩~ 煩c人~

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有好多人都以為自己放縱過工人就係叫对工人好, 唉~

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Did your maid call you finally after she arrived the school with your son?

原帖由 mikeivybb 於 10-10-4 22:49 發表
唔知係咪佢知我都唔妥佢, 尋晚佢放完假返來問我bb點, 仲有無唔舒服(因為我個仔發左兩日燒,但前一日我同佢講bb燒, 去左醫院佢無反應.) 既然佢扮無野我都可以算數, 但今晚我出去食飯就無叫佢去, 我要比佢知道, 佢做得 ...

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