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怎麽辦呢？！ [複製鏈接]

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發表於 05-6-22 10:41 |只看該作者

怎麽辦呢？！

我兒子現在是2歲10個月。日常是由家庭傭工主要來看管他。我感到意外的是他至今還是拒絕去痰罐或馬桶大便，堅持要『着片』才大便.... 至於小便就沒有這個情况。我們曾多次想辦法誘使他去痰罐或馬桶大便，甚至用強逼的手段，但他就是不就範，呼天喊地也不肯去。真沒他辦法！怎麽辦呢？！他9月份就要讀幼稚園了。另一方面，不知道甚麽原因，他又很抗拒赴診所及看醫生的，藥當然也不會吃的。每當他生病帶他看醫生就像打仗一樣：抱著他一進入了診症室，他就開始發作，先是大鬧掙扎哭喊着要走，後是不給醫生甚至碰到他。曾經試過有一次，他發很大的脾氣，情緒很激動地把手中所握的玩具槍擲向醫生，擲中了醫生的頭！我們也多試過幾間診所，結論是他的如此行為並不是針對個別醫生的，而是全部。因此每次生病看病都無法得到精細的診症，診金還是要照付的！怎麽辦呢？！真的很頭痛。各位家長可否給我一些意見？十分感謝！

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發表於 05-6-22 12:19 |只看該作者

Re: 怎麽辦呢？！

Don't force him! My friend also same case with you. She never force his son, after her son go to the kindergarten, he can learn from other children.
On the other point, he don't want to see doctor and eat the medicine. My children also like this, after he go to kindergarten, you can ask the teacher to tell him he must eat the medicine if he is sick. It very work because my children think that if she eat the medicine by herself that mean she is very brave. Give her more appreciation and keep on trying. Remember don't show him you are angry and impatient.