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hellopuffy

複式洋房

積分: 190

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發表於 10-11-23 12:37 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

同隻c6拖拉左年幾都未搞到離婚, 終於上星期第一次上庭, 我個律師話第一次上庭唔會有野要講, 只有法官講下單case點樣, 幾時第二次上庭, 點知上到庭個官就問撫養權同探視權點安排, 隻c6既律師話撫養權歸我, 佢只要探視權同留宿探視, 仲要扮哂慘話一路以來我唔俾個小朋友佢見, 但實情係佢根本對個小朋友不聞不問, 連電話都無個!! 於是個官問我個律師點解唔可以有留宿探視, 又話我咁樣霸住個小朋友唔岩, 又話就算隻c6唔識照顧個小朋友都唔係唔俾佢見個小朋友既理由! 當期時我唔知我可唔可以講野, 但我個律師就唔出聲 (我好激氣~~), 於是法官就判左撫養權歸我, 而隻c6就有每個星期既暫時探視權, 仲有隔個禮拜俾小朋友去佢屋企過夜!

我好嬲!!! 點解第一次上庭就判哂啲野既?! 又唔俾我申辯, 我個律師又唔出聲 (係無機會俾佢出聲, 個官一輪咀不停講講講), 唉~~~~~ 好灰...

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maranda_yeung

大宅

積分: 2011

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發表於 10-11-23 13:29 |只看該作者

你地係未一早傾好晒? 如果唔係又真係好快手. 我攪左差不多2年都仲未判
撫養權同贍養費. 煩死人喇.

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hellopuffy

複式洋房

積分: 190

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發表於 10-11-23 14:10 |只看該作者

我同隻c6就因為傾唔掂探視權既問題所以搞到要上庭, 我都唔明點解乜野報告同證據都無提過, 又無問過我既意願就判左俾佢, 我覺得好兒戲同埋對我唔公平.

我最慶係我要求多啲生活費又唔見個官判埋, 佢話要等下一次上庭再傾, 唉!

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elsa_mak

民房

積分: 68

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發表於 10-11-23 15:31 |只看該作者

原帖由 hellopuffy 於 10-11-23 14:10 發表
我同隻c6就因為傾唔掂探視權既問題所以搞到要上庭, 我都唔明點解乜野報告同證據都無提過, 又無問過我既意願就判左俾佢, 我覺得好兒戲同埋對我唔公平.

我最慶係我要求多啲生活費又唔見個官判埋, 佢話要等下一次上庭 ...

死啦~我睇完你嚟篇野之後,我好驚呀!! 因為我同你一樣, 探視權呀...但亦因為我c6同你c6一樣...百無!! 電話又無咩都無問過個囝, 佢地依家連埋佢屋企人一樣都係話我唔俾佢地見我個囝呀~ 但實情係真係佢地咩都無問候過...我好驚我同你一樣呀

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hellopuffy

複式洋房

積分: 190

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發表於 10-11-23 16:27 |只看該作者

我只覺得法律好死, 淨係睇表面既野, 我唔肯定個官有無睇我所提供既supporting document (例如: 通話紀錄, email同埋sms紀錄), 而佢一開始就執住我律師話唔俾留宿探視呢個問題就話我唔岩, 話我唔可以霸住個小朋友, 但佢唔知, 呢年幾以黎隻c6對個小朋友不聞不問, 就算"話"要見面都揀啲夜晚8, 9點既時間, 我個小朋友仲好細, 呢啲時間梗係訓左, 咁樣佢就話我唔俾佢同個小朋友見面!!!

mouth: 隻c6仲要唔止一次有咁既request, 我有次同佢講, 如果你有心要見個小朋友既, 可以早少少嗎? 但佢話自己好忙無時間, 只有晚飯後先至得, 我當堂啞哂...

我諗你要有心理準備個官會咁樣判 (有留宿探視同埋日間探視), 唉~~~

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AndyM

伯爵府

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2024年龍年勳章

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發表於 10-11-24 09:48 |只看該作者

Unfortunately this is the law, unless you have the evidence to proof your ex either violent or sexual abuse the kid, he has the right to 'access' including staying over.

I have the similar situation, my lawyer advised me that just let him have the right, once he get what he argue for, do you think he will take and keep doing what he promise? Even give him the 'access' I am sure a few weeks or months later he will have so many excuses not to visit or staying over to his place..

Are you entitled to 'Legal Aid'? I would suggest that you should consult another solicitor, my solicitor is really good and she got the heart to help me, please don't delete me as I am not here to advertise, I just want to share my experience as I have had so much problems dealing with my divorce for the past a few months; I can understand how helpless and difficult for the girls here facing the same difficulties as my case.

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elsa_mak

民房

積分: 68

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發表於 10-11-24 10:33 |只看該作者

樓主:

想問問呢~ 嗰d咩留宿探視同埋日間探視呢~可唔可以唔理架? 因為其實我c6係一個我懷疑緊佢有噪狂症嗰d人...點解我咁講呢 ,因為佢曾經講過(and抱住左我個囝)話要掉我個囝落街,佢又打我! 咁我係咪可以唔洗理佢,同埋係咪可以申請禁制令嗰d呀...因為我好驚佢又會發傻呀!! 我要保護我個囝呀...佢得嗰11個月人仔架渣...

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hellopuffy

複式洋房

積分: 190

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發表於 10-11-24 11:36 |只看該作者

我覺得法庭頒令就要跟住做, 如果唔係對方可以告你藐視法庭. 但如果你個case咁樣, 你最好盡快搵社工或者律師幫手, 就如之前AndyM咁講, 如果你有理據證明對方有暴力傾向或者會對小朋友不利, 可能法官唔會判探視權俾佢 (又或者要有社工/律師在場先至可以探視). 你唔好太擔心, 亦唔到你去擔心, 我已經諗通左, 即管俾個探視權俾個衰人, 就好似我咁, 我個小朋友由細到大都係我一手一腳湊, 隻c6連沖奶換片都唔識 (更加唔好講餵飯仔甚至訓覺呢啲"艱鉅工作"