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民房

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發表於 05-6-30 19:29 |只看該作者

老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

Hello 您地好!

如果老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦? 我每次返去佢
Mei Mei :-P


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發表於 05-6-30 19:45 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

問下老公可唔可以同奶奶講除下,免得自己返到去唔開心
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發表於 05-6-30 19:49 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

你個心一定un住un住啦....唉...
如果 2 人相就話姐...大合照好難攪個wor,
d 99 咁麻煩, 唯有當張相個人係佢妹妹囉...


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發表於 05-6-30 19:54 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

Shirley,

Thanks for your e-mail. We have spoken to them a few months ago but still there is no progress.

FYI, my son was born on Jan 4. He is now almost 6 months.

Mei Mei :-P


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發表於 05-6-30 20:02 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

我也想可以這樣做因為他跟前妻有2個仔女所以也放了很多他們A4size 的相片。還有她對我的老公還有feel ....
Mei Mei :-P


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發表於 05-6-30 20:30 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

我想小孩子的相片也可接受, 但前妻的便要告訴 老人家妳的感受,也可主動找張人物相約的告訴老人家請他們更換或取得同意後自己動手, 有時老人家未必知妳所思所想.


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發表於 05-6-30 21:20 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

其實...
老公有前妻同埋仔女係事實...無必要去瞞
我老公也有前妻同兩個女
現在我湊四個...(兩個係他同前妻的,兩個係我生的)
前妻的相我亦放在客廳....(相簿入面)
老公本來想掉....反而係我唔比佢掉
呢個係兩個女的媽咪....呢個事實永不能抹殺
佢地有權去想念個媽咪
而我所生的...亦有權知道真相
不過....我對四個也無分比此
如同親生...要一路比大的同細的知道佢地係親兄弟姐妹
一樣要相親相愛
我唔想好似d戲o甘...
到左n年後...某某發現某某不是某某所生
又呢樣果樣...哈哈

加油!
祝順利


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發表於 05-6-30 22:17 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

我以自己為例,我無特別不快!呢D始終係佢以前既事,而且係大合照,有其他人可以紀念既地方,唔可能因為我而唔俾人擺張相係度!我都算睇得好開!!
(呢個只係我既觀感,可能同其他人既諗法有所不同!)


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發表於 05-6-30 22:56 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

最重要既係你老公對佢仲有冇feel. 如果你老公鐘意佢, 就唔會同佢離婚. 而且佢始終係家庭歷史既一部分, 如果老人家唔識做, 卦係度篤口篤鼻, 你開埋聲佢都唔理, 你都冇計. 我覺得唔好再講, 免得人地覺得你小器, 陣間仲同情佢多d, 你咪當係...車頭相囉.

bb幾時得黎識問你呀.


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發表於 05-7-1 00:24 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

其實都無計,無謂再要求奶奶佢地收埋張相,既然你揀得佢做老公,你識佢時已經知佢既過去,亦唔係第一日知佢屋企仲擺住佢前妻同仔女啲相,我覺得你嫁得俾佢,做得佢老婆,就要學懂去適應同接受.

至於你既小朋友,有樣嘢我都想提醒你,千祈唔好講大話呃佢,始終小朋友越嚟越大,唔好話到佢十幾歲會明事理,有時候,尤其呢一代既小朋友真係好聰明亦比我地想當年仲係細路仔時更成熟,你呃佢,佢始終都會知,甚至你唔講,佢大個咗都會知道呢啲係咩一回事...就好似我細佬咁,我細佬係我媽咪同依家既老公生,我媽咪一直都講大話呃佢,但邊會呃到吖,一嚟大家唔同姓,二嚟大家又唔一齊住,三嚟我仲稱呼佢老豆做契爺(我親生老豆仲健在嘛,怎能有兩個爸爸?),但我媽咪都照呃,一樣唔俾我同大佬响細佬面前提起件事,但我細佬都知咩事,早排佢同我MSN時同我講話如果有機會,真係好想見吓我老豆,因為佢知道以後都未必會有呢個機會...我同細佬既感情都好好,始終都係同一個媽咪生既,有時候,一早坦白俾佢地知都係件好事,好過大家咁辛苦响度隱暪,講真,你去隱暪一個事實去介懷呢個一事實嚟做咩...又唔係啲咩唔見得光既事.

有時做人簡單啲,用平常心去睇每一件事,反而係一種幸福~!


民房

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發表於 05-7-1 17:49 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

Dear All,

Thanks for your advices. Maybe I should tell you more about the background. I think the photos are only part of the side issue.

I am not hiding things to my son, it's just that over these few years their family can't accept the fact that my husband has a second marriage. After the birth of my son, they didn't come for the one month celebration. In addition to this their family members had flown overseas to visit his ex family and kids who were in overseas. One of his family members had continued to put up some updated photos of the ex wife and not his own wife's photos on his parents' place. One reason is because he is not in good terms with my husband since childhood.

The reason why I seek everyone's advices here is to know how to deal with people who want to make us unhappy and at the same time want my husband to reunite with his ex. Also this can hurt all parties as up till now the ex wife still have thoughts to reunite with my husband.

My husband has not done very good too as up till now his ex kids don't know he has divorced with the wife. At the same time I offer to visit them with him but was rejected as his ex wife was not happy.

I am sure this will be a long term issue and I have so many things to learn, hence I am seeking counselling service and hope that I will feel better later.

Again thanks everybody for chatting with me.

Mei Mei :-P


民房

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發表於 05-7-1 17:52 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

I am afraid things cannot work out as you said. My husband doesn't give me a chance to see them .... and they don't even know that he has divorced. Isn't that too bad!
Mei Mei :-P


民房

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發表於 05-7-1 17:55 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

You are so funny, thanks for your kind words.
Mei Mei :-P


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發表於 05-7-1 19:12 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

Hi meimeivision,

If I were you, if they don't want to put those pics away, just leave it.

We have no power to control what people say & do, but we could make ourselves happier!

So, when the pics still there, don't go to their house.
If they ask you why, just tell them that all you wish is to make yourself and your son happy.


meimeivision 寫道:
Dear All,

Thanks for your advices. Maybe I should tell you more about the background. I think the photos are only part of the side issue.

I am not hiding things to my son, it's just that over these few years their family can't accept the fact that my husband has a second marriage. After the birth of my son, they didn't come for the one month celebration. In addition to this their family members had flown overseas to visit his ex family and kids who were in overseas. One of his family members had continued to put up some updated photos of the ex wife and not his own wife's photos on his parents' place. One reason is because he is not in good terms with my husband since childhood.

The reason why I seek everyone's advices here is to know how to deal with people who want to make us unhappy and at the same time want my husband to reunite with his ex. Also this can hurt all parties as up till now the ex wife still have thoughts to reunite with my husband.

My husband has not done very good too as up till now his ex kids don't know he has divorced with the wife. At the same time I offer to visit them with him but was rejected as his ex wife was not happy.

I am sure this will be a long term issue and I have so many things to learn, hence I am seeking counselling service and hope that I will feel better later.

Again thanks everybody for chatting with me.


民房

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發表於 05-7-1 22:31 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

I appreciate your thoughts but am wondering whether this could affect the relationship between my husband and I.
Mei Mei :-P


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發表於 05-7-1 22:44 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

你的故事真係好複雜喎...
男家的人接受你嗎?
如果不是太接受
倒不如不要來往
你集中在簡單的一家三口好一點

其他的....你的身份又管不到...
倒不如不管不理
如果他日有咩問題
拋回個波等你老公去答你小朋友好了

你老公在處理這問題上真的...


大宅

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發表於 05-7-1 23:52 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

True.
But before you action, tell your husband about your hard feeling, no matter he really understands or not, tell him you have been feeling upset & disappointed and reached your bottom line already.


meimeivision 寫道:
I appreciate your thoughts but am wondering whether this could affect the relationship between my husband and I.


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發表於 05-7-2 00:57 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

如果係咁...我都會認同ABCD媽咪既講法,真係少啲同男家嗰邊人來往,聽你咁講,佢地真係有心令你難受,當初我以為啲相係以前剩低,咁我至叫你忍讓吓就算,但可惜唔係,佢地係咁UPDATE啲相擺响度,真係擺明想你知難而退啫...你試吓少啲同佢地班人來往,將專注力全部放响你一家三口上,再同呢啲人爭持不下,不過,真係要多啲同你老公傾吓,至少都要佢知道你既壓力,但我個人認為,唔好要求你老公同你一家三口咁去探佢前妻,講真,唔理人地仲對你隻佬有無FEEL,但始終曾經係夫妻,你咁樣做,就算你無惡意,人地個心都唔好受,亦會誤以為你响佢面前示威,再者人地都有佢既細路,當佢地見到你,佢地都會覺得奇怪,點解爸爸會多咗個姨姨同小朋友,咁你又要人地點向佢細路解釋呢...無謂做咁多小動作,以免有人借位點火,又話你不是,借機撮合番你隻佬同佢前妻...


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發表於 05-7-2 01:21 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

如果有人故意要做d野黎upset妳,妳又咁介意,祗會中晒佢計.

如果我係妳,我當睇唔到,唔會再為呢樣野糾纏落去,相信男家人正正係想upset妳.

仲有無謂去見老公同前妻生既仔女啦,見黎做乜呢? 冇意思既事唔好做啦.
bk閒人


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發表於 05-7-2 10:10 |只看該作者

Re: 老爺99家企有老公前妻D相怎辦

我覺得問題癥結係你老公度.

基本上, 如果佢光明正大, 將d野搞得清清楚楚, 旁人根本無置喙之地. 即係話, 如果佢俾名份你, 又俾其他人(包括佢前妻)睇到佢好重視你, 咁其他人仲可以搞咩復合即? 多鬼餘. 就係佢拖泥帶水, 先搞到第d人有機可乘令你唔開心.

所以問題唔係d相, 而係你老公. 其實佢對你好唔公平, 敢做唔敢認, 係男人就企出黎. 佢怕前妻唔開心, 咁佢唔怕你唔開心?

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