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老公對我施壓!!

本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 21:06 編輯

BB由4個月起, ,

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其實無理由你老公唔體諒你架.......你話99, 你老公一定會唔高興的了, 但佢都應該幫你解釋比99聽你屋企"發生左事"嘛~~~~

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我覺得, 你果日親人過身, 本身心情好差, 件事就算唔係好大, 都受心情影響而變質. 此其一.

第二, 你做阿媽緊張bb, 認為99帶佢出街有危險, 純粹從bb既ma ma角度出發. 但我又睇到你99咁多病痛, 仲肯帶個孫出街, 又坐的士返 (即係佢知道自己唔掂啦), 佢係好錫佢囉. 咁如果你自己阿媽咁做, 你感覺又會唔同, 反而會肉赤阿媽咁辛苦.

99係長輩, 俾你咁dut法, 都會還拖啦, 所以佢死口話你唔岩都係正常反應. 咁你因為講過冇下次, 就成世唔俾佢見個孫咩. that's why 你老公都嬲你，因為你冇從子女角度睇佢阿媽，佢肉赤架.

如果你99都唔係咁衰, 就算啦. 老人家. 你未見過d 99, 個孫出左世幾耐, 眼尾都冇稍過一眼.

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你唔好咁嬲先la~~~以下只係我個人睇法......可能你會唔同意~~~~
首先~知道你父親去世ge消息~都知你ge心情係好差~~節哀順變~~再加上,你自己都要休息多d,唔好再激自己了,嬲人好傷身架~~
你99有果d病,我99都係架,只要準時食藥係唔會有咩問題ge~~
每個99都係愛錫孫兒,佢喊~都係因為太掛住bb姐.
其實你99講ge都唔係錯架~~bb係去多d街係好架,比bb見多d人,bb唔會咁怕陌生人.
你都話la~佢唔知你爸爸果日有事嘛....你唔好同佢計較咁多la~~而老公方面~~佢見到自己媽媽喊成咁,佢做仔ge,一定唔開心架la~~試下同老公傾下你ge擔心la~~

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Sanho 寫道:
我覺得, 你果日親人過身, 本身心情好差, 件事就算唔係好大, 都受心情影響而變質. 此其一.

第二, 你做阿媽緊張bb, 認為99帶佢出街有危險, 純粹從bb既ma ma角度出發. 但我又睇到你99咁多病痛, 仲肯帶個孫出街, 又坐的士返 (即係佢知道自己唔掂啦), 佢係好錫佢囉. 咁如果你自己阿媽咁做, 你感覺又會唔同, 反而會肉赤阿媽咁辛苦.

99係長輩, 俾你咁dut法, 都會還拖啦, 所以佢死口話你唔岩都係正常反應. 咁你因為講過冇下次, 就成世唔俾佢見個孫咩. that's why 你老公都嬲你，因為你冇從子女角度睇佢阿媽，佢肉赤架.

如果你99都唔係咁衰, 就算啦. 老人家. 你未見過d 99, 個孫出左世幾耐, 眼尾都冇稍過一眼.

agree!

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多謝大家的安慰及意見

結婚前, 我同佢反而幾好, 現有亦主要為bb的事唔妥, 太多了, 我同意佢好鍚個孫, 因為得一粒, 佢已經退

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本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 21:07 編輯

Sanho & kelly.b.b,

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你99叫你老公帶去,但無話過唔比你去bor.你有無想過佢係你長輩,唔通要佢跪地斟茶認錯咩??

如果倒轉呢個係你媽媽,你"男女男"

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ellislui :
無傾幾日，發生咁多事？世伯又會咁特發ga？
唔好咁嬲啦！傷身架，你要保重身體，唔好理佢o地住先，
目前最緊要自已媽咪，免得老人家又傷心又要擔心你啦！
有野幫手可以搵我喎。
Take Care of yourself~

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本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 21:08 編輯

garon,

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Sanho 寫道:
我覺得, 你果日親人過身, 本身心情好差, 件事就算唔係好大, 都受心情影響而變質. 此其一.

第二, 你做阿媽緊張bb, 認為99帶佢出街有危險, 純粹從bb既ma ma角度出發. 但我又睇到你99咁多病痛, 仲肯帶個孫出街, 又坐的士返 (即係佢知道自己唔掂啦), 佢係好錫佢囉. 咁如果你自己阿媽咁做, 你感覺又會唔同, 反而會肉赤阿媽咁辛苦.

99係長輩, 俾你咁dut法, 都會還拖啦, 所以佢死口話你唔岩都係正常反應. 咁你因為講過冇下次, 就成世唔俾佢見個孫咩. that's why 你老公都嬲你，因為你冇從子女角度睇佢阿媽，佢肉赤架.

如果你99都唔係咁衰, 就算啦. 老人家. 你未見過d 99, 個孫出左世幾耐, 眼尾都冇稍過一眼.

講得好

絕對同意....我不嬲都覺得....長'背'始終係要尊敬ge....你咁嘅態度質問佢....我係佢都會還拖啦....你都識得講佢好多病....自己平心靜氣諗吓....咁多病都幫你凑bb....仲想點吖....比着我睬你都傻....得閒唔好去行吓街飲吓茶

成世人湊大晒d仔女....而家仲要同你地湊bb....仲要比你地阿芝阿咗....唉....都唔知為乜....調翻轉頭嗰個係自己阿媽....你又會唔會咁呢

凡事都唔好埋怨人....先要用鏡子反觀自己有冇做錯....做人ge嘢你氹我時我氹你啫....唔好太介意啦....老人家習慣咗幾十年嘅生活模式....佢改唔倒嘅....你咪就吓佢lor....黑心d講句....對得你幾耐吖....幫你湊埋bb....你真係要感恩呀

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本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 21:09 編輯

yanau:

Didn't know what happened to my 手寫板, can't write clearly thus sorry for replying in English.

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ellislui,

我明你點解咁嬲喎, 為有畀時間慢慢'葱'淡啦, 唔通你可以嬲佢(99& 老公)一世咩?!

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其實我唔係覺得自己

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ellislui,

I fully understand how you feel. My mother is also considerate and gives me so much freedom. She lets me make up my own decision and will give me support and assistance whenever I need her.
On the contrary, my mother-in-law is more conservative and likes to control everything. She will "re-allocate" and even throw away our stuff without asking us everytime she comes to our house. She's just like a Queen in the family and nobody dares to challenge her or he/she will definitely have a hard time, not even her husband. Of course, in front of my husband, her favourite son, she always acts like a victim and makes up bad stories about me...but they're not true...
She adores my BB very much and loves cuddling her.
Sometimes, she'll not give her to me and keeps on saying something like 個bb都唔跟你既 to me that hurts me so much...To be honest, I don't like her but my husband always asks me to 遷就 her, he even said 阿媽無得簡，但老婆有得簡...
At the beginning, my husband requested me to treat her mother the same way he and his sister do, call her mother at least a few times a week and 出街食飯. But now he won't as he knows that everytime I meet her mother, I'll feel uneasy and uncomfortable. And he knows that I'll have a nightmare the night before we meet (no kidding) or whenever her mother says something bad about me...Believe me, I've thought about getting divorced, so many times, even a month earlier. But later I thought my husband has already made a compromise and will not give me so much pressure now, he will even listen to my grumbles about his mother...I now will act to be more "active" and "talkative" when I'm with his mother so that 令我老公易做...
Sometimes if I'm really mad, I'll ask my husband to give me some time to cool down until I'm ready to meet his mother, as it's really hard to pretend nothing when you're not actually.
I'm sure your husband will understand you sooner or later if he does love you. Hope your father will get well soon and wish you luck.
Lily

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She's just like a Queen in the family and nobody dares to challenge her or he/she will definitely have a hard time, not even her husband.----->
好句,好句.... 形容得好貼切,讓我們同聲一哭...........

:-( :-( :-( :-(

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SORRY, 題外話.....

Queen.....對於(女王/王后) 一詞, 讓我想起英女皇與他的前任與現任家嫂的婆媳關係. ~.~

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Haha, no matter how well they educated, they are the same..................

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