For 11 months, half to big-half bowl is Ok ar. He is still small le.
May be you can postpne his congee time to 1130-1200. No need to drink milk at 1015. 1530-1600 milk. (BTW, is it his napping time?) If he has to drink milk at 1645. Then, eat congee at 2000. It is only my opinion.
For me, I think your 1st snack is liked a meal to her. You can actually let her have milk at 9:30am (BTW bread + milk ... OK!) AT 6:30pm, feed her with congee & let her have ,milk at 9:30pm & sleep. Hope this will help!!!
My son feeding time will be as follow: -
7:15am milk 6oz
11:00am rice + 1/2 apple
(1/2 bowl rice + veg + meat/fish = 1 bowl)
1:30pm milk 6oz
nap time (will wake up at 4:30pm to 5pm)
6:00pm rice + 1/2 apple
(1/2 bowl rice + veg + meat/fish = 1 bowl)
9:30pm milk
10:30pm sleep
My son woke up late at around 9am to 9:30am therefore I also feed him when he is sleeping at 7:15am. No choice lah! If I feed him after he woke up it will be late. I wonder can I let him have 4 meal now (15mths). He don't eat much :( & I don't give him snack. He need 4 hrs rest after milk to have his rice. Anyone can suggest a better feeding time so that I don't have to feed him at 7:15am when he is still alseep. I'm afraid that it will be bad habit for him.