that's true! i'm expecting my 3rd bb. I'm a working mother and i hire two domestic helpers to take care of my 3-yr-old and 2-yr-old. during weekend when only one of the maids is on duty, i found myself a bit crazy especially when we go to the restaurant / my kids are being fussy e.g. don't wanna take a nap in the afternoon; fight with each other, etc. i almost got mad sometimes. i'd try to tell myself to take it easy and relax. having said that, having two little kids at home is a lovely thing. two little creatures that look like you / your husband / a combination of you two -- it's so wonderful!!!
by the way, what's your husband's view on having the second baby?
I thought hiring another helper if I am going to have another child would help but it sounds like it's not much better
I know it's great to have kids around the house. My baby means the world to me and he can always cheer me up however bad the day is. In fact, my husband was the one wanting to have babies in the first place. But after our baby was borned, he has learned that taking care of a baby is not easy and he is kind of wavering between having another one and not, just like me.
Do you mind sharing with me how tired you have been and how you have overcome it as it seems like you are doing very well. Whatever difficulties you have encountered have not stopped you from having yet another baby.
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