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大宅

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發表於 11-1-23 17:52 |只看該作者
自己一個響屋企??


子爵府

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2#
發表於 11-1-23 17:58 |只看該作者
我自己都覺得自己一個揍吾到一個NB+一個4歲
你駛吾駛佢做家務先? 吾好祈望咁高


大宅

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3#
發表於 11-1-23 18:12 |只看該作者
我個蠢工人最好係勤力, 所以做家務佢最善長, 但湊仔就晤掂...其實係我吾放心, 可能日train 夜train 都ok嘅!


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發表於 11-1-23 18:15 |只看該作者
如果個大仔本身返全日學,可能都可以應付得到...但換轉係我,我一定唔多放心比佢照顧埋NB的BB


子爵府

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發表於 11-1-23 18:28 |只看該作者
原帖由 wcpcelia 於 11-1-23 18:15 發表
如果個大仔本身返全日學,可能都可以應付得到...但換轉係我,我一定唔多放心比佢照顧埋NB的BB


我都係吾放心俾工人揍NB, 不過如果樓主無辦法, 都要照行
唯有對工人家務方面吾好要求咁高


大宅

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6#
發表於 11-1-23 18:52 |只看該作者
我覺得唔work

個3歲大仔要返學, 如果送返學, 接放學時遇上NB 突然賴C賴尿, 咁就好"呢HAIR"

我自己一個5歲半, 一個2歲半, 都覺得冇可能可以一個工人湊住2個. 就算我唔洗工人做家務, 但 D 時間係好難就. 由期2個要返學, 有D乜 E 郁遲左小小都好大影響.

所以我冇做野, 自己+工人, 就岩岩好.


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發表於 11-1-23 19:19 |只看該作者
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珍珠宮

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8#
發表於 11-1-23 20:10 |只看該作者
我個仔出世時, 個女岩岩讀K1都係一個印印攪掂
但就果時因為早產, 我放足10個後產假
即係話到我返工時, 個仔已經兩個幾月, 個女就返半日K1(下午班)
下午呀女食完飯之後, 工人就帶個女落樓下搭校車(係屋企樓下行2-3分鐘左右)
放學又係接放學
但夜晚果餐就去99屋企食, 因為我吾想佢帶住個女+仔去街市買送(呀女返下午, 朝早要湊住兩個, 下午呀仔又訓晏覺)

甘呀仔下午訓晏覺時, 工人就要快手快腳執頭執尾

到夜晚食完飯, 返到屋企(好近99屋企), 佢就抹地洗衫, 之後BATH, 訓覺


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9#
發表於 11-1-23 21:32 |只看該作者
我仔出生即由 overseas bun bun 湊, 當時女兒2 歲.

她除了湊小朋友外, 還要清潔及煮午餐及晚餐.

(我和老公是全職工作, 不過老公 on shift 有較多時間在家.)

如果工人醒目, 其實絕對可以湊一個 nb 再加一個小朋友.



原帖由 bbysh 於 11-1-23 17:52 發表
自己一個響屋企??


大宅

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10#
發表於 11-1-23 21:44 |只看該作者
原帖由 MissMaMa 於 11-1-23 21:32 發表
我仔出生即由 overseas bun bun 湊, 當時女兒2 歲.

她除了湊小朋友外, 還要清潔及煮午餐及晚餐.

(我和老公是全職工作, 不過老公 on shift 有較多時間在家.)

如果工人醒目, 其實絕對可以湊一個 nb 再加一個小朋 ...

你個OVERSEAS BUNBUN好強喎~~ 買餸方面點解決? 一拖二去買?? 還是我地買埋返屋企? 可唔可以講多少少?


男爵府

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發表於 11-1-23 22:51 |只看該作者
my younger sister's bun bun is super excellent, my younger sister has very high standard, yet the bun bun is able to work beyound her expectation,

she is 25 years old, married with 5 year old boy,

she is very smart, she is able to take care 2 year old boy + NB boy, both sleep with her in the night time,

although the 2 year old boy had just started full day pre-nursery, she need to take the boy to and from the school with 15 minutes walking distance, (of course need to bring along the NB baby)

moreover, she is able to cook breakfast (fish or congee for boy, noodles + fresh fruit juice for adults), every day

she need to handle the house with garden (total 1700 feets),

she need to hand wash DIAPERS around 12 pieces everyday, and hand wash other baby cloths, and of course machine wash all adult cloths, ironing sir's shirts and trousers + uniform of the boy,

she need to bring the NB to market and buy food for dinner, what she cook for dinner usually: 煎釀三寶, 炒土豆絲, chinese soup, 自己切蒜頭豆鼓to steam pig's rib, you can see she didn't偷工減料

she also need to do all the cleaning work, tidy up the bedroom, bathroom, toys and books,

she also need to cook rice-water to make milk for NB baby,

when she is serving the dinner for sir and maam, she spares the time to read story book for the 2 years old boy!

she is highly praised by our family members, and my younger sister is so fear that she might leave the job one day


洋房

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12#
發表於 11-1-23 23:27 |只看該作者
Yup, my colleague's bun bun can take care the 2 kids, who is 3 yrs old and 1 newborn. She can prepare the lunch for the kids, also prepare dinner for the family. She do laundry, tidy up the house, play with the children, sleep with the newborn, toilet training for kids so that his 1st kid no need to wear disper


洋房

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發表於 11-1-23 23:31 |只看該作者
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His 1st kid no need to wear diaper at night when the kid reach to 1.5yrs old. The maid can use her own method to train the kid. My colleague said he put 100% confidence to the maid in day one because both if him and his wife need to work outside and no grandparents will visit his home. He must trust his maid. His maid works for the 5 yrs for his family.

[ 本帖最後由 Chestnut. 於 11-1-23 23:34 編輯 ]


男爵府

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14#
發表於 11-1-24 00:19 |只看該作者
我之前兩個姐姐 都可以一個湊兩個..!
nb +3.5yrs. 而家呢個就唔掂 ! 好講你好唔好彩...!


伯爵府

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15#
發表於 11-1-24 01:38 |只看該作者
我個工人得~果陣我個仔岩岩出世,我個囡讀k1..(相差3年)..朝早家姐要返學,要姐姐送佢出去搭校車..到細佬2個幾月大我放完產假返工...姐姐會"咩"埋細佬出去...我返shift既~有時我返晏d就我嚮屋企睇細佬...我個工人嚮我度做左4年..佢真係好好~好錫我對仔女..仲湊得好好~黎緊今年到期,我都想繼續同佢續約(希望佢肯啦~~)我個仔依家叫得最多就係爸爸同姐姐..."媽媽"好間唔中先會叫囉~


大宅

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發表於 11-1-24 02:05 |只看該作者
我家姐姐可以喎!
我囝囝叫 "小梓駿"、囡囡叫 "小梓妍"


伯爵府

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17#
發表於 11-1-24 10:58 |只看該作者
如果工人只負責湊b+帶3歲既小朋友到家樓下搭校車,都仍然能煮到3餐和做簡單家務。

買餸就要太太負責了。


大宅

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18#
發表於 11-1-24 11:24 |只看該作者
我工人都係一個凑2件: 大仔2.5years studying N1 (am class)坐校車; 細仔現10個月. 要做家務及煮2餐. 不用買餸.
我大仔一出世就用呢个工人, 我好放心比佢凑2件。
其他家務不要要求太高.


男爵府

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19#
發表於 11-1-24 12:25 |只看該作者
嘻嘻..我地阿媽o個個年代, 一個照顧三個都得啦, 仲可能係四年抱三o個種添.

問題係: 佢做唔做到你個標準o者, 唔好要求咁高咁囉...eg, 你放唔放心佢湊埋個b 去街市? 但我地阿媽當年就係咁喎..

細b 訓覺時就做家務囉, 但你唔好諗住好乾淨囉.......

至於其他, 我又覺得凡事看開一點就夠了..
eg 接大b放學細b 要換片...我覺得, 遲十分鐘換片, 唔會死人的~~~~

反而最大問題係: 你有心理準備個姐姐會太辛苦, 突然話唔做o者~~


大宅

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20#
發表於 11-1-24 12:42 |只看該作者
yes ah. 凡事看開一點... 自問自己都唔係全能啦, 要我湊2件,煮飯,做家務,手洗B衫...都做唔倒佢o甘好... 唔好要求咁高..
我前2天見到个櫃污糟, 都係同工人講: "你有時間抹抹佢啦..." 我唔会鬧工人...佢即晚已清潔咗...

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