你老婆 LEE D 睇法同我媽一樣,成日睇人系半杯空0既水,而唔系半杯滿0既水。
同老公、仔女、女婿、新袍講0野時個樣好惡死。
有次佢0既一位醫生朋友都聽厭左我媽數我老公 D 我媽帶有色眼鏡來睇我老公 D ‘衰’野。結果 佢朋友講得好好,佢話:“ NDW 媽,人總有D好0既,有D唔好0既,我唔要聽你講個女婿 D 唔好0既,我要你0念下你個女婿有D乜好0既,然後同我講。”
我媽:"揾唔到喔!"
朋友:“唔會無0既,你點都要揾出起碼一點,無人衰得曬0既。”
0甘我媽先至死死地0念下,數下:
個女婿好錫我個女
好為得個家
好關心我
有好勤力做家務,煮飯,洗衫,所有家務都唔使我同個女做,佢做曬
.......
我同我丈夫生活了這麼多年,十六、十七年,有好多時我系需要一翻掙扎才能再愛我老公。這思想掙扎過程,我不能用言語來表達。我惟有借
電影 A Beautiful Mind 裡 Alice 的一段讀白來表我的思想掙扎。
每次我都成功地重燃對老公的愛 when 老公做不到我心中的期望。
台詞:
Alice: “What I feel is obiligation.
OR guilt over wanting to leave.
Rage against John (her husband), against God and......
but... then I look at him and I force myself to see the man that I married.
And he becomes that man.
He's transformed into someone that I love.
And I'm transformed into someone who loves him.
It's not all the time, but it's enough. ”