I think I can understand Vin's concern about her daughter.
Both social skill and teamwork skill are more important than just getting a good grade alone in terms of getting a good paying job in nowadays society.
Students get all straight A but get rejected by Stanford, Harford type of universities.
Graduate from university and with all straight A but get unemployment often.
Why? Usually is because lack of teamwork skill and social skill.
These girls mentioned above reminded me of my childhood. I was the left out one amount my 2 dozen of cousins and my classmate. I think it was because of my selfishness or may be being self center and I was spoiled by my parents. Therefore, to avoid being rejected, I rejected other first. I often isolate myself from others. Then, I accepted Jesus Christ’s love for me in form 4. Things started change. I heard less bad comments about me from people who knew me. People accepted me and welcome me more than before. I became a less selfish person. That is what my cousin told me. She wanted to find out what got me changed. I could not think of anything except give all the credit to my Lord God, Jesus. I am able to love because He loved me first.