MingMing1212,
Agree with 大眼肥妹. ... "由初戀以至到雙雙行入教堂真係好難得" ... You finally find 現實和夢想是相差很遠, is because you're now "comparing".
Comparing before and after, comparing this man to that, .... Infact, I think you have changed but your man remains. Sometimes, woman becomes having higher expectation to her man after marriage.
Do you still remember why you agreed to marry him ?
I don't deny everyone will change according to age. A good couple is going the same steps by time. If one stay behind, the others will ask why.
No one knows who is the best. I can say every man has good or bad, even myself.
You get it ??
ringoivy,
I don't agree 一生只有一個愛人既人 = 一生一世大家都咁珍惜大家. And I think marriage always has problems when 初戀 and 結婚 is the same guy.
MingMing1212,
oh sorry, the problem's from him, not you !
Don't think too much, life is too short. If you still love him and 他正在挽救和復合, why not be together.
If you're afraid of him looking for other girls and you don't love him anymore, then leave him.
Sometimes, ones treasures what he has had before when losing it
Are you sure "佢是一直在忍受我的說話" ?
"他在我面前說我想聽的話, 在他家裡便說他家裡要聽的話" - maybe because he doesn't want to argue with anyone he loves and actually he has no comments, so he agrees what you say. But is doesn't mean he is telling you lies !! Be clear on it !