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發表於 11-4-9 17:39 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 lovemy2kids 於 11-4-9 19:46 編輯

如果C6份糧夠養活一家四口的曰常須要, 而你打的工可以令一家生活鬆動d (eg去下 holiday, 多點娛樂活動) 妳會放棄份工, 做ftm 2-3年嗎?
PS: 依份工雖然唔係甚麽高薪厚職, 但個 boss同 d同事好好, 做得好開心, 有d唔捨得.... 但個難提係我放工後要一腳踢, c6收夜的, every evening 我都要踩盡turbo, 身心好疲倦!
又 another question, 真的做了 ftm 2-3年後再搵工, 難嗎?

Thank You~~


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發表於 11-4-9 18:19 |只看該作者
我做咗ftm近10年, 我就覺得好享受陪住兩個小朋友的時間, 好開心, 同埋同佢地好親, 因為除了返學的時間, 就對住佢地. 當然都好勞氣啦, 但建立出來的關係好寶貴. 我無得比較工作的媽媽和小朋友的關係是否一樣咁親, 可能都一樣.

做ftm的壞處有好多:
好悶. 屋企得妳一個人, 最多打開收音機, 小朋友細個還可以係屋企陪下妳.
有時會覺得自己無乜productivity, 老公返到屋企好溫情咁問妳: 妳今日做咗D乜呀? 有時會誤會佢係老細, check妳既工作表現:) 又或者拎住張月結單問妳: 今個月買咗咩? 用咗咁多錢既?
我睇報紙, 有些媽媽放一年maternity leave, 都頂唔順, 望自己快D可以返工, 唔使問老公攞錢, 無咁低聲下氣, 無依靠.

有些心理關口要自己過得到, 同埋老公要真正支持先得囉.


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發表於 11-4-9 18:44 |只看該作者
冇乜 Productivity --> 100% Agree!!! (beside湊小朋友).
唔止屋企得我一個, 我仲冇親人喺依邊 (雖然有個2姑奶, 不過係個d少見為妙個種), 朋友又小之又小, 以前生 first one有去 new parents group識d mums, 但係大家的 age太大距離唔啱 channel (and only me係 asian) . 所以話如果我唔返工, 就好似與世隔絕gum.
我c6雖然搵唔多, 夠生活, 不過對$$又冇乜所謂, 從來冇理我用咗幾錢. 我都同佢商量過做 ftm, 佢都好 support我.

就係一d心理因素令我未能決定.


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發表於 11-4-9 18:50 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 busiuhk 於 11-4-9 18:51 編輯

係香港我地都係餐搵餐食餐餐清, 但都係自己湊最好, 真係會了解小朋友多咗....so far我無後悔, 同好適應, 不過我係香港係有工人幫手, 過到澳洲可能都要適應下....叫老公唔好期望屋企好乾淨, 同佢放工要幫手家務


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發表於 11-4-10 11:06 |只看該作者
Hi Lovemy2kids,

Is your job a full-time job? Have you thought of changing to part-time job? I have many friends changed to part-time job (2-3 days a week) after they have kids. They are all quite enjoying it ..you know...you get abit of social connection at work and you can still manage to do some housework/ cooking at home. Maybe you can discuss with your boss and see if it's possible?


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發表於 11-4-14 23:35 |只看該作者
I must say i cant stand to be a ftm coz it is too hard for me to stay home by myself. I enjoy working 2-3 days a week so my kids can go to childcare and socialise with other kids while I can socialise with my collegues also earn tiny bit of money ($salary - $tax - $travel - $lunch - $childcare)

While I am not working, I still have time to take them to the park, play group, shopping etc.

I worked really hard when I was doing full time and make my boss think it is "SO CHEAP" so hire me 3 days haha... this is how i can my 3 days a week job.


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發表於 11-4-17 19:38 |只看該作者
Thanks各位意見。我份工其實係part time不過係everyday返工時間短,返2-3曰?應該冇mud可能。因為我的workplace無依樣嘢。
我依幾日諗通了,做下去,比d時間自己adjust一下。如果唔得先resign.

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