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伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-19 20:59 |只看該作者

我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

工人今日第一日離.....由於我地吾係一齊住....所以佢今早8點幾就離左la....咁我一路訓到12點先起身餵奶....2點幾我地先食lunch...跟住下午我問工人..您早上有沒有食早餐..佢話無...咁我就話...下...您做乜吾同我講..我有d餅乾可以比您食ga ma....跟住我同我老公講佢今早..........我老公就同佢講您下次可以隨便自己食,,,吾洗問ga la....跟住回到家....我見到工人無問過我就飲我d野...(不過我強調我絕對吾會吾比佢飲)只不過佢今早飲水都會問過我先,...而家就無姐...我同我呀ma...老公講叫佢地吾可以對個工人咁...佢地就覺得我好小家...好孤寒...其實我怕佢慣左咁樣,以后真係食您d燕窩都吾問...講真佢問到我一定比佢食..只不過叫佢食前問下我姐...咁都好衰咩??您地覺得我應該點同家人講呀??我係咪好小家??哎....有d吾開心呀...佢地咁話我


水晶宮

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發表於 06-6-19 22:11 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

我想問下佢飲你d咩呀? 攪到你咁嬲? 我覺得佢飲你d野都係因為你話: "下次可以隨便自己食....", 佢先攞你d野飲啫.

下下食咩飲咩都要問, 我又覺得煩左少少. 如果佢下下咁問你, 遲下你都會覺煩啦!! 仲有你要提供最基本早午晚3餐, 你訓到晏一晏都唔緊要, 不過你要安排左佢既3餐先.

不如你撥一格廚櫃比佢, 買少少飲品同乾糧比佢, in case佢有時肚餓, 都有野食. 其他野未經你批准唔可以食. 咁樣你會唔會覺得好d??

我覺得只要你講明規矩, 工人都唔夠膽亂食你既食物. 不過有時又唔需要對佢地太mean既, 要reasonable囉.


水晶宮

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發表於 06-6-19 22:22 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

你都係事先講明邊d可以食, 邊d唔食得的比工人知會好d.工人肚餓想食時, 要問過你先食得飲得, 都幾煩. 總之所有規矩, 一開始講清楚, 工人唔明的就講到明 & 慢慢 fine tune.

早餐/午餐方面, 你同工人講你通常會買d咩放在屋企佢可以食, e.g bread, butter, jam, eggs, ham, sausage, noodles, pasta, canned food, etc. 以後佢見到呢d o野咪自己攪點. 夜晚果餐, 我估係你想佢煮咩送, 工人就食咩送.


男爵府

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發表於 06-6-19 22:22 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

同意, 我都覺得可以買定一啲飲品同乾糧比工人, 話比佢知依啲係比佢食既, 其它野佢都唔敢不問自取既, 我工人都係咁, 我會耐唔耐問下佢有咩要買呀


大宅

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發表於 06-6-19 22:30 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

My maid never eat/drink what I buy,
but if something I buy for her or no problem for her to drink, I always tell her first..

Also, in the cupboard, the biscuits & noodle I buy her is always on left hand side; mine is on the right.

:)


大宅

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發表於 06-6-20 00:36 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

如果係好有錢,又唔介意工人食自己的鮑心翅肚,就話姐.我屋企就唔係有錢,我唔會比工人食,但我其中的一個伯娘,佢就會比工人食.有一次,屋企做節,叫其他阿伯工人幾個來幫手煮


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-20 01:09 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

ksma~~真係好la...您明白我ge意思...我屋企吾算大富人家...叫做中上家庭...而我亦都吾係話吾比佢食...至不過好似學您咁講...遲d我大聲鬧佢可能會黑面對我...怕真係佢慣左....第時就好似"老鳳"咁姐...講真佢要揍我bb...我都吾敢話對佢點差la...佢而家岩岩離姐....我點知佢個人係咪真係好wor....如果佢好嘅話我實會當佢係一家人lor...好似我老豆以前歌工人咁...佢係好好...揍得d小朋友又好...我地都當正佢一家人..有咩燕窩...雪"甲"糕都會預埋佢..

其實佢都幾有禮貌...幾clean...我對佢都幾滿意...不過佢今日問我可吾可以吾以比水佢飲...咁我就比左一支佢la(因為我地係飲支裝水ga)...跟住仲比左個柸佢tim...但之后佢竟然就咁用口飲....(支水係1.5l歌d離ga wor...)又吾出聲..我之前仲差d走入廚房飲歌支水...好彩跟住我懶...無去飲姐...如果吾係真係想嘔lor...


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-20 01:12 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

pandacat_bb...birdbird~~您地係咪都覺得我應該用一個地方...專放佢d野食??咁樣我估佢都會明白呱...


大宅

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發表於 06-6-20 01:17 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

Of course I will not provide 鮑心翅肚 for my maid on daily basis... but on special occasions.. like new year, she will have her share 鮑心翅肚.
normally, she eats whatever I eat. I always let her know she can eat anything from the frige, but things I bought from overseas.. she cannot touch ( not becuase expensive, becuase it's hard to get)
But think about it, how much can she eat??
I don't think I'll go broke becuase of her eating!

Just tell her what you want her to eat and what she can't touch la..


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-20 01:19 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

YuYuMother ~~其實都吾係咩貴野...佢只不過飲左1can拾幾蚊嘅野飲姐...不過我無嬲佢....只係嬲我老公,我教一樣..佢講一樣姐...我已經同佢講左吾好亂咁同工人講野...吾好都壞佢..明明今朝都仲好乖...下午比您咁講完佢就已經忘記曬佢之前係點...哎...真係比佢激死lor...
我會嘗試您嘅提意.明天"汁"一個櫃比佢ga la..


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-20 01:24 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

katyfok ~~其實我都係同您一樣...佢食咩我食d咩...好似今日我食牛"留"..佢都係食牛留....講真我覺得自己都係待薄佢丫....我又吾係吾比佢食...不過吾想佢老鳳姐...不過明天開始,我會同佢講清楚...


大宅

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發表於 06-6-20 10:06 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

BABALALA
你可以分開地方放你同佢D野食,包括雪櫃同零食盒,同工人講呢兩個地方就係你的,以後你肚餓就係度攞野食/飲~
咁你定時定後再補充比佢~


男爵府

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發表於 06-6-20 11:42 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

算啦,


大宅

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發表於 06-6-21 00:27 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

"男人如果吓吓都check住個工人食咗啲乜飲咗啲也就死啦.飲乜野自己攞啦,千其唔好煩我.我睇波呀.飲完咪去買過..."

This is the kind of man I like.. I think man should be like this... have this kind of 胸襟.
Twindaddy,
I agree with you 110%.... My husband is like this... he will not 理 anything about our maid... It's really my job to manage our maid and he trusts my judgement.

BABALALA,
You and your husband talk about who's responsible for manging your maid...it makes things easier .. for both you and your maid.
but to me... I think男人應focus大事like career or 搵錢....屋企野 like 工人, 兒女, 買乜送... leave it to me la.... ( this was true even when I was working FT).
Just my opinion...
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發表於 06-6-21 02:27 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

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伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-21 03:42 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

J&D~~您咁邊小家呀...起碼您買d佢中2食嘅野比佢....不過我工人勁勁勁細食...每次食飯都係3-4啖...送又食得小wor...已經成日好似迫佢食咁ga la...有時都好驚佢會暈ga...不過佢吾食都無計..佢話怕肥wor...哎...激死人...不過吾知係咪佢初離報到...有d怕羞呱....


伯爵府

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發表於 06-6-21 03:43 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

katyfok...twinsdady~~您地2個都講得好岩...所以我吾應該嬲我老公,...


複式洋房

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發表於 06-6-21 11:38 |只看該作者

Re: 我咁樣對工人是否很小家??

有時就算你俾鮑心翅肚同燕窩, 外傭都唔一定識食或者appreciate架.

我有次整咗煲「雪哈膏」糖水俾阿嫂, 因為佢同個仔都鍾意食又唔識整喎 (扮晒唔識煑飯個種)…Anyway, 佢仲「好大方」分咗一大碗俾菲傭食, 剩番少少俾我咋; 點知咁啱我入厨房攞Spoon, 俾我見到菲傭成碗倒落Sink盆, 根本冇食過, 原來菲傭唔知雪哈膏係乜(鄉下無呱?!), 所以唔敢食, 倒咗, 真係浪費.

我就心痛我個荷包, 雖然雪哈膏唔係太貴, 但都唔平架… :-(

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