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大宅

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發表於 05-8-21 19:43 |只看該作者

A shocking finding on my (good) maid

I have 1 maid whom I (used to) think she is very good. She seems to love my daughter & I never complained about her at all since she worked for me in Dec. Today we took her out in our car. We dropped her off with our daughter before we headed for the supermarket. When I came home, she asked me if I saw a mobile phone on the back seat. I said no. She said it's ok, but I offered to go to the car to find it out for her as she should be quite nervous losing her mobile ($$$). I took my own mobile to call her phone to hear where the phone might be dropped. I found her phone & saw my photo indicating I called. She edited my photo to look like a monkey. I was shocked. My husband confirmed I had never been harsh on her. I paid her above market price etc etc. This is disrepect. I never address her as maid but helper. I almost take her to a trip overseas, now I have to think twice.

Last month when we went to Japan leaving my daughter with her, my daughter's face had 2 bruises on each side. She said my daughter knocked her face onto some hard toys & swore she didn't harm my daughter at all. My doctor friend said it couldn't be possible & warned me that she might have pinched my daughter.

One year ago, I had a maid who worked for me for 3 years & suddenly fled away, saying I didn't treat her well. This time my maid joked on me like that. What shall I do? Can any Philippino be trustworthy at all?


珍珠宮

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發表於 05-8-21 21:39 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

Never trust them, needs always checking and work under supervision.


男爵府

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發表於 05-8-21 23:08 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

I just warned my maid too, she was found to do things not as told, same as you, I felt very disappointed :-( :-( :-( I trust her and treat her good as a family member.....

the maid got tears and promised to make improvement, I'm not sure whether it was 'true'


公爵府

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發表於 05-8-22 01:00 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

Jsmami
對佢好唔好, 要看工人自己. 就算我地對佢幾好, 佢地都可能唔認同. 我係你, 我會好坦白問佢點解我張相會係咁樣???? 話佢知你的感受. 有時我地對工人點好, 此終有身份的隔莫, 佢地都未必會感受到.

我會再check緊點. 話晒小朋友係佢手.


洋房

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發表於 05-8-22 01:08 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

我會好坦白問佢點解我張相會係咁樣???? 話佢知你的感受
我會再check緊點. 話晒小朋友係佢手

Agree

How old is your baby? If she can't talk, try to observe her reaction. If she does not like this helper, something bad might happen to her. I had this experience before when my daughter was 9 months old


子爵府

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發表於 05-8-22 11:41 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid



Jsmami,

I feel so sorry for you, always facing helper like this.

My husband should be satisfied with our current helper, he is too picky on minor issues. Aaah...

God bless you.
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別墅

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發表於 05-8-22 13:50 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

I will never leave my daughter alone with my maid until she can talk, meaning can tell me what happened while I was away etc. Never trust domestic helpers, they have 2 faces!!!


大宅

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發表於 05-8-22 14:30 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

Jsmami
妳個賓賓都好有問題.我從來都不信工人,因為佢地不是我們的親人.工人与我們的關係只建立在金錢之上.老實說,十個工人九個自己都會係咁諗.只是我們做僱主的一相情願的當她們是朋友.
佢把妳張相edit成咁,我諗佢唔只唔尊重妳,而且係好唔鐘意妳.再者佢咁對妳個囡囡,已經係死罪.如果我是妳,我會帶個囡去睇醫生,由醫生做証明,再報警告佢虐兒.即炒佢一個仙都唔使補.
至於係咪所有賓賓都不可信,我諗十個有八個啦.睇下妳係咪好彩那個.老實說本地家傭係最好;但亦最貴.


大宅

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發表於 05-8-22 14:32 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

emeraldlam 寫道:
Jsmami
對佢好唔好, 要看工人自己. 就算我地對佢幾好, 佢地都可能唔認同. 我係你, 我會好坦白問佢點解我張相會係咁樣???? 話佢知你的感受. 有時我地對工人點好, 此終有身份的隔莫, 佢地都未必會感受到.

我會再check緊點. 話晒小朋友係佢手.


agree!
我覺得對bun bun有適當的尊重就夠喇!唔好呼呼渴渴, 唔好當佢奴隸就夠喇!
千祈唔好諗住交個心出黎, 當正佢係family member!唔係盞自己傷心!

agree very much -->"有時我地對工人點好, 此終有身份的隔莫, 佢地都未必會感受到."

始終係僱傭關係!


翡翠宮

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發表於 05-8-22 15:03 |只看該作者

Re: A shocking finding on my (good) maid

工人無本心的, 你對佢幾好都無用, 佢地大多數都唔會將心比己的, 你越對佢好, 佢越覺得應份, 所以我家陣都係有錯照鬧 唔使比面佢地係咪湊緊你個b, 等佢知道你唔係一個好蝦既人, 你惡佢反而忌你三分若果被你發現佢打仔怕你唔知會點對佢添 :evil: 但你 "林" 下下怕有人"質"在佢手, 佢仲會對你個b衰添

至於佢鍾意用咩相黎代表你, 我覺得呢d好私人正如你可以用隻豬黎形容佢一樣, 我係你隻眼開隻眼閉當唔知好過, 但若果佢係明知我知的話我會要求佢delete左佢或解釋點解要咁做, 比佢知道咁樣係叫唔尊重我, 你問佢咁我以後叫你死蠢你就要即刻在我面前出現得唔得一樣道理, 呢個係尊重人既問題再且你係佢個mum

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