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別墅

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發表於 11-7-30 01:44 |只看該作者
BB兩個多月大,仲有一個月我就要返工喇!
但我都搵唔到好信任的人幫我,我唔想請工人,下年我以前幫我媽咪打左十幾年工的工人會完約過來幫我,所以出年佢來時我就可以放心返工了~
好爭扎好唔好辭工,唔做嘢一年。。。宜家日日見個BB都有唔同,又好想睇住佢大。。。唉。。。但唔返工又無收入。。。雖然我儲到D錢都夠洗。。。但我本身人工都OK。。。唔做又爭好遠。。。點好呢。。。
各位FTM,你地有咩感覺呀?


別墅

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發表於 11-7-30 03:41 |只看該作者

回覆:wwy_08 的帖子

咁要睇你老公有幾多收入,如果你老公應付到,咁你可以做ftm,等bb大小小再做啊野。冇野緊要得過自己嘅仔女




複式洋房

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發表於 11-7-30 16:51 |只看該作者
其實搵唔到信任的人幫手睇BB真係好唔放心...我之前都掙扎左好耐先決定請姐姐,SO FAR幾好.我都暫時好放心! 可能我請返個姐姐本身有家庭同埋有個小朋友啦~ 其實如果你自己本身係有料,有經驗, 我都覺得你停一年唔做野,做FTM都好好! 到一年後再搵應該都唔難! 除非你現在份工真係好荀,走左搵唔返, 如果唔係我都覺得你做FTM係好好0既!!


伯爵府

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4#
發表於 11-7-30 23:14 |只看該作者
我之前份工真係OK架!但我都決定做FTM,因為我好想同自己既小朋友一齊成長 (當然你老公要支持你啦)!

其實童年好快過,眨下眼我個囝都一歲幾,好快又話要返學,到時佢都冇得廿四小時陪住我 (係!係佢陪我,唔係我陪佢!)

所以如果你真係想做野,不如等佢返學之後就做啦!再加上,小朋友性格既形成,最重要係頭三年!就算你個工人湊小朋友幾叻令你幾放心,我估佢都未必會 / 識教你個小朋友點做人!


大宅

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發表於 11-8-1 19:48 |只看該作者
睇住BB的成長,陪佢一齊長大的經驗,無多多錢都值得!
以誠以真代人,希望你體會到~


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發表於 11-8-1 20:04 |只看該作者

回覆:好唔好唔做嘢做FTM?

其實我都好掙扎!老公想我湊bb,但我又唔想靠晒他!
但請工人又唔放心!請本地保母又好唔抵!bb預產期係月尾,重有時間諗!不過個衰佬已經洗橫手,我地會搬去大埔村屋,如果他不車我,返工就會好辛苦!
宜家份工啲同事又好!真係好難選擇!
其實老公養得起,自己湊可以睇住寶貝成長其實都好開心!
所有我有諗等bb返學再搵過份工!真係好矛盾




別墅

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7#
發表於 11-8-3 01:38 |只看該作者
其實做FTM除左少左收入,好多人都會有另一個問題!好多人話個媽咪會無左自已的生活,想行開吓抖吓都唔得,好大壓力,係咪呢?
我諗除左錢,真係無其他考慮因素MA?


大宅

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8#
發表於 11-8-4 11:22 |只看該作者
wwy_08 發表於 11-8-3 01:38
其實做FTM除左少左收入,好多人都會有另一個問題!好多人話個媽咪會無左自已的生活,想行開吓抖吓都唔得, ...

其實好睇個人個性格 同個環境 而我o既性格就會有"無左自已的生活,想行開吓抖吓都唔得"依種壓力,加上身邊個個都要返工 無人可以幫我分擔吓...
有時99放假C6叫我抖吓俾99湊吓 就到我唔放心 因為BB得2月多D 而99都無湊開.........我唔放心lor...
不過依個只係我其中一個壓力來源.....




別墅

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發表於 11-8-4 11:59 |只看該作者
Michelle_666 發表於 11-8-4 11:22
其實好睇個人個性格 同個環境 而我o既性格就會有"無左自已的生活,想行開吓抖吓都唔得"依種壓力,加上身 ...
我同你個CASE好似!!我又係想行開吓,其實行幾個鐘街都好。。。 C6又係叫我俾99湊一陣。。。我又係唔放心。。。佢唔係無湊開。。。而係湊緊一個,再加上我唔太認同佢的湊法。。。又怕俾佢湊開佢成日要我抱返去俾佢湊。。。


大宅

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發表於 11-8-4 13:13 |只看該作者
wwy_08 發表於 11-8-4 11:59
我同你個CASE好似!!我又係想行開吓,其實行幾個鐘街都好。。。 C6又係叫我俾99湊一陣。。。我又係唔放心 ...

BB一直都係我自己湊 之前有次試過因為有野要做 所以 俾99湊咗4,5個鐘 之後帶返BB返屋企 果晚成晚佢係咁喊 好無安全感咁.....我同C6都覺得係因為BB以為我哋唔理佢 > <" 所以佢就好無安全感咁係咁喊......自此我就唔敢再放低俾人湊.....要等佢大D先.....


大宅

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發表於 11-8-4 13:54 |只看該作者
可能我性格唔太適合做全職媽媽,我B而家6個月,我都未係好enjoy全職湊B,只係唔放心交比人,老公又覺得自己湊會好D,於是繼續自己湊,但我成日都想可以做返野。

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Michelle_666  我都係咁o既諗法,我其實最主要係經濟問題,想做返野可以幫輕吓c6嘅負擔...  發表於 11-8-4 14:12


大宅

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發表於 11-8-4 14:17 |只看該作者
my son is 9 mths now,i've just quit my job and will be a ftm soon. I am a professional working in Central, salary and position are good. But as said by other mama, when the kids grow up, they will not need us anymore, so i just want to spend time with him in this golden period. Maybe when my son study in primary school, i will go back to work again! But afterall, the main pt is whether your husband is supportive as this is the key success factor to be a ftm.

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Michelle_666  totally agree~  發表於 11-8-4 14:37


大宅

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13#
發表於 11-8-4 14:48 |只看該作者
回覆 lalawowo 的帖子

Absolutely agree!!!! My parents + parents in law all want me to go to work....my parents in law of course want me to earn more $ so i don't need to rely on their 'son'.....and my parents said i shouldn't waste the work experiences in the past years and if i stop working for too long, no company will hire me.......but i really don't think so....I quite enjoy being a ftm, although without helper, I feel like very exhausted but when I see my daughter smile and being like a 'sticky rice' to me, I feel very happy and all the hard time fall behind...........I also plan to go to work again when she is in K1.....I want to spend more time with her...


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發表於 11-8-4 14:57 |只看該作者
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大宅

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發表於 11-8-4 14:59 |只看該作者
cutiebee 發表於 11-8-4 14:48
回覆 lalawowo 的帖子

Absolutely agree!!!! My parents + parents in law all want me to go to work... ...

"my parents said i shouldn't waste the work experiences in the past years and if i stop working for too long, no company will hire me" My parents said that too........

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