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發表於 11-9-2 13:40 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 ms.aeroplane 於 11-9-2 14:40 編輯

阿女小一,佢好鐘意返學,但因為冇幼稚園同學升同一間小學(跨網)...!我都話佢知冇幼稚園同學一齊,佢可以識新朋友!今日第二日返學,佢話佢識唔到同學仔,小息自己一個!佢話有個同班同學兩日都問佢叫咩名...咁阿女問佢可唔可以一齊玩,但個同學仔冇應佢,佢有唔開心!佢覺得自己唔會識到新同學...我同佢講,慢慢就會有架啦,我話你幼稚園最初都係冇咁快識到朋友仔啦...!我其實有信心阿女會識到朋友,因為佢去興趣班同公園,都會識到朋友仔!但當佢話怕自己識唔到同學仔,我又好難過....!!!

各位MAMI,你地小朋友有冇識過咁呀?


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發表於 11-9-2 15:06 |只看該作者

回覆:阿女唔開心,佢話未識到同學仔....

唔使難過呀女咁叻,我會安慰佢返學唔只為了識朋友,先做好自己,朋友自然會游埋嚟!



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ms.aeroplane  THX!我都有讚佢會主動同人講野已經好叻....!  發表於 11-9-2 15:39


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發表於 11-9-2 18:26 |只看該作者

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如果妳囡囡本身係性格開朗容易識朋友嘅人,妳更加唔駛擔心,初升小一大家未熟,妳比d食物佢帶返學小息同同學仔分享下,好快有朋友仔架啦!



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ms.aeroplane  我會試下....!  發表於 11-9-2 18:45


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發表於 11-9-3 10:03 |只看該作者
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My daughter also has the same problem. As same as your daughter, she is the only one to go to her primary school.
She said she was alone during the recess. She tried to talk to some classmates but they didn't give her real responses. You see, iit is just the same as your daughter's case!! :(

I also don't know how to help her. Somehow I feel it is something she must learn and deal with all by herself. However, I feel sooooo sorry for her at the same time. It must be lonely and poor to be alone at the school. It would make them harder to enjoy the school life.

I hope time can really help...

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ms.aeroplane  希望我地嘅小朋友可以好快過渡!  發表於 11-9-3 13:41


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發表於 11-9-3 13:12 |只看該作者
cpcog 發表於 11-9-3 10:03
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My daughter also has the same problem. As same as your daughter, she is th ...


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發表於 11-9-3 13:35 |只看該作者
Cpcog

完全同你心情一樣!但我覺得係過渡期,以後幾十年都有好多机會遇到同一狀況,有時會當係一個學習嘅機會,當然我見到女兒流淚訴說感受,作為媽媽的我,覺得很酸....!我只有繼續鼓勵佢,唔好灰心,只要主動和友善,慢慢就會有朋友.佢都同我講,佢唔會放棄!好彩佢冇因為依個原因而唔想返學,佢係好鐘意返學!希望你同我嘅小朋友可以好快過渡!


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發表於 11-9-3 22:07 |只看該作者
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I also feel heart breaking to see her feeling lonely too. Today she told me that having recess is boring because there is nobody playing or even talking to her. I know she really wants to have some friends.

I do hope both of our girls would enjoy school more and more and have new friends sooner!! If she can't make friends, she would be unhappy for the next 12 years. :( Worried!


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發表於 11-9-3 23:42 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 ms.aeroplane 於 11-9-3 23:54 編輯

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唔會啦!我諗我地唔會容許依樣野困擾12年!係米?如果仲持續一段時間,一定會想法子去解決!
我自己都係小學同中學都係一個人入新學校,以前我冇我個女咁主動...不知不覺一樣識到朋友!可能....可能....佢地係我地個女,所以好怕佢地受傷害!會肉痛...!
雖然覺得佢好可憐,但我都唔會响佢面前話佢好可憐之類嘅說話...要正面同佢講,係唔會咁快識到...只係2日,大家連名都唔記得,個個心情都未定落嚟之類!最緊要話佢知,係"慢慢"會識到朋友仔,千其唔好用"好快"!等佢冇咁大壓力!
今日買左少少糖,等佢試下返學校請同學仔食,睇下點先!其實我都驚依招唔得,佢會有錯敗感...又要諗定點支援佢...做媽咪,咩事都要擔心一餐~!
到時再話你知有冇效果...!你唔好仲擔心過我啦...!!!
仲有係依加d小朋友比較重視自我形象,所以冇人理自己,會加重失落感!


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發表於 11-9-4 12:56 |只看該作者
YOu are right, we should say more positive things in front of our girls. We might give her some suggestion how to start talking to the new classmates.

Candies is a good way. Children would be happy if they get somethings from the others. :)

Yes, I guess I am more worried than you because I knew it would happen before. I understand her character so that made me feeling nervous about her social life in the future. She is very unique and has her own taste. That might influence the other's students feeling towards her.

I agree that mothers always think too much! haha


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發表於 11-9-5 21:40 |只看該作者
你個女O係其他地方都交到朋友,我諗都係要比D時間佢架啫...
最緊要係要比D信心佢!
加油呀

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ms.aeroplane  thx!  發表於 11-9-6 08:24


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發表於 11-9-6 08:42 |只看該作者
you too, ms.aeroplane! Perhaps we should trust our kids!:)

Mine said she wanted some magic to make all people liking her. she really wants to make some friends.
As you are a mother, you would feel down and sour to hear that.. :(


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發表於 11-9-6 09:00 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 ms.aeroplane 於 11-9-6 09:04 編輯

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囡囡話琴日小息有同學同佢打招呼,佢請人食糖,跟住一齊坐响度食小食...!佢話佢地唔係講左好多野...甚至佢地連大家叫咩名都唔記得!不過係一個好嘅經驗!
你囡囡都要加油AR!
我老公話唔好擔心,點到要比佢自己經歷一下...同埋佢話阿女份人比較感性啫,佢連去遊行,回程時,唔捨得都喊餐C...


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發表於 11-9-6 11:23 |只看該作者
I think most mothers would worry and think much more than fathers.

Mine also said she talked to 2 boys yesterday but didn't know their names. She can just tell me that both of them are non-Chinese.

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ms.aeroplane  good!  發表於 11-9-6 13:16


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發表於 11-9-6 16:46 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 ms.aeroplane 於 11-9-6 16:55 編輯

阿女話今日有另一個同學仔同佢一齊玩跳飛機...太好LA!不過佢都唔知人地叫咩名..但係同班!
佢話佢小息去完TOILET,阿女行行下見到個同學仔一個人自己坐响度,佢又坐响人隔離,跟住佢見小朋友"MEET'唔開個蛋糕包裝袋,阿女教佢開,咁就識左喎,阿女仲提出玩跳飛機TIM...!!


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發表於 11-9-6 19:27 |只看該作者
wonderful! your girl is good and great! :) I believe she will have tonz of friends soon! :) You needn't worry so much anymore. :)

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ms.aeroplane  yeah!你都唔洗擔心啦,係時間問題啫..^^  發表於 11-9-6 22:48

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