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發表於 05-10-6 15:50 |只看該作者

點樣可以開解到我朋友?

我個fd(男仔)佢o岩o岩話比我知佢唔係好開心,原因係佢gf個媽咪同佢gf講唔係好like佢,係因為話佢搵唔到錢好似無咩前途咁,我聽完之後唔知應該講d咩先好呀 ?-(

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發表於 05-10-6 15:55 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

咁你覺得佢係咪好無前途丫, 定係人地亞媽要求高先, 你唔知點講, 你咪話等佢個女再大d到無吼時佢亞媽就唔會講呢番說話了

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發表於 05-10-6 16:04 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

不如我講d佢既野你聽下...等你認為佢有無前途啦
佢今年28歲
做緊sales (out door)
人工大約9仟
佢form 7畢業...佢女友讀緊大學
佢成日同我講目標係想搵兩萬一個月

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thymama

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發表於 05-10-6 16:16 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

唓，好多阿媽都係咁架啦，有mud出奇喎，d阿媽驚自己個女第日要捱丫嘛，我拍拖時我阿媽都係咁講架啦，後尾佢見個未來女婿咁錫我咪ok囉，而且仲對佢鬼死咁好添。依家最緊要係你fd個gf點睇先？

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發表於 05-10-6 16:20 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

好呀有target做人先有上進, 你咪叫佢咁樣同外母講囉

其實行行出狀員, 個女仔既亞媽太睇好佢個女第二時大學畢業一定搵大錢了, 你叫佢同未來外母講我公司家陣請個d sales都係要大學畢業架, 所以家陣大學生周街都係, 而佢地都係做緊sales咋, 仲想點呀, 計我話最緊要係個男人肯做同對個女好, 其他既再重詳計議囉, 佢亞媽真係少人同佢傾計呀, 再講唔掂叫佢未來外母pm比我, 等我感化下佢

不過話事話個男仔會唔會係得把口講, 但行動其實都幾散慢既人黎, 所以人地媽咪先咁話佢呀

你知啦我都係聽你一面之詞去評論, 分分鐘人地老母睇到既先係真實一面都未定, 我同你都被佢欺騙緊架

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thymama

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發表於 05-10-6 16:36 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

Ivy124 寫道:
不如我講d佢既野你聽下...等你認為佢有無前途啦
佢今年28歲
做緊sales (out door)
人工大約9仟
佢form 7畢業...佢女友讀緊大學
佢成日同我講目標係想搵兩萬一個月

我學歷同人工都高過我老公，我又唔覺得有咩唔妥喎，家下個女仔阿媽係咪讀好多書、搵好多錢先？

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發表於 05-10-6 16:40 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

咁我覺得個女仔既亞媽站在做媽咪既立場又無錯既

只不過佢唔可以單單向錢看, 都要睇下佢兩個相處架麻 :-|

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發表於 05-10-6 16:41 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

ringoivy

我又唔知佢有咩實際行動呀,不過我有諗過可能係佢地已經拍左拖成5-6年,人地個亞媽會認為哩個日子已經唔短,足夠睇清楚佢啦

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發表於 05-10-6 16:49 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

Ivy124 寫道:
不如我講d佢既野你聽下...等你認為佢有無前途啦
佢今年28歲
做緊sales (out door)
人工大約9仟
佢form 7畢業...佢女友讀緊大學
佢成日同我講目標係想搵兩萬一個月

F-7 educated, 28-yr old earning $9000, not bad.
Being sales doesn't mean no prospect. Nowadays in Hong Kong, only sales persons have prospect. If you are now in administration, years later you will definitely be laid off because of intensification of IT or because of operations/administration centres being shifted to mainland China.

However, definitely he has to continue his education in order to accelerate; or he will have no competitive advantages in the future. I don't think he will have any prospect if he can only maintain his present qualifications.

A bachelor degree seems a basic requirements for entry level in many professions/companies nowadays.

28 is still young. Being his girl firend, your friend has to encourage him to do so.

Alan

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發表於 05-10-6 16:49 |只看該作者

Re: 點樣可以開解到我朋友?

thymama

其實哩個年代邊個搵錢多有咩所謂呀,最緊要大家都盡心盡力為個家咪得lor
我覺得佢亞媽咁諗係無錯,有邊個亞媽唔想自己個女嫁得好,但你選人時人亦選你ja

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