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d2343130


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發表於 05-10-5 07:21 |只看該作者

餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

問的都問了,要試的也試了,情況卻依照!?
bb是無法,不知明的,反反覆覆的不時甦來;試泵出大量給他睡前食, 試改一改床舖,試令他累點睡(他已是日間不多睡!!)...但仍是沒有多大改變! 難道要找人來看那兒是安睡位嗎?? 那個位應給我.

每日,總是期望有新的進展,但可給你一晚的高興,之後可能會更差. 他會突然只叫你給1次奶, 之後是天亮了才要;可是第2日又是個多小時又喊叫了,已吃完才個多小時又甦,由他喊累自動再睡吧, 但他再睡後的個多小時後仍是會又喊叫你!!

是否不理怎樣,他要就給他吃;但他已快5個月了,說到底也應有點規矩, 難道他要吮著你才肯睡,你也順他嗎!? 若他只是在頭2個月是這樣,還可給大家點時間去調較,但已守候了快3個月,仍然是一點改善也沒有,我不知還可以堅持嗎!!!

人人皆說盡餵人奶,我是很想的,工作也不做了待在家中,為的只是照顧他,但換來的只有鬆弛的身體,黑大的眼肚,呆立的目光,疲倦的心靈, 壞了的關節....更難受是家人的反應 - 已叫你人奶奶粉都給他吃,有時也可叫工人揍,可必令自己辛苦....

如不要令自己辛苦,一早就不應生他出來,瀟遙自在誰不想!! 生他出來給工人揍,不如不生!! 是自己的固執,但工人的操手及她們的準則,有時令人真的擔心! 是時,我真的想餵奶粉,但誰可保證他食了是可安睡到天明,我也有睡的時候!

黃昏的夜色到晨早的破曉,我也一刻一刻的欣賞過,但不是自願要有詩意,是迫出來的! 因這段時間, 我是有期待及努力去造就, 我不需由黃昏至晨早也是一覺也沒好睡的,不用去欣賞陽光由暗再光的情形, 我想的只是給我一丁點時間睡睡吧!!

不太過吧!!
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Re: 餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

d2343130 ,

how old is your bb?? new born bb ? right?

does your bb sleep with u?? yes, bf bb need milk milk at night ga...and your milk production will be more at night time tim....

you'll be more comfortable if bb sleep with u...bb need the security and safety from mom....

and bf bb dun have the schedule of when to have milk ga..."feed on demand " ma...and when bb need you more, more sucking, can stimulate to produce more milk.

look positive la....this tough period will go later on.....
i support u to keep up and continue ar...share with us your difficulties la...:)

my bb is now 16 months and she's still a bf bb...

i enjoy this relationship with her....when i bf her and after finish, she'll smile at me....this kind of satisfaction....can't replace..

:-P :-P
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Re: 餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

d2343130
我都好明白你，因為我的BB也是一樣。
明知道佢可以睡天光，但有時又2個鐘醒一次。試過幾晚佢9pm-6am禁訓，但唔知點解，之後又亂醒。重覆返個幾日的時期表，又無濟於事。
我移家睡在他的小床邊的地下，為左方便佢半夜食奶，同埋唔好嘈醒老公。都唔知幾時我至可以返房同老公訓。
我個B有濕疹的，濕疹嚴重的日子，佢半夜醒得多D架。你個B會唔會有D唔舒服所以半夜醒？
你有冇用毛巾包住佢，好似訓得好D。
令自己開心D---半夜BB半睡個樣，有時真係好得意。
皓霖BB小天地 Tiffany的小世界
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Re: 餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

Hi d2343130,

My BB is the same too, or even worse:
He has to take the bottle during the daytime while I'm at work and he hates it. For the whole day, he'd only take around 8-10 oz of milk.
So at night-time, he'd make up for it by direct breastfeeding literally all night.
Haha, I have panda eyes too!
But I don't mind as long as my BB smiles!

Yes. Be positive!
It's a good thing that BB has a good appetite and that he needs you.
When your BB is 6 months old and you add in solid foods to his diet, he may feel fuller during the day and demand less milk at night.

These days are tiring, but precious and memorable.
One day, your BB will understand what a wonderful mum you are.

  Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg
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Re: 餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

Hi d2343130,

Be happy, add oil! Lots of mummies are on the same boat :)

My BB is going into 7 months old and he still wakes up every other hour. Whenever he wakes up I would shut him up by putting him on my breast. I put him on top of me, and with pillows on left and right side of my arms for supporting purpose. Both of us in very comfy position so can rest/sleep while he drinks milk, sometimes he would sleep right away on my body after he finished, but other time he would want to get down and go back to his side of the bed. For me I just make sure he is in a safe position to drink milk then I don't care how long he suck, I ignore him and sleep myself

I look at it positively as the more he drinks the better for him, especially he drinks very little milk during the day so I am very happy to see a wet diaper overnight. I am a working mother so I always need a cup of coffee to start the day.

Add oil!
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Re: 餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

Dear d2343130,
妳千萬不要灰心, 這裡有好多媽咪支持妳. 已餵了五個月已經好叻了. 妳現在辛苦一段時間來換取bb的一生健康和聰明,是非常值得. 我的大女已前都是這樣不能一覺睡天光.直至有人跟我說,"把老公的褲子返轉放在bb床尾上".真的bb每晚都很乖,很是很神奇. 現在細B也是這樣做, 兩個半月了,有時要整醒佢先食. 希望這方法對妳BB都有較啦!
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Re: 餵人奶的晚上....是令人沮喪的>>>>

你是躺餵的嗎? 如果還不是的話, 大膽些快快學曉這技巧吧!我亦試過你的情況, 日間要上班, 晚上仍要抱著餵真的會令人極疲累, 我還試過抱著bb坐著入睡呢! 但當bb月齡稍大後(3至4個月), 便索性晚上與bb同床, 效果舒服多了, 雖然bb仍一晚醒兩三次頻頻索食, 但由於提早了跟bb上床, 整體上一晚的睡眠時間, 比好多要追看電視劇的人還要長.
I Love H3
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d2343130
以前, 我都一直概嘆 - 究竟亞囝幾時先唔食夜奶! 真係好辛苦, 第二朝又要返工, 又長期未能一覺睡天光。但久而久之, 我都沒有再諗這個問題了...
當ryan過了一歲, 便漸漸不用夜奶, 我可以話你比知, 我而家仍然係每晚不能一覺睡天光, 點都會醒一醒, 睇下ryan有冇負被呀等...半夜醒來已成了我的習慣, 當然, 偶爾ryan仍會半夜要下奶奶的, 但真的, 我已不覺得辛苦! 其實好在乎你的心態如何, 反正都係要餵, 何不餵得開開心心? 夜奶的需求個個bb不同, 有些好快就唔須要, 有d就好大都需求, 可能仲要幾次tim! 放鬆d啦, 你要改變下你既諗法喇!
p.s. 我係同ryan一齊訓的, 咁樣比較餵得舒服, 前後都係醒幾秒。

加油! 你已經好叻, 唔好諗到咁絕望, 睇下自己個bb幾可愛!
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我囝囝自從五個月大開始出牙仔, 就開始食番夜奶, 你BB會否出牙仔呀?
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我BB宜家一個月多D，夜晚都係兩個鐘醒一次，早排有幾日太辛苦，瞓前都俾O左奶粉佢食，宜家個人精神D就堅持唔開奶粉，有時瞓瞓O下醒O左，以為自己仲餵緊奶，週圍搵BB，原來BB仲O係床仔瞓緊，跟住就會諗"我幾時放返佢落去O架?"諗起都覺得攪笑。

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d2343130


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多謝各位的熱心回應!!
我無比佢訓住食,因佢唔太鍾意, 佢個多月時已一要食就訓住食,點知佢唔要又喊,試左一段日子都係喊唔食,就唯有坐住食!!
因此,bb同我同房不同床!!
至於比爸爸條褲放床尾,就唔知會點啦,可以今晚試下!!
thank you very much
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發表於 05-10-5 19:37 |只看該作者

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其實我個bb出世之後, 都未曾試一次連續睡2.5小時, 而家bb2.5個月大，平均我1.5-2小時要起身一次。

我每天8:45am要出門上班, 要6:30pm才放工, 回到家都成7:00。

回到家吃完飯仲要敎大女(12yrs,老公前妻生)做功課, 同大仔(5yrs)溫書及玩耍, 跟本上就唔我以提早睡覺, 每晚最早都要11:30pm-12:00才上床。

好彩bb每晚8:00-8:30會睡大覺至12:00-1:30am, 所以晚上時間可留給大女同大仔。(其實bb都好識做)

我知道可能我晚上不埋身吃奶, 改為叫工人用樽喂, bb會飽點及睡久一點, 不用1.5-2hrs吃一次奶, 而我可有足夠睡眠第2日返工。但我不考慮這樣做, 因為我好少時間埋身喂, 想爭取多點對bb及刺激乳線。

最難頂就是在5:00-8:00am, 因為bb睡夠了, 5:00-6:00am吃完奶要抱著睡, 7:00am後就要玩, 我個大仔又要7:30am起床準備返學, 個工人要照佢早餐及返學, 我就湊bb等工人返才可準備上班, 所以真係冇覺好訓。

但唔知點解, 我還是可以好安然咁一天一天熬下去, 精神還算不錯。見到bb吃母乳長得胖胖的, 就有power繼續落去。
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mikitten 寫道:
我BB宜家一個月多D，夜晚都係兩個鐘醒一次，早排有幾日太辛苦，瞓前都俾O左奶粉佢食，宜家個人精神D就堅持唔開奶粉，有時瞓瞓O下醒O左，以為自己仲餵緊奶，週圍搵BB，原來BB仲O係床仔瞓緊，跟住就會諗"我幾時放返佢落去O架?"諗起都覺得攪笑。

我到移家，久唔久都係禁。
皓霖BB小天地 Tiffany的小世界
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gigiso
"p.s. 我係同ryan一齊訓的, 咁樣比較餵得舒服, 前後都係醒幾秒。"
禁你老公呢？一年分床訓？
我解決唔到，要老公定要個仔。。。
皓霖BB小天地 Tiffany的小世界
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d2343130: Thank you for your posting and sharing your experience. Now I know I'm not alone! My 5 months old daughter is exactly the same. People kept telling me the first 6-8 weeks are the toughest for BF and it will get better and better. With my daughter it is not. My first 6 weeks was pretty good after milk comes. She used to wake up only once at 3am for one feeding all night uptil around 3 months. Starting from around 4 months, she wakes up every 1.5 hours between 12 midnight and 6am. She won't nurse when laying on my bed and I have to pick her up and sit on a chair. Most of the time I just sleep in the living room with her, so that HB won't be disturbed so much. I wanted to give up BF many times because I have no energy during the day and no mood to take care of my eldest son, but my daughter insisted on not taking any milk from bottles... so I kept going and going... kept telling myself she will be better next month... I'm scared of nightfall sometimes because I dunno how many times she is going to wake up crying again.
Now I hope that when she is 6 months old, with the addition of baby cereal, she might sleep longer at night... for the time being, let's ADD OIL together and enjoy the night feedings. :-|
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係呀 我仔仔才剛滿月 佢都係冇定時咁要食奶 一放佢落床仔佢就醒 所以我就決定晚上與bb同床 之後我就有覺好訓喇 平均可以訓8個鐘以上 仔仔訓係我隔離 佢一醒我就幫佢換片 之後比佢食奶 咁我地就一路食一路訓 佢知道媽媽一直係佢隔離 感覺好安全 晚上跟本不會喊 有時佢醒左 聽到我心跳聲 就自己又訓番 你都試下啦
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CindyMak 寫道:
gigiso
"p.s. 我係同ryan一齊訓的, 咁樣比較餵得舒服, 前後都係醒幾秒。"
禁你老公呢？一年分床訓？
我解決唔到，要老公定要個仔。。。


一齊訓囉! 將bb床拆掉一邊再拍埋我地將床, 佢食完就會碌返自己將床訓。而我一直都係訓中間, 無論餵左餵右都係, ryan一定o係的右手邊, 老公就一定o係我左手邊。
昨晚勁好笑, ryan訓到半夜走左去攬住個老豆訓, 訓訓下竟然啜我老公個奶奶, 跟住我老公話: "我無奶奶喎! 訓啦" 跟住ryan又真係繼續訓, 第二朝老公同我講返真係笑死我!
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bb要甦來,並非完全是為肚餓,其實是想吮住安睡或是要你抱住!!
每一天由晨早開始便是新一個惡夢,他什麼時間會睡一回讓你也可睡,但是沒有的,我的b是不會睡覺的,日與夜也是;除非你揹著或推車出外令他睡,那可會有45分鐘的. 更何況一到黃昏,人會很徬徨起來,他今晚又要嘈吵幾多次呢? 自己還可以嗎?? 心真的很灰,那管早有準備也不知這個b是這樣令人感到無助,惶恐,沮喪...... 因我的大仔不是這樣的,雖則也是個日間不睡的,但晚上不會不斷甦來食奶或要安慰. 也因有比較,令自己更陷入谷底, 想問"我做錯了什麼, 為何這個是這樣???"
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Dear d2343130,

I think it's hard to face my BB 24 hours per day too, whether BB is good or naughty. It's a really heavy workload! Honestly, after returning back to work after my maternity leave, I'm feeling less tired!

You've already tried your best. It seems to me that there's nothing wrong with you or your BB. Maybe it's just the way he is.

Is there someone to share the workload of taking care of your BB with you? You really need to get out of the house on your own to breathe in some fresh air every day!
  Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg
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