This is the message card that I had drawn for you ......
Holding on to a past hurt is preventing you from moving forward and achieving your heart's desires. Let it go! Forgiveness does not mean that you condone another's action; it simply means that you are no longer willing to be a perpetual victim to a particular person or event. Blame is a waste of your precious energy. Bless and surrender the past for in doing so you will reclaim the joy of life.