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發表於 05-11-1 17:13 |只看該作者

help!

有冇搵過私家偵探查老公? 我想知價錢, tks.

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parker

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發表於 05-11-1 21:42 |只看該作者

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要睇下你查乜野, 使唔使跟踪偷拍...一般都唔會平, 數千至數萬不等.

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StrawberryBB

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發表於 05-11-1 22:13 |只看該作者

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好似每小時收費,真係幾貴架!!
為何要找私家偵探呀?

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焯嵐媽咪

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發表於 05-11-1 22:31 |只看該作者

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wakuwaku

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發表於 05-11-2 01:26 |只看該作者

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"因為如果真係有問題你遲早會知!!" <<< agree

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ringoivy

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發表於 05-11-2 10:26 |只看該作者

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咪係除非你有大把否則都無謂浪費金錢, 做下善事積多d福好過, 有時搵到d 2打6私傢偵探真係賠了夫人又折兵, 咩都查唔到但錢又比左出去, 所以無咩大問題睇定d先啦, 紙係包唔住火架, 佢摭得一時唔摭得一世, 無多餘錢去搵答案的話, 倒不如等個答案黎搵你好過啦

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發表於 05-11-2 10:53 |只看該作者

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Thank you for all of your help.
I told you the whole story of what happen in my life.
I am sorry that my Chinese typing is not so good.
I & my husband is 35 yrs & have get married 5 years.
Since I am a accountant & have a higher salary & the salary is equal to 3 times of my husband's salary.
All the home matters, property mortgage & everything is paid by myself. Sometimes, if he is not have money to spent, I will give him to spent.
My husband to have a new job on Jul 1, 2005 (a junior japanese food cooker) located at Causeway Bay (working hours : 12:00pm - 11:00pm)
But my working hours is 9:30AM - 6:30PM. Therefore we can met at home together until he back to home for sleeping. The job is introduced by his old friend (a women) & she is the manager of the Japanese food. When start to do this job, he is always not to back to the home. He said he is eating the dinner with his colleague, play the game in his colleague's home, many many excuse which he is "lie" & cheating me. But I am still trust what he said. During the past Chinese Mid-Autumn Festival, Sep 18 & 19, 2005, he also not back to home. I am challenge him why this important day is not back to home. He just explained in lie again. So I follow him at Sep 24, 2005 after his working finished. I found that he leave with his manager together. I just follow him at 50 meter difference. I call him & ask him where are he & what he will do after work. He said he will go to eat food with all his colleague. & then they go to a mini bus station to wait the mini bus which mini bus is go to Wong Tai Sin which the manager is live here. I am surprising & I don't know what to do at this moment. I see that they take the mini bus & ready to go. I immediately call him & said where you are. He immediately leaving the mini bus & try to found me since he know I am near him.
He give me the excuse that he is go with his manager & eat food with his colleague together. But I said I just see all your colleague leave alone before. He just said he is go to the manager's home & help her to repair the computer. Quite a lie he can tell me. (it is 11:30pm). The manager has 2 daughter. It is impossible that he can go to her home in this sleeping time. So everything has changed. I call his mobile after 11:00pm everynight, He is not listen to me or will reply me later. Or just not reply my call. I sent the SMS to him, no answer etc the situation incur. Until the important point happen in Oct 26, 2005, I go to his working place & waiting for his finished the work. I try to communicate with him what reason & what happen of him for the recent behaviour. He tell me that He is no more feeling about me & avoid to stay at home to face me. It have incur this feeling before 2 years ago. He want to "seperate a period". That is why he don't back to home after work. After he explained he reason, he is disappearred during Oct 26-29. Since I have booked the trips before to go Macau with him. I have go with him to Macau at Oct 30 & 31. I try to get his heart return & try to give him know the last change. But after the trips, I just feel he is cheating me again & do the everything is not in real heart. That let me die heart. I have made the decision to seperate with him. I have changed the door lock at yestersday. But all his belonging is still in my home. I think he is living in the manager's home already. But everything he doesn't take away. Since he is no money in hand, he can cash advance from the bank to spent. That the whole story of mine. I want to check him does he have women since I want to trust him at last & don't hate him at coming future.

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siuwa

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發表於 05-11-2 11:22 |只看該作者

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其實你有冇問你老公點解唔想對住你? 仲有問下你自己仲想唔想同佢一起, 如果唔想, 請偵探都冇意思

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焯嵐媽咪

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發表於 05-11-2 11:29 |只看該作者

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發表於 05-11-2 11:37 |只看該作者

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發表於 05-11-2 12:20 |只看該作者

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Talkative,
Thank you so much. You have point out my problem in deep. It is I think but I can't actually concluse it in details. But now, I have already change the lock & cut its Octopus. What do you think I can do at this moment.

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發表於 05-11-2 12:23 |只看該作者

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I am still love my husband. Since he just like a child, I have said many of the "serious" talking to hurt him before.

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艾美

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發表於 05-11-2 12:27 |只看該作者

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佢去得第二個女人度住. 好明顯兩人是有不尋常關係. 既然佢講到明要分開. 你就不應該再經濟支援佢.

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ringoivy

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發表於 05-11-2 12:38 |只看該作者

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talkative你講得無錯, 佢老公可能會覺得有被人養既感覺, 但我覺得呢個都唔係問題, 若佢覺得自卑佢有無為自己前途考慮下先, 你唔增值自己, 唔通d資識會黎搵你架咩

樓主自己都話佢係一個大細路, 咁我相信一個細路仔係會好enjoy比人養的

家陣個問題好明顯出左黎, 樓主我唔明白點解你仲要搵私傢偵探, 你若想離婚好應該搵律師, 而律師方面亦可協助搵私傢偵探去查佢, 但我想你清楚一點, 若果搵到佢係有外遇, 係咪唔使同佢分身家先

你都知你自己本錢同條件都好過佢, 若要離婚時d細則最好問清楚律師好過, 而我亦睇到你好似想比機會你老公, 既然係咁就更加唔應該請私傢偵探, 倒不如四四六六拆點佢好過 ?-( 但我想你諗清楚呢個人是否值得你留戀

我睇唔到佢有咩好既地方令你值得留戀同比機會佢 :-x

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李吳知道

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發表於 05-11-2 12:41 |只看該作者

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其實佢一早就知你高薪厚職架啦! 佢而家才介意??

個女經理都會比佢高薪厚職架! 佢又唔介意??

佢講得咁清楚, 其實佢有無女人都唔重要了~~

佢可以去得另一個女人度訓, 你重想搵私家偵探查d咩?? 你已經做左私家偵探啦 :-|

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發表於 05-11-2 12:51 |只看該作者

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Since I am not sure that he is sleeping in the manager's home. I want to sure this point. He said he is walking around the street and may be stayed at the company's storage room. He is very afraid of his mother and don't want to face all the fact if I told our problem to his parent. So he is nothing to do & doesn't have take away all his belonging.

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ringoivy

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發表於 05-11-2 12:56 |只看該作者

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你都35歲人啦, 佢半夜三更去得人地屋企又點會唔過夜呀? 令願做街頭路宿者都唔返屋企, 簡直係天大笑話[img align=right]http://home.so-net.net.tw/pennywu6699/images/12text/A2-019.gif[/img]一個男人咁鍾意做縮頭烏龜, 我係你真係早放手早著, 逃避現實我最憎呢種拖泥帶水既男人 (唔係在我眼裡佢唔係男人) :tongue:

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發表於 05-11-2 12:58 |只看該作者

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發表於 05-11-2 13:13 |只看該作者

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so I am very confusing in my mind. I want to wait him to return back but I may be all losses. Do you think I still contact him by SMS and give him know that I am still love him. Since he don't phone me unless I phone his mobile. Any thing I can do to recover our 裂縫. I have suggested him before to live with his mother & I dispose my house. But since he is not like his mother to 日哦夜哦. His parent home is only have 3 member now & we can have the single room to live. Or may be I changed back the old door lock ??

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