she take care of bb is her job, but she also need to do cleaning. for helper she just test your bottom line.
Like my first yau yau, my husband keep mentioned that she must take good care of bb, if bb cry, then she need to take care bb and don't need to do cleaning and cooking. finally she just do simple cleaning like clean floor and wash clothes. the rest of things she seldom do it, only do it when we are at home.
Whole day she just stick next to my daughter, so relex, when bb sleep in the afternoon, she also sleep.
now i will give a task list for helper. She need to finish all tasks daily and weekly. but they will just follow 70%. maybe you can give her the list for daily task and weekly task, then ask her to follow it and do it.
You can tell her that you have no time to ask her to do this and that eveyday as this is routine job, no need to ask everyday. the list of task can let her to clearly see what she need to do.
For my list for daily work as below:
swape & mop the floor, wash clothes (if it can fill in full), wash toilet, clean kitchen after use, cook dinner
weekly tasks:
Mon- clean the whole kitchen, like cupboard, microwave, oven, fridge, window etc
Tue - clean the toilet (like cupboard, wall, window, etc) & balcony
Wed- clean the living room, like shoe cupboard, cupboard, table, chair, window, etc
Thur - clean 2 rooms, like window, change bedsheet, cupboard, etc
Fri - iron sir shirt only, need to check all area whether it is clean or not, and if any task she cant finish it from Mon to Thur, she need to do it.
Sat -clean master room, as we lock the room every day, so she only can clean it when we r at home
Sun - sometimes she take day off, if not, we normally go out together