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複式洋房

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發表於 05-11-22 14:25 |只看該作者

My Mother does not understand me

I have terminated a bad bun bun (Carig, Susan Tangalin) on 12 Nov 2005(call police, detroy my cooker, bad attitute, bad performance, always talk the mobile phone, like to bargain with me), She must leave HK on 25 Nov 2005.

In last week, she still sent me SMS to said "Although I give her bad released letter, but she has so many interview" - She is very "spell"

In yestersday, a agency call me to ask something about her, then I tell the truth to agency. Finally, the agency has not introduce any job to her. Afterward, I received three SMS sent from Susan to beg me to forgive her and help her by give her a good reference as she has a few days to find the new job only, she also state she need to back to HK to work to support her family. Then I replied her, I don't want other employer suffer something from employ her like me and she should borne everything as she has acts so many to force me to terminated her. (I don't believe bun bun already, as they like to talk lie and pretend, & I found if I help her, that is equal to talk lie to Hong Kong People)

But My Mother said if she cannot find the new job, so she is very poor and my mother said I try to help her, may be she know that she was wrong in the past and she will make improvement.

So many bun bun who want to work in HK are waiting the job, why I need to help the bad bun bun???



洋房

積分: 247


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發表於 05-11-22 15:35 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

其實, 這個maid 的所作所為,我看全都是出於故意, 看她走後SMS給你的留言便知, 只是她到最後才看到嚴重性才求恕, 但誰知道她不會在得到你的reference letter找到新僱主後, 再SMS給你說”風涼”話呢?

況且, 我不贊成你改寫一份好的reference letter給她, 我們最近聽到她們這麼多負面新聞, 我們香港的僱主更應團結一些, 很多時候, HK的僱主真的靠她們的reference letter僱用她們, 如果我們硬要寫一些違背良心的comment, 就等如自己人欺騙自己人, 或者下一個受害人就是她的新僱主。

我認為你的行為不至於對她趕盡殺絕, 你只是將真相告訴agent或potential employers, 又不是封殺她的出路, 只是”被動”式的提交資料, 並沒有錯。如果他們還僱用她的時候, 後果則由他們去bear吧!

或者, 你可以純粹寫一封很片面的reference letter, 簡單說明她在你家的年資, job duties 等資料算吧, 不提工作表現, 那明眼人都看得出吧!


大宅

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發表於 05-11-22 15:57 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

I think you did the right thing. Your mother is a kind person but this cannot be fit to the bun. They will do the same thing to the next employer so that she can 1 month notice fee. Don't blame yourself.


大宅

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發表於 05-11-22 16:14 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

DADA7JUN, I think you did the right thing too!! 如果你為左個bad bun bun 份工而背住良心寫封好嘅reference letter, 下個請左佢嘅僱主一定遭殃!!


大宅

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發表於 05-11-22 16:22 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

千祈咪好心而害左其他香港人呀!!


男爵府

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發表於 05-11-22 16:36 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

我贊成MF的做法. 如果你唔想你媽媽覺得你好絕,MF的建議是一個可行的方法. 出一封類似香港公司的HR Dept經常會出的reference letter, 只說明Susan什麼時候在你家打過工便已足夠, 連job duties都可慳番唔寫, 因為佢根本做唔到.


大宅

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發表於 05-11-22 17:17 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

還有幾日好快過,齋寫邊時邊日係妳屋企做過不如慳番。


珍珠宮

積分: 41995


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發表於 05-11-22 17:23 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

[quote]
MF 寫道:
其實, 這個maid 的所作所為,我看全都是出於故意, 看她走後SMS給你的留言便知, 只是她到最後才看到嚴重性才求恕, 但誰知道她不會在得到你的reference letter找到新僱主後, 再SMS給你說”風涼”話呢?

她人品太差,你做對,唔好害了其她人.


複式洋房

積分: 312


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發表於 05-11-22 17:55 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

You do the right thing, don't blame yourself!

No need to keep such maid.


伯爵府

積分: 16557


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發表於 05-11-22 21:24 |只看該作者

Re: My Mother does not understand me

你媽咪太仁慈了. 不要被那些衰工人欺騙我們的善心!

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