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各位姊妹, please help to give advice, thks!

today I talked with a sister in Lord, she is 39 years old & already has 3 children, 1 son almost 1X years, 2 girls at around 3.X YRS & 1 at around 2.X yrs, she is now pregnanced for almost 19 weeks. She's found a very high ratio of 蒙古症 from blood test both at private clicnic & government clicnic. She will have a 抽羊水 test at the coming thursday. She phoned me & cried for my opinion. To my opinion, I wont blame her if she made a decision not to take the baby if there's really something wrong with the baby. I am a 過來人, I know her feeling. I asked her to pray the Lord and be faith to HIM...She feels anxious & 1516 now...What do you think???

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Re: 各位姊妹, please help to give advice, thks!

The Lord says: 'We can not take other's life'
That means even your baby in in your tummy. A baby is a gift from The Lord, even he/she is not to our standard we still have to love and take care of the baby. l know it's a very hard job to accept but if you see there are many momi's even not Christians, they love and take care of their babies(with probelms) very very much.

But once is not yet confirmed, have faith in the Lord, He will give you the best.

How high is the ratio ?
l had also very ratio when l was pregnant of my twins: 1/150 & 1/170
the doctor told me about the solutions l can take, but me and my husband just says:

'no matter how the babies are, we will take care of them and we will not take abortion'

But my twins boys are very normal and healthy babies.....just have faith in the Lord !!

God bless you and your baby !!

weight at 1 month: Dustin:4.38kg Robin: 4.2kg weight at 2 month: Dustin:5.65kg Robin: 5.4kg weight at 10-7-04: Dustin: 8.23kg Robin: 7.95kg Wish you all babies be blessed by our Lord Jesus Chirst. God loves you!!

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Re: 各位姊妹, please help to give advice, thks!

We are all created by God, loved by God, He did not pick the better ones to love, and Jesus died on the cross for us ALL when we are still sinners, He did not pick those who are healthy to died for.

It is hard to learn to love to put others before us, but Jesus is our encouragement and hope, avoid problem doesn't mean there won't be another one ahead, but learn to face each problem, God will give you strength! And He alone can set you free from all situation... (abortion is not the answer to set our hearts and mind free, but more burdens to bear!)

The Lord is our Shepherd...

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Re: 各位姊妹, please help to give advice, thks!

昨天也問了我的親妹妹，　我們都是這’種’有經驗的過來人，　她提醒了我很多，　基本上我們都沒有權去給任何意見，　無論那姊妹怎樣決定，　只要是她與神的決定就夠了，　因為真正要面對的，　要對神交待的，　也是他�她們！！　所以我只是叫她好好跟神禱告，　順服在神的大能中，　這樣才會看到天父的旨意；　讓我們也把姊妹交託神，　她的名字叫ｃａｒｏｌ，　ｔｈａｎｋｓ！

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耶和華是我的牧者，我必不致缺乏。
他使我躺臥在青草地上，領我在可安歇的水邊。
他使我的靈魂甦醒，為自己的名引導我走義路。
我雖然行過死蔭的幽谷，也不怕遭害，因為你與我同在；你的杖，你的竿，都安慰我。
在我敵人面前，你為我擺設筵席；你用油膏了我的頭，使我的福杯滿溢。
我一生一世必有恩惠慈愛隨著我；我且要住在耶和華的殿中，直到永遠。(詩篇２３）

自己心裏也斷定是必死的，叫我們不靠自己，只靠叫死人復活的神。
他曾救我們脫離那極大的死亡，現在仍要救我們，並且我們指望他將來還要救我們。（林後１：９－１０）
I'll pray for you!