My daughter is taking care by her grandfather and great grandmother (my husband side) in the morning. I usually wakes her up in morning, then we brush teeth and change into her school uniform, after that her grandfather and I takes her to school together. In the evening after I returned home from work, I always play with her and tell her bedtime stories and she likes me a lot, always wants to see me and doesn't like me to go to work.
So don't worry that your bb will not paste on to you. You just have to spend time with her (a lot of time).
i prefer he like to approach the relatives than the domestic helper, no matter the relatives is my parents or parents in law.
i heard that some of the BB willing to give a sugar to the Philipine domestic helper rather than give to mother, it's quite sad.
My baby is only 3 mths old. I also have a worry that my baby will "stick" to my 99. but I agree with Rose. it's too sad if I find my baby likes a domestic helper rather than my relatives