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發表於 12-4-13 13:17 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

- 23 yr old bun
- married
- with 2 sons (4 yr and 10 month)
- high school graduate
- with 2 yr experience of helper in Philipine only, no overseas exp.
- pretty
- mother-in-law has been working in HK for a single employer for 17 yrs
- get a tourist visa and travel to HK for 2 weeks particularly want to get a job (so i can have face-to-face interview with her)

I need a helper to take care of my son who is 1.5 yr old and if the helper is ok, i plan to have a 2nd BB next yr.

If you were me, will you hire this helper?

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333s tourist visa? 發表於 12-4-15 17:09

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發表於 12-4-13 13:21 |只看該作者

佢可能來到hk後就搵過另一份工.

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發表於 12-4-13 13:27 |只看該作者

回覆：Will you hire this maid?

Pretty is the key reason that I won't hire. You should go to wan chai 酒吧街 to have a look.

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333s 菲姐在酒吧街做三陪, hehe 有冇陪訓就唔知. 附近時鈡酒店多的是. 發表於 12-4-15 17:11

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游泳寶寶發表於 12-4-13 13:21
佢可能來到hk後就搵過另一份工.

Why do you think so?

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發表於 12-4-13 13:32 |只看該作者

貪靚媽發表於 12-4-13 13:27
Pretty is the key reason that I won't hire. You should go to wan chai 酒吧街 to have a look.

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Thank you 貪靚媽, so you mean she would try to 'find man' in HK even she is married and with kids?

And other than this, you think she is ok?

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發表於 12-4-13 13:37 |只看該作者

回覆：Will you hire this maid?

No, 淨係佢mother in law 都夠大穫，有咩都比佢教哂。manage 唔到個工人。我已好例子，未出過國打工，一樣有個奶奶香港20年，以為20年得係香港，有佢奶奶睇實會好d，起碼唔衰得去邊。點知，教哂我工人可以問僱主借錢，假期有權唔工作，明明係佢自己話假期唔放，要錢唔要假，無啦啦突然話要放，仲要一定而家出街，大大聲聲講"今日係我自己既假期"。放假例必唔會準時返，叫我唔好改動佢法定假期, 電話多過我，仲話有電話，但唔係無做野.....。以上所有野係第一個月就發生哂。

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ihv2kids 發表於 12-4-13 13:37
No, 淨係佢mother in law 都夠大穫，有咩都比佢教哂。manage 唔到個工人。我已好例子，未出過國打工，一樣 ...

Ha, i think the same as you, as her mother-in-law work for the same employer for 17 yrs, i think she should be ok.

Too bad that i have signed the contract already. What should i do?

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發表於 12-4-13 13:42 |只看該作者

回覆：Will you hire this maid?

你自己衡量下。我以後都唔揀未出過國打工個d，年齡over 40，多過4年出國我都怕怕。

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發表於 12-4-13 13:45 |只看該作者

回覆：Will you hire this maid?

Good luck to you!

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發表於 12-4-13 13:56 |只看該作者

(1) 靚真係請唔過 (a) 同一屋簷下, 大把機會勾引你先生 (b) 多男人追,點知會唔會野咩病返來 (c)可當副業搵快錢!
(2) 23歲太細, 佢地平日只會用心去玩電話, 上網, 上fb, 扮靚, 買到全屋都係衫褲鞋襪, 發白日夢! 家務湊b? 佢地真係唔掂ga! 好多時佢地自己d細路都係比自己媽咪或奶奶湊!
(3) 學歷高, 佢又點會甘心當女傭?! 一係就做一年之後申請過加拿大!
(4) 奶奶在港工作17年已成精, 最識玩嘢就係呢d工人呀!

總括來講, 冇樣好!

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發表於 12-4-13 14:05 |只看該作者

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好有同感，我上個月抄左個賓賓背景有少許相似，後生青春，亞媽响跑馬地工作了十幾年，當日打算請個賓賓時，佢好麻煩＆疑慮多多，自己做唔到決定，要打幾次俾亞媽問接唔接我地份job。到埗後，依然好多疑慮，成日問我地好多之前工人嘅野，煮飯都要打電話問亞媽，經常睇電話，仲有iPhone，經常check FB，放假經常遲返，出街時龍精虎猛，打扮新潮，大眼仔、鬆糕鞋、超短牛仔褲等，但返到屋企又成日話唔舒服，BB深夜唔舒服咳嗽，佢同房唔理，我地去理，佢仲嫌我地阻住佢瞓，搵張被＆枕頭蓋頭轉身瞓，第二日同佢講BB晚上有咩事佢應該幫手望一望，佢就黑晒面反駁話佢已經係星期日，係佢假期．．．所以我覺得有個做左十幾年嘅亞媽嘅賓賓絕對請唔過，因為大多數係公主。

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阿b得十個月就出來做野.. 我反而有擔心佢會唔會太miss佢個son
我唔會請, 加上仲要pretty?? no way~~~

pretty 的姐姐, 一般都唔太好... =.=
因為搵個男人仲好過打工lor~

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KonnyGreen 發表於 12-4-13 14:08
阿b得十個月就出來做野.. 我反而有擔心佢會唔會太miss佢個son
我唔會請, 加上仲要pretty?? no way~~~

Actually, i don't want a pretty maid, but pretty or not is not the main point i concern, so i didn't think about that before i sign the contract. But now, i feel a bit uncomfortable about that. Should i ask the agent to change? But now if i change, i need to pay that agency fee already.

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發表於 12-4-13 14:34 |只看該作者

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With a mother working in Hong Kong for a long period of time, she would compare a job with good environment and earnings. She is probably the rich generation 2nd and I doubt whether she could be stable to look for a job as domestic helper.
:;pppp:

If I were you expecting new baby to come, I will find a maid who supports her family much. She could strive hard to learn and easy to adapt unpleasant situations.

我工人主力負責照顧三隻貓大爺 !!!

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發表於 12-4-13 14:45 |只看該作者

Agreed to all above:
pretty and young: problem. Lots of male friends and so sms
Lacking of experience and young: may not willing to learn
Hv mother in law in hk: not teachable
I wouldnot hire one less than 30yrs old

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augustbee 發表於 12-4-13 14:34
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With a mother working in Hong Kong for a long period of time, she would co ...

Thank you augustbee.

To be honest, it's a hard decision to change the helper.
My current helper is ok in many aspects, she is 40, has 4 kids need to take care, hard working, smart and efficient. She has been working for me for 1.5 yr and my son likes her also.

However, when i asked her if she want to renew the contract for me, she request me to give her food allowance ($740) and if OT on sunday, she want $150/day. She also has a lot of finance problem, asked me to borrow her money of $15,000 last March, and this March another $5,000. I've lost a gold necklace last July, but i didn't call the police and thinking that i am not 100% sure it's her, so maybe it's not her. She would argue with me sometimes. So i think it's time to change to a new maid.

But then the helper i just signed the contract is not that good according to the above comments. I don't know what should i do now.

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augustbee I suspect the integrity of your current maid and agree to make a change. 發表於 12-4-13 16:22

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michelle2307 發表於 12-4-13 13:40
Ha, i think the same as you, as her mother-in-law work for the same employer for 17 yrs, i think sh ...

Last time I employed two siblings, one of them had been working in Hong Kong for 4 years (the younger one) while the other one never worked overseas. What happened was that they borrowed money from many different financial companies, one acted as the guarantor of another one and vice versa. They also brought mobile phones and computers by installments. After they got their loans, phones, and computers (estimated more than $100,000), they left within 10 days after their sudden resignation. I found out the loans and installments a few days after their departure, when the letters and phone calls arrived.

One of the thing that you can do to protect yourself is to keep her passport and contract which I regretted I didn't do in my case.

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AndyM It is illegal to keep the helper's passport unless she agree to do so! 發表於 12-4-13 17:52

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