U dnt want ur hubby to confront his sis nor mom and u r getting sick of taking care of them. Thgs dnt work this way though. I honestly think u should care more of ur own health and ur baby's. Imagine u r now with te baby would they still expect u to be as dutiful as u r right now? That's quite impossible. And I agree with some of the mothers here that they lived years of comfortable lives without ur service. being a good wife and good daughter in law doesn't necessarily means to be a good maid. It's basic fact that when the son gets married he is now a member of a new family...... His own! U didn't steal him from them. This is life and one of the most natural aspect of it........ And I honestly think they r taking u for granted. So what u live with them. U r not asking them to care for u additionally and they should not hv requested the same from u. Take care sis... It's a long way to go. Sometimes if u dnt stand up for urself it's hard for other to do so on ur behalf.