請咗個工人照顧newborn bb，佢到咗差唔多兩個月，唔識煮飯，清洁ok，我同老公要求唔高，覺得佢都算係咁。bb上個星期出世，呢幾日都係老公親手照顧，下個星期一老公要返工，琴晚諗住教定佢換片嗰啲嘢，等我唔駛太辛苦。佢應咗，跟住返房攞咗樽唔知咩出來搓喺佢手度，老公咩問佢係咩，佢竟然講係for protect her hands, because bb will infect her hands! 我問佢咩意思，佢話佢從來唔掂bb，如果唔搓嗰D, even her own daughter! 我聽咗問你咩意思，係唔係覺得bb dirty?佢咁係話唔係喇，話bb皮膚好敏感bla bla, 我即刻話 that is why I dont want to you use the unknown chemical on your hands. 佢猶豫一下講sorry 跟住去洗手。不過老公已經決定唔比佢換片，我都開始唔放心比佢掂bb.
宜加我心里開始唔舒服，佢竟然覺得bb會 infect her hands! 咁佢會錫bb嗎？佢洗我阿b啲衫同奶樽時都唔知做咗咩！呢幾個星期我可以睇實佢，唔比佢亂搞，產假後我要返工，唔知佢會做啲咩，好擔心佢會傷害到bb！
我係唔係諗多咗？如果係你，會點做呢？
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Raspberry2011
Install IP cameras la.....so u can see wat shes doing even when u r not at home...
發表於 12-5-6 22:50
If she is a mother, she wouldn't say that her hands will get infected from touching the BB.
I think you need to do as much as to protect yourself, install IP cam is a MUST and if after your maternity leave, you better ask elderly to come to visit as many days as possible. If this doesn't work, i think you must start looking for a replacement.
Maybe you try to hire EE, or send your BB to nursery, whatever the solution, you need to have a plan or before it's too late.
係呀, 先了解一下係咪有communication problems. 你分析同觀察左先. 如果你覺得真係唔得, 換人啦..
cooking 都係其次, 你唔係請chief..首要係take care of your baby. 呢樣好緊要, 同埋take care bb 要保持乾淨, 清潔..有耐性同愛心...
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