C if u trust or not. My sister in law got married and I didn't go as I was in 32wk. Actually . I prevent to go for any party or banquet. I prefer to take more rest and safe to the final point.
If u had unhappy exp before u will consider different things!! Its uneasy to arrive to the final point...
教 養 孩 童 , 使 他 走 當 行 的 道 , 就 是 到 老 他 也 不 偏 離 。 (箴22:6)
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6)