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meowmi


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發表於 06-1-8 17:51 |只看該作者

Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living room (

I have already reminded her thousands times that she has to wear more & thick clothes (I bought a "yu yung" for her and also gave my old jackets and lone thick T-shirt to her). She always tells me that she feels cold (that's why every morning she uses hot water to wash her faces) but when I ask her to wear more clothes, she turns deaf! Even in these coldest days, she only wears one long T-shirt inside + one short T-shirt outside (very odd but maybe she thinks it's fashionable)!

If I ask her to sleep in living room until she has recovered, am I too cruel?

I 'm worried that she will infect my baby (only 14-month-old)!!!!
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發表於 06-1-8 19:05 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

訓廳可能成世都病唔好wor..
不如你係佢病緊時同bb一齊訓啦
同埋一定要佢帶口罩呀
為了二小豬三小豬做了全職奴婢;好彩大豬生生性性^^
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發表於 06-1-8 21:23 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

My yanyan felt sick yesterday morning but she didn't told me until today.

Tonight my baby also has running nose :-( and I have a little bit fever!!!!! Thus, I can't sleep with my baby (I'm scare that I may infect my baby as well).

And, my baby can only sleep well in his own bed, othewise he will wake up 2 - 3 times during the midnight!

It seems that I have no choice but to ask my yanyan to sleep on sofa.
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發表於 06-1-8 22:03 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

I have same situation like you that my maid always wear less and finally got a flu. My son likes to sleep in his own bed (share a room with the maid) that's why I remind my maid to wear face mask when play with baby.

:-( :-(

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藍示


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發表於 06-1-8 22:53 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

從前........
上一代或再前.......的日子！
沒有女傭的沒有家丁沒有保母的日！

年幼孩子都是日夜跟隨在母親身邊！
母親感冒病了！母親亦不會因此而要與小孩隔離，
不隔離的話！？當然；小孩也會容易病起來，
大家都會辛苦。

既然家傭真的病了，做父母的就要接手把孩子接回照顧
一來可以足進孩子與父母的親密關係，
二來可讓女傭早日康服。
或許從前沒有家傭的日子，
孩子也是應由父母親自照顧的，
唔識！？學下囉！
辛苦！？你捨得不理孩子嗎？你的寶寶！
問題是母親或父親的責任何處去了？

家傭感冒病了！多多少少都會因為來自一個熱帶地方，
從來不用擔心天氣會變得有幾冷，
身體；自然沒容易適應了吧，
病倒了！一半屬於正常，一半是他的個人問題。
怪他也是沒有一點用處，
從前我的母親為免我在冬天病到！
他們至今亦千句萬句要我多穿衣服，
但我同樣地病倒，這是一種經歷。

穿多一點衣服當然不會容易患上感冒，
但是過於辛勞、睡眠不足、吃不夠飽、工作壓力、環境變遷！
很多很多問題，上班的你可知多少？
別怪他了！
要照顧好一個十四個月大的孩子是不輕易的事！∼

家傭的病沒好，一天不能好好的工作，
這一點比起睡在沙發上休息來說；對僱主一點好處也沒有！
感冒；成人一般來說兩至三天便會康服，
三天或四天後便會回服體力及精神

僱主與傭工的關係宜好不宜壞，
你待他不好！他心中有數！
在他病的時候！讓他睡沙發？
你自己計下條數吧！
那一條路比較好，明智的你 ~
應該了解吧。

別見怪文章中可能未盡了解閣下家中女傭的事，
建議好的話 ∼便算我幫了你一把，
但建議不好，請多多見諒。
meowmi 寫道:
I have already reminded her thousands times that she has to wear more & thick clothes (I bought a "yu yung" for her and also gave my old jackets and lone thick T-shirt to her). She always tells me that she feels cold (that's why every morning she uses hot water to wash her faces) but when I ask her to wear more clothes, she turns deaf! Even in these coldest days, she only wears one long T-shirt inside + one short T-shirt outside (very odd but maybe she thinks it's fashionable)!

If I ask her to sleep in living room until she has recovered, am I too cruel?

I 'm worried that she will infect my baby (only 14-month-old)!!!![/quote]
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magicmirror


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發表於 06-1-9 00:37 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

Take your maid to doctor, request injection for her (will recover faster). Check your maid to wear enough clothes at home. Take care of your baby by yourself, (better than take care by your maid) told your maid to wear a mask until she recover.
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magicmirror


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發表於 06-1-9 00:43 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

I do not agree to 藍示's opinion. In the past 1960, 1970, most of the housewife stay at home to take care of children and housework (full time housewife). Nowaday, most of the wifes have to go to work. We spent almost $4000 to hire a DH to help us. So the DH should be more considerable for the employers. Even our employers will not remind us to wear more clothes in the coldest days. If the DH's employer had remind her to wear more clothes but she disobey. How come the poor employer can do??? to force them to wear more clothes??? Be considerate to the poor empolyer, please!
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magicmirror


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發表於 06-1-9 00:50 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

針唔拮到肉就唔知痛!! 果D maid 個個都係做埋D克人憎行為!!! 可憐的僱主仲要比人話刻薄, 對拒地唔好
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hinhinmummy


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發表於 06-1-9 08:53 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

平心而論, 初時見到第一個message之後, 個心已經係樹諗, 點解個媽咪自己吾同個bb訓, 比工人自已好好休息一兩日, 好快好, 因為我自己會甘做

訓sofa, 講真, 你自己訓都覺得吾舒受/凍, 何況還係病緊?

如果講生保床, 點都要比bb試下啦, 吾通將來你吾會帶bb去旅行? 又或者係工人房訓著先, 跟住再推張bb床入你房樹又得吾得?
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發表於 06-1-9 09:35 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

工人病我會同個仔瞓. 雖然個個仔唔係好鐘意同我地瞓, 不過我都唔理咁多, 如果仲要個工人夜晚照顧個b咁佢有排都好唔返. 為雙方利益都係分開好d.
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藍示


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發表於 06-1-11 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

家家有本難諗的經
買羽絨咁正 ~

正所謂：唔窮！唔做使工人！
正所謂：唔笨！唔使做工人！

比件咁正的羽絨佢，佢好可能唔捨得著添呀 ~太矜貴了吧！
窮了大半生也沒有這種衣料，想；還是留起來。
或許這是他個人的美德。

家傭教唔聽就要想法讓他停止使用熱水洗面，
或者找代理公司的職員跟他聊聊吧！
別下下顯示責罵態度，這樣有損相方關係，
對你對嬰兒也不是最好的處理方式。
若要請他改善，你應在打開話題前先讚他加許他某事處理得宜，
之後讓他了解你在關心他並能夠容易讓他記得你所說的個人問題，從而得到改善，但別一次過話太多要改善的地方，一步一步處理吧！


在家傭生病時讓他睡於沙發上的對待是否太殘酷或殘忍，
這是見人見智！
有所謂家有家規，如果沙法是舒適的亦未嘗不可，
可能只是型式上過意不去吧了。

都是一句：家傭早日康服，對你一家都會是一件事。

有時別介意旁人的說話，
因為你的三言兩段文章，
別人又甚麼會真正了解你所面對的難題呢？
一切一切建意都當作是參考好了。
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藍示


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發表於 06-1-11 00:28 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

傭！是協助而不可依靠，
愈是依靠他就變成依賴，這是人性。

國有國法，家亦有家規！
再在最好的生活計劃中生活亦不一定生活得心滿意足，

有時用了香港人的文化尺度來做計算單位，
用作平估家傭的文化高低、遇事反應、觀念或工作態度，
此舉只讓是相方不快的局面，
亦只會讓僱主產生更多更多的不滿。

我的文章中，其實是建意其父母應把嬰孩接回照顧兩三天，
好讓家傭盡早康服！
其最終目的是希望嬰孩從長大過程中，
得到母親的愛，兩不是得到家傭的工作式照顧，
所說的是父母對嬰兒最少最少的責任。
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justjust


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發表於 06-1-11 10:50 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

驚告工人一定要穿足夠衣服和戴口罩﹐以免傳給小朋友﹐嚇佢再唔聽就要訓梳化隔離。記住﹐嚇下好啦﹐真係做﹐因住個工人懷恨在心﹐受既﹐都係你BB咋。

想真一層﹐如工人要傳俾BB﹐成日流流長﹐幾時都得啦﹐唔係剩係係睡房果幾個鐘。最好都係捉佢去睇醫生同等佢抖兩三日。
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發表於 06-1-11 21:35 |只看該作者

Re: Yanyan 感冒 (she shares the same room with my baby) ,可唔可以要佢 sleep in living

same situation as me last week........my maid, my hubby and i were got cold...........i ask my maid to wear clothes but refuse....she got headahce first and finally sick........and whole family got sick....except my bb....luckily may be because he is still under 6 month old so still strong that not being affected....but i ask my maid to take the mask she refuse.....even after see the doctor she didn't take the pills............


and i was very angry at that time (may be because i also not feel well.........) and speak very seriously to her..........that if dont take pill i will not allow u to touch bb....and she rush to take the pill at once....but i didn't move bb away but force the maid to open the door and windows when sleep..........

and finally ok la....bb ok...all family members are ok.......
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