If I were you, I would just fire her and find another one!!
I am a full-time mom, and my maid is only here to clean my place!!
I asked her not to touch my bb or go into his room when she first came!
One day I was pumping milk and my bb was crying very much. As I didn't want to stop the pumping, so I asked her to carry bb and stop him crying. After that she always came to me and said she wanted to carry him!!!! I said NO!!! and she asked me again and again for 3 times in a day!!! Also I asked her to hand me the towel during bb''s bathing and she was laughing very happily at him!!! very scary!!!! I was very annoyed so I told her not to go near my bb again!!!
Now when I need to go out, I will have to ask my mom to baby-sit my bb! I don't want the maid to go near him!!!
Now even I am not in bb's room, I will switch on the bb monitor to check if she goes into his room!
I have told few of my friends about the maid being crazy about my bb, they said it's ''dangerous'' to have my maid ''loving'' my bb like that, so I have hired a new maid and waiting for her to come!!