How come you don't want baby to be held as much as possible??
Studies have shown.... babies that are held more are likely to grow up to be more secure, smarter and with more self-confidence........
I really don't buy the Chinese saying " don't held your baby too much or you will spoil your baby...."
It's really not true!
Do you rather you maid not hold her or hold her all the time.... which one is better??