Cheerfulmama 寫道:
Dear 海豚晴晴媽咪,
If I were you, I will continue bringing baby to church. I will share my concern with pastor and ask him\her to talk to that brother directly. Of course, I am NOT asking the pastor to mention your case to that brother specifically. Instead, ask the pastor to tell that brother avoiding touching any baby or children in general. Perhaps other mothers share same concern as you. I am sure the pastor is skillful enough to talk to that brother and will not hurt him but just make me alert. I'll suggest you bringing your baby to church as it's good to play with other babies and learn God's words since childhood.
皇阿米 寫道:
um...其實有無其他人係熟果位弟兄架?如果有,不如去打聽下,佢個皮膚病其實係咩病,會唔會傳染..等等,我諗,斷估如果明知自己個病係會傳染人,都唔會專登仲去周圍抱人個bb la~!
其實我諗起,我教會有個小朋友,佢成手都係濕疹,仲要抓到損晒,其實,如果我唔係做左人阿媽,一望落去就知係濕疹,我都以為佢患嚴重皮膚病,我都會怕左佢,唔會去touch佢都未定呀~! 依家我會知道,佢唔會傳染人,咁就唔會怕囉
睡覺 寫道:
我也經常遇到這些令人不知如何應對的事情，我想是為人父母都常遇到的吧？
不止是皮膚問題，很多有鼻涕又痰多咳嗽的人往往都不知避忌的和小孩子接觸，做父母的又不好意思避開，真的令人好頭痛。
cheelfulmama的建議真的不錯呢﹗不過如果係我，我一樣唔知點開口同牧師講..
前幾天搭搭下lift時，有個患有傷風又唔帶口罩的女士入lift，我阿仔矮小，咁真係好危險，佢身體又唔係好。於是，我借d意叫仔仔過黎我身邊，點知阿仔大大聲咁話﹕「係咪果個人有病？(所以被我叫過黎)」
哈哈，lift入面的人都聽到哂了，噢，真的令全部人都好尷尬。
其實我平時有告訴阿仔，如果媽咪在街上突然叫住你，請你聽話過來媽媽身邊(他通常都唔聽話)，因為可能是由於有人吸煙或打乞次或咳嗽，媽咪想你避開，但又唔可以開聲俾人家知道。可能佢聽過我的忠告，所以今次佢明白...但童言無忌.......講到出口添，呵呵﹗
不過你的bb咁細，無法了﹗
), 特別如果她也是已為人母, 可能更能體會妳擔心矛盾的心情.Cheerfulmama 寫道:
Dear 海豚晴晴媽咪,
If I were you, I will continue bringing baby to church. I will share my concern with pastor and ask him\her to talk to that brother directly. Of course, I am NOT asking the pastor to mention your case to that brother specifically. Instead, ask the pastor to tell that brother avoiding touching any baby or children in general. Perhaps other mothers share same concern as you. I am sure the pastor is skillful enough to talk to that brother and will not hurt him but just make me alert. I'll suggest you bringing your baby to church as it's good to play with other babies and learn God's words since childhood.
林太太 寫道:
如果唔知點同牧師講, 試下同師母講LOH(如果有話
其實如果有屬靈長者或老友能夠提點一下那位弟兄(即使他的情況是不會傳染的), 對他的人際相處(教會內及教會外)也會有利. 很多時年青人(特別是單身未結婚的)與人相處方面未必留意到一些細節; 我們在教會內雖說是 "一家人" 但卻很多時只強調以愛心接納他人, 而未有在合宜的情況下提供一 些為人處事方面的提點, 以致有些基督徒(不知是否因為在教會內被 "寵壞"了?)出到社會在工作的環境中, 可能會在社交上表現得不成熟, 予人怪怪的感覺.....
又比如給糖果小朋友吃. 其實很多家長都不喜歡孩子吃太多零食或糖果, 但外人往往以此為愛心表現, 小孩拿了後就嚷著要吃.有時都令家長幾尷尬. 當然一方面家長有時都要學下睇開D, 但另一方面, 像我以前教會中的師母就懂得找合適機會 "教育" 我們, 不要隨便給糖果小孩, 要給就當著孩子面交給他父母; 又或一定要叮囑他, 要問過媽媽才可以吃. 這類涉及社交人際的事情, 有時由第三者作提點就最好, 有智慧的牧者傳道人導師等如果處理得宜, 能協助免卻會友間很多不必要的猜忌心病和誤會...
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